For parents, children are regarded as flesh-like existence in their hearts, and "holding it in their hands for fear of falling, and holding it in their mouths for fear of melting" is a good description of this kind of love of parents for their children. But loving children does not mean that they will not make mistakes, such as the following father, because of his own impulsiveness, resulting in his children need to be fed for life.
When it happened, the baby's mother went out to work and could not come home until 6 days later, during which time the three children in the family had to be cared for by the father. It happened at noon on the third day after the mother went out to work, the 4-month-old baby was vigorously shaken by the father because he had been crying and not sleeping, and the 6-year-old daughter saw it and came forward to dissuade her, and because of this, she was beaten by her father.
That night, the 4-month-old son began to foam, but the father did not take it seriously until two days later, when the child was unconscious, he remembered to call the child's grandmother and ask how to deal with the situation, and the grandmother advised him to take the child to the hospital quickly.
Unfortunately, everything is late, the 4-month-old baby suffered irreparable damage to the brain due to the violent shaking of the father, and the baby's condition further deteriorated because there was no first time to send the doctor. Although doctors have worked hard to save the child's life, this 4-month-old baby will never walk or talk and will need to be fed and cared for for the rest of his life.
Poor mom didn't know all this until her 6-year-old daughter's school called to ask why she wasn't in school, and when she got home she asked her husband why he did it. The child's father tearfully said that he was impulsive, the child's crying and not sleeping made him angry, he did not know that there would be such serious consequences...
Unfortunately, similar things happen a lot every year because parents don't know the severity of shaking their babies. In fact, when less than one year old, the baby's head is very fragile, at this time the baby's neck is also relatively soft, but also can not play a role in support, at this time if the baby is shaken violently, the baby's brain will collide back and forth in the head, which may lead to permanent damage to the baby's brain, even if cured there will be many sequelae, this symptom is called infant shaking syndrome. Therefore, all the mothers and fathers must control their emotions, and do not cause lifelong harm to the baby because of their own impulsiveness!