The 3 signals that the child will not be filial piety in the future, the second kind must be corrected immediately!

Last year' New Year's Eve visited a distant relative's house, and the relative's children were running around outside screaming and calling for heat, so they took off their coats.

In the winter, parents were afraid that their children were cold, so they picked up clothes to put them on for him, but they did not expect a scene that shocked everyone.

The child pushed away his parents and shouted: I said no, you stupid fork don't touch me!

It's like the words coming out of the mouth of an 8-year-old! The adults present were stunned and did not dare to make more accusations.

Only one old lady whispered: So young will scold her parents, and when she grows up, she will have to do it?

As the saying goes: three years old looks small, seven years old looks old. Whether the child will be filial or not in the future can be seen from some performances when he was a child.

If your child has these 3 manifestations, he is likely to grow into a "white-eyed wolf", parents must be vigilant!

Casually beat and scold parents

There was a news on the Internet that an 8- or 9-year-old boy was going to the supermarket with his mother, and because his mother refused to buy him a toy, he punched and kicked his mother, and dragged his mother's ear to bleed.

It is said that children are angels sent by heaven, but such children are completely here to collect debts!

The reason why children have become like this is also inextricably linked to the parents' way of education.

Because of pampering, so the child's offensive behavior is tolerated again and again; because of pampering, it turns a blind eye to the child's bad behavior, thinking that the child will grow up to be better...

But in fact, bottomless tolerance will only make children wrong again and again, and even ruin their future!

Parents have children, children have the obligation to maintain the most basic respect for their parents, and scolding behavior is never advisable. If a child begins to show signs, parents must not let it go.

You can talk to your child calmly first, find out what they are dissatisfied with their parents, and then adjust according to the actual situation.

However, if the child plays a small role and scolds the parents arbitrarily, then it must not be tolerated and must be severely punished, otherwise it will only cause greater disasters in the future.

Habit of dominating things

"Give me the remote control, I'm going to watch cartoons now."

"This dish is my favorite food, you are not allowed to grab it"

"This toy is fun, I want, give it to me!"

Life often see such children, they are called "little overlords", as long as they like what they want, never care about the ideas of others, just want to occupy for themselves.

Because parents love their children, they are willing to give all the good things to their children, but unconsciously, they let the children be infected with the habit of "little bully", thinking that all good things are taken for granted by themselves.

Such a child does not understand the parents' love for their children and good intentions, so they will not be grateful to their parents, and they will not return to their parents equally when they grow up.

Therefore, parents must not blindly respond to their children's needs, let them understand that the world is not revolving around him, and no one must meet his every request.

Only in this way can children learn to think from the perspective of others, learn to think for the sake of others, and slowly understand that sharing is a virtue.

Teacher Xiaogu of the Parents' Must-Read Lecture Hall said: Parents' doting on their children is a dose of poison fed to their children, which will ruin their children's future.

Don't know how to be grateful

I have seen a story before: my mother is going to the hospital for surgery, and instead of showing concern, my 23-year-old daughter asks her family: You have all gone to the hospital, who will make me lunch?

Which parent would like to ask you that doesn't feel cold when you hear this? Children who do not know how to be grateful are like a thorn in the heart of their parents.

As soon as the child is sick, the parents are busy and busy all night to take care of it, and the parents are sick, but the child is like no one, should eat and play;

Parents always leave good food and drink to their children, and children have good things, but they only care about their own exclusive enjoyment;

Parents work hard to make money, invest in their children, but the children spend money outside, buy the latest mobile phones, wear luxury brand clothes...

Children who grow up in such an environment do not know how to feel sorry for the efforts of their parents, and when they grow up, they will naturally not know how to repay their parents, be filial to their parents, and will not fulfill their obligations as children.

Therefore, for children to learn to be grateful, they must start from an early age.

Appropriately refuse the child's request, do not respond to their needs, and some things should be obtained by the child through their own efforts;

Do not blindly be good to the child, do not put all the attention on the child, learn to hurt yourself, take care of your partner;

Teach children to say thank you, guide children to learn to share, and let children experience the happiness of "giving roses and leaving incense in their hands".

Filial piety to parents is a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, and a child who is filial to his parents will certainly not live too badly.