The term "concentration", which should be familiar to everyone, refers to a person's ability to concentrate on one thing at a time. Children with concentration are mostly bullied, because they are highly concentrated in the classroom, quick thinking, quick response, keep up with the rhythm of the teacher, and the learning effect is better.
Concentration needs to be cultivated from an early age, how the child's concentration is, at the kindergarten stage, it will first see, if the child has a phenomenon of inattention, do not take it seriously, it is related to the child's future academic development, and needs to be consciously trained and trained.
To cultivate children's concentration, parents do four things well, one of which can not be less
1. Change unintentional attention to intentional attention
The memory of young children is characterized by unconscious memory, you will find that if you often read to your child, read it several times, over time, the child will naturally recite it, giving parents a little surprise.
If we go with the flow of nature and develop freely, this memory process will be slower, if we solemnly tell the child: "Today we are going to memorize this poem, we will read it several times together, and then we will recite it together to see who can recite it faster." ”
When the child receives this message, the attention will be more concentrated, the action will be more engaged, and the child and the mother will be encouraged to compete together, full of challenges, the child hopes that he can win, the mother can encourage the child, show weakness first, let the child win, the child will like this game.
Give children the provision to complete tasks in a limited time, have a sense of crisis, and have more awareness of the concept of time, which can train children to improve their concentration.
2. Do not interrupt the child
Psychologists point out that "around the age of 2 is the most critical period for children to cultivate concentration." Every child's innate concentration is very strong, and concentration is often inadvertently destroyed by the mother.
Some children play with a toy, do a game can play a lot of tricks, enjoy it tirelessly, only you can't think of it, no he can't do it, it is very able to toss, when the mother is accompanied by tired.
Children who can play are more concentrated, but when the mother always forks, the child is drawing, you feel that the home is colorful, forcibly stop, keep the so-called tidy; children play puzzles, you point at the side, destroying the child's concentration.
For a long time, what the child does is three minutes of heat, the performance in the kindergarten is not satisfactory, others are concentrating on learning to sing and dance, the child's mind does not know where to run, it is easy to lose his mind.
3. Create an environment that enhances concentration
Now parents are very important to the child's early education, educational toys and books, a variety of novel and interesting things to buy a lot, if the indoor environment is too varied, children's attention is easy to distract, see which want to play, but can not play for long.
If you want to improve your child's concentration, you should try to make the indoor environment single, less sensory stimulation, less opportunity to be tempted, and only place the books or educational toys that the child wants to learn at the moment, and the child is more likely to concentrate on learning.
When children are learning, parents should also pay attention not to look at mobile phones, television or computers, children are easy to imitate, electronic products have a natural attraction for children, it is easy to crush children's concentration.
When the child looks at the mobile phone, it seems to be very focused, in fact, it is passive to receive information, relaxed and pleasant, does not improve the child's ability to think deeply, and the paper version of the book is learned, the child can repeatedly speculate and think deeply.
4. Do concentration games
Playing games with children can improve children's concentration, and many parents are a little disgusted when they hear the game. In fact, the game can cultivate a lot of children's abilities in a subtle way, and can also enhance the parent-child relationship.
For example, playing checkers with children, backgammon, Schult squares, listening games, concentration game books, etc., children naturally love to play, this kind of play has a strong puzzle effect, can enhance children's concentration.
How does the child perform at home, parents may have some "fans of the parties", you can ask the child's teacher, how is the child performing in the class? Generally, the teacher will speak more objectively, praise the child's strengths, and make pertinent euphemisms for the child's shortcomings.
Children are not the material for learning, the key is to look at concentration, want to improve children's concentration, there are methods and skills, you can do games to cultivate children's concentration.
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