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Since having children, there are more things about babies at home, and in addition to the necessary bottles and baby clothes, the most are actually toys, which also brings about the problem of storage and sorting.
It is estimated that many mothers have complained that there are too many toys at home, children have not stored them in time, and large and small toy cars, building blocks, and parts are scattered on the ground.
Although there is a shelf for storage in the home, it is also useless, and the big toy room has no place to stay, which old mother can see if the blood pressure soars?
If you do this every time, not only is it troublesome to clean up, the child will become more and more unruly, if you also have the same baby and messy toys at home, you may wish to see how the post-90s mother let the child obediently store the toy.
Post-90s mothers have a simple trick to let their children willingly store toys
The mother found small toys scattered on the ground and called for her daughter to clean up, but the daughter was not moved, so the mother turned around and opened the door to get a broom, ready to sweep away the toys that her daughter did not collect.
Probably frightened by her mother, her daughter hurried over and began to clean up, but she did not seem to be afraid of her mother throwing away the toys, not only did not tidy up well, but picked up the toys and played with them, completely ignoring the urging of the mother on the side.
The mother is in a hurry, but the girl is not hurried or even a little rubbing, which makes the mother who was already angry can't stand it, and the irritability value soars.
So the mother can not care about the gentle whispering waiting for the daughter, directly "violent" to collect the toy, then the daughter panicked, quickly speed up the speed of receiving the toy.
Soon, the toys scattered on the ground were all put away by the girl, and in contrast to the previous mess, the toys were stored up a lot cleaner, and I had to praise the mother when I saw it.
Why are children always reluctant to put away toys?
First of all, many times the child may not be unwilling to accept the toy, but there is no concept of receiving toys in the mind, and it is reasonable to think that the toys should be stacked on the ground, or the home itself is very chaotic, so that the child does not want to store and organize.
Secondly, the child's ability is limited, and he may not know how to store it, and the larger toys also store "immovable". Of course, most children do not accept it because they are too dependent on their parents.
In addition, many parents do not care, thinking that it does not matter whether the child will be stored or not, and it will not play for a few years. But in fact, storing toys is not as simple as whether the home is tidy or not.
If children do not receive their own toys from an early age, they will not pay attention to other things, and their sense of responsibility will become weaker. Children who do not accept children from an early age will not take the initiative to take on housework when they are slightly older, and laziness affects life and marriage in adulthood.
Therefore, whether it is for their own or their children's future, parents must let their children learn to store and organize their own toys.
Let the child store the toys by themselves, and the parents can make a little trick
Be appropriately cruel to your child
"Lazy mothers raise children who are diligent" is not empty, the more parents do, the less children do, the weaker their ability.
Parents should be hard to not help their children, let the children have a sense of crisis, or imitate the mother above, as long as the parents can be appropriately hard, they are not afraid that the child will not take the initiative to collect toys.
Bootstrap + hint
If the home is always messy, don't blame the child, parents must first do a good job of home hygiene, give the child a clean environment, so that the messy toys and the neat and tidy at home are incompatible, psychologically hinting at the child.
Of course, only psychological cues are far from enough, parents should also be properly guided, such as buying some storage racks for children, and consciously helping children develop the habit of returning things to their original places.
Switch to a way that is more acceptable to your child
If the storage and finishing make the child feel that there is a burden and pressure, then turn the tidying toy into a game or competition, such as the mother doing housework, the child collecting toys, and the child competing with the child who completes it first, this easy way the child accepts it faster.
"Let the child do" is more difficult than "teach the child to do", parents inevitably have to "wrestle with the child", the process will be complicated and difficult, but the result is good and worth it.