As a teacher, there is no one who does not like obedient and sensible children because they are willing to accept the discipline of the teacher. And for the naughty and mischievous children who beat people with their hands, the teachers are very bored, because such children often behave badly, are not willing to accept discipline, and sometimes even the class will be made by him - such a child, which teacher does not feel big when he meets it?
Such children generally can't sit still, but also aggressive, and will attack others at every turn, causing harm to people. Some people may say that this should be a middle school student, but not necessarily - the primary school student is overbearing and even the teacher has no way to control it. Elementary school students have nothing right or wrong, there is no weight, and attacking classmates often brings unexpected harm. Whatever the reason, the school and the class teacher cannot shirk their responsibilities. If a class has such a two "little overlords", then the teacher of this class can only live like a thin ice, because once he hurts other students, then this responsibility cannot be removed, and the teacher must face it.
There is such a person in Shenzhen, Guangdong Province. There were 47 students in the class, and from the first grade to the fourth grade, the whole class was injured to varying degrees, and the injured person was a 10-year-old elementary school student. Can a 10-year-old child be so domineering? Eh, he is really a "super little devil" who is not afraid of heaven, and even the teacher can't do anything about him.
He played with the neutral pen alone, and suddenly inserted the pen into the head of his classmate, so that the classmate's head broke and bleed; he walked, the classmate blocked him, he stretched out his claw, he would leave five finger prints on the face of the classmate; he saw a fun toy, he would grab, do not give, will hit your eyes to swollen and bleeding or let the back of your head stitch, and spit to people, pull hair is when there is emotion to come...
Looking at the bloody photos, no one can believe that these are the "masterpieces" of a 10-year-old child. People can't imagine how much hatred this has to be, how vicious it is in his heart, to be able to do this poison, but he did it, or a 10-year-old little devil.
Some people may say, isn't there still a teacher in the class? But the teachers couldn't do anything about it either. When the teacher is in class on the podium, he will suddenly come with a scream that makes people frightened. You glare at him, and he smiles at you. And when you turn your back to writing on the blackboard, he runs up to the podium and wipes your writing clean. You push him to the classroom door, he eats his finger at you, and as soon as you turn around, he sits in his seat again...
The teacher found his parents to reflect that he hoped that the parents could manage the child, but the parents did not think so, thinking that this was the child's personality. What is the need to limit a child's nature in elementary school? Hearing this parent's remarks, the teachers can only be speechless -- they can neither be dissuaded nor expelled, so let him run amok in the classroom.
However, parents can not do it, there is such a world report, children can not even guarantee personal safety, let alone learning. They ask the child's parents for advice, but the parents don't care at all – what's the big deal between the kids?
The parents jointly reported the matter to the school and the education bureau, suggesting that the child withdraw from school, but it was all in the sea. Therefore, parents with good things stabbed the media. In the face of the media, the child's parents are still light and breezy, "These are all small bumps between children!" "Can this little bump beat the child to the hospital?" It's just bizarre.
In response to the suggestions of parents asking him to take his children to the hospital, he was even more dismissive, "His children are only slightly different from other children." My child obviously has no problem, why should I take my child to go for a test and prove to you what the problem is? ”
Although this matter was blown up, the final result was not resolved. Those parents still have to live in torment, and the teachers are afraid every day.
Habits are like killing children. A parent is too spoiled for his child, and even the adult child does not discipline him, and he also allows himself to go. In the end, the function of suffering is his own children, because society will eventually teach him the most profound lessons, and even the parents will suffer because of this - are there fewer such examples around us?
When a child hits someone, he is actually venting his bad emotions. This is a form of self-redemption, but when he hurts others, it should not be. In the child's heart, he cannot distinguish between right and wrong, and he does not know how to vent his emotions to be reasonable. At this time, parents should take the initiative to guide their children, rather than conniving and shielding. Connivance and concealment can only be the child's further and further down the wrong path.
Adult children, as parents, do not stop in time and help children to correct, children may go astray. Children will think that hitting someone is the best way to solve the problem. In this way, he will be beaten by society - and in the end, he can only harm the child.
When educating children, parents must first lead by example, set an example for their children, and do something and do nothing. Many children beat people, and the root cause is in their parents, who are simple and rude in dealing with family problems, and solve problems with their fists at every turn. Children from such families are more likely to have violent tendencies.
When a child hits someone, parents should ask the reason, and try to think about the problem from the child's point of view, find the crux of the problem, and then prescribe the right medicine. When educating children, we must convince people with reason and make them realize their mistakes. For children with this tendency, parents should have patience and perseverance, and strive to let children develop good behavior habits in their daily lives.
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