<人物背景介绍>
Xiang Huaqiang, a Hong Kong female billionaire, can be said to be a clear stream among Hong Kong millionaires. Not only does she have a lot of money, but what is even more commendable is that as a mother, she carries three children in one hand: the eldest daughter Xiang Junling, the second son Xiang Zuo and the third son Xiang You. It's just that these three children have their own mothers, and the story starts to be interesting here.
Xiang Junling is the only daughter born to Xiang Huaqiang and his first wife Ding Pei. Ding Pei was originally a well-known film and television star, but later for the sake of his family, he took the initiative to fade out of the entertainment industry and be a good wife and mother wholeheartedly. She admires independent and self-reliant women, and teaches her daughter Xiang Junling from a young age to instill the values of self-reliance and self-reliance.
Xiang Zuo and Xiang You are the sons of Xiang Huaqiang and his second wife Chen Lan. Chen Lan is a small model from a civilian family, and later married into a wealthy family with her sweet and lovely appearance, and lived a worry-free life of Kuotai. However, if you want to say that her biggest characteristic is that she dotes on her children.
As the eldest daughter, Xiang Junling has received an independent education concept since she was a child, and she is neither spoiled in the palm of her hand nor strictly disciplined. She has a tough and independent personality, both well-behaved and polite, but also has her own opinions.
When he grew up, Xiang Junling stayed away from the entertainment industry, but he was like a standard "rich daughter". At the age of 44, she is tall and slender, with outstanding temperament, with delicate hair in a delicate bun and wearing designer clothes, showing her luxury. It's just that I don't know when it started, everyone is used to calling her "Sister Ling", and she is very stylish when she hears it.
However, Xiang Junling is not a "rich wife" who is interested in leisure. She has had a strong interest in business and investment since she was a child, and later went all the way up, founded her own investment company, and served as the chairman, and the family assets in her hands are also in the hundreds of millions. It is said that even Li Ka-shing, the richest man in Hong Kong, was impressed by her when he saw her, and praised "the little girl is amazing".
I don't know if it was influenced by his mother Ding Pei, or if he was born with such a personality. Xiang Junling is not too obsessed with her love life, and until today, at the age of 44, she is still alone. However, she seems to enjoy it, and she has devoted her good years to the development of her career, which she has never regretted.
<向佐 向佑- 出师未捷 败家子>
As a son, Xiang Zuo has been spoiled by his mother Chen Lan since he was a child and has been spoiled to the sky. His birth was destined to return to his hometown, even if he was not very interested in the entertainment industry from the beginning, but relying on his family's resource background, he entered the entertainment industry in a blink of an eye.
If you want to talk about Xiang Zuo's debut, you have to mention his outstanding appearance. He has been known as the "little male god" since he was a child, with thick eyebrows and big eyes, handsome and chic, like the young Xiang Huaqiang. It's a pity that he later mixed into the entertainment industry, and relied on his outstanding appearance and background to successfully enter the film and television industry, but his excessively selfish personality has always hindered his acting career.
However, Xiang Zuo's real turnaround came from participating in reality TV shows. Through the exposure of the show, he not only gained a lot of fans, but also met the popular actress Guo Biting, and the two fell into a sweet period of love. The next is even more beautiful, not only in the mainland circled a large number of fans, but even the Hong Kong audience was sweetly cried by the love dog food between the two.
What is gratifying is that Xiang Zuo and Guo Biting have a deep relationship, and finally achieved positive results. However, when he really entered the film and television industry and worked hard, Xiang Zuo seemed to be able to do it. In terms of acting skills and works, he seems to always be just a "little transparent", and he is simply different from his sister Xiang Junling in his career. But with a wife as a companion and a mother and sister to explain, Xiang Zuo seems to be enjoying it.
Compared with the eldest brother Xiang Zuo, the fate of the youngest son Xiang You is even more bumpy. His natural rebellious personality, coupled with the doting of his mother Chen Lan, made him develop the habit of drinking and causing trouble since he was a child, and he was a complete "loser".
Many people say that Xiang You's appearance is somewhat similar to that of his brother Xiang Zuo, but his appearance is more sturdy, his body is more bloated, and he looks rude. When he was young, he did evil, got into fights, and was repeatedly imprisoned for breaking the law and committing crimes, and the family had a headache as you can imagine.
However, in the end, Xiang You's fate is also sad. As the son of Hong Kong tycoon Xiang Huaqiang, he should have lived a carefree life, but his rebellious nature and his mother's doting on him led him astray. Fortunately, he also knows how to stop losses in time, and now that it has passed, it has converged to a point of seventy-seven eighty-eight, but the family is not very willing to disclose his information.
<对比分析>
In the final analysis, the biggest reason for the different fates of Xiang Huaqiang's three children is the different educational concepts and methods of their mothers.
First of all, judging from the educational results, the eldest daughter Xiang Junling is undoubtedly the most outstanding of the three siblings. She not only has a successful career, but also is quite stable and wise in life, which is simply a perfect portrayal of a strong woman. This is all thanks to her mother Ding Pei's educational philosophy, which is to cultivate her daughter's independent and self-improvement qualities from an early age.
In contrast, the two sons, Xiang Zuo and Xiang You, were not so lucky. Although the resource background is not bad, the trajectories of their fates are very different, one is struggling in the entertainment industry, and the other is displaced. The main reason may be that the doting mother Chen Lan has made the two brothers arrogant and indulgent since they were young, lacking independence and responsibility.
Although the difference in educational philosophy has had a significant impact on the development of the three siblings. But education alone can hardly completely determine a person's fate. After all, the individual's natural temperament, as well as the degree of self-effort, also play a key role.
Take Xiang You as an example, although he is rebellious by nature, it is absolutely unreasonable to say that he lacks talent. Xiang Youke is a typical "flamboyant personality", whether it is a strong appearance or a majestic physique, he has a taste of wild carrying when he is young. If he is willing to develop honestly in the film and television industry, he may be able to show his skills and advance into the ranks of martial arts stars.
It's a pity that the heroes are no longer the heroes, which led to Xiang You's repeated violations of the law later, and the title of the loser came from this. But then again, being able to be a new person in prison can be regarded as a major turning point in Xiang You's life.
As for Xiang Zuo, although he is mediocre in his acting career, no one can deny that his extraordinary appearance and temperament are definitely born with "excellent genes". It is with this talent that he has been able to thrive in the film and television industry for so many years, and will not be completely reduced to a "little transparent".
Moreover, Xiang Zuo's popularity is also outstanding, otherwise it would be difficult to marry the popular actress Guo Biting. Although the marriage between the two has been criticized a lot, one thing is certain, that is, Xiang Zuo knows how to grasp the things that are within his part, and finally achieved positive results and lived another happy life.
In contrast, the achievements of the eldest daughter Xiang Junling are even more outstanding. She has received a good education since she was a child, not only has outstanding personal cultivation, but also is shrewd, capable, and wise, and is definitely a "strong woman in her career".
If she was born in an ordinary family, I am afraid that she can only sing the song of declining work in the office in this life; And born in a wealthy family, she has enough resources to show her strengths, which is the supreme advantage of the "rich family".
<母女情谊淡>
In addition, judging from the family situation of the three siblings, it is not difficult to find that their relationship with their own mother is also very different. Taking Xiang Junling and his mother Ding Pei as an example, because Ding Pei's early career ideals were left behind and he devoted himself wholeheartedly to the family, the relationship between the mother and daughter seems to be invisibly alienated a lot.
Xiang Junling, as Ding Pei's only daughter, has been running around with her mother since she was a child, and her life is quite simple and poor. Although Ding Pei educated her well, on an emotional level, the two did lack some mother-daughter intimacy. Now Xiang Junling has a successful career, and he is also courteous to his mother, but the distance naturally widens.
In contrast, Xiang Zuo and Xiang You, who are mothers and boys, have a more harmonious relationship with their mother Chen Lan. As a standard "obedient and good daughter-in-law", Chen Lan can be said to dote on her two sons to the extreme, so much so that Xiang You later became a "loser", and everyone blamed her pampered education style.
But having said that, it is clear that even if Xiang Zuo and Xiang You encounter setbacks, they have not completely lost themselves with the support of their mother's love. Chen Lan has always been tolerant and tolerant of them, and has done her best to protect and care for her sons. Perhaps because of this, the three siblings can each find a way out and purpose in life at a certain stage of their lives.
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In general, Xiang Huaqiang, a seemingly decadent and declining wealthy family, finally regained his vitality because of the careful care of three women. They influenced and changed the family in their own way, allowing the three siblings to find their own way out. This is undoubtedly a rather inspirational and heartwarming family legend.