Kids in kindergarten are playing?
In kindergarten life and learning, teachers will find that parents give their children leave is too casual! A message, or a phone call, the parent will give the child a leave of absence, do not care at all. As everyone knows, going to kindergarten intermittently will have a bad impact on children.
Anyway, it's all play, it doesn't matter if you go or not?
How many people have the impression that life in kindergarten is carefree, eating and drinking in kindergarten, doing games, singing and dancing and listening to stories.
The child is playing in kindergarten, but it is "playing in middle school".
Kindergarten is also a critical period for children to develop habits and qualities, you think it doesn't matter if you take a few days off, or every three or five days off, but in the end it will only make your child not fall in love with kindergarten.
The small class only entered the kindergarten, the child's separation anxiety is not adaptable, and it is necessary to take leave to adjust the state, in fact, the parents are not adaptable.
For example, the weather is too cold in winter, and the child can't get up to take half a day off. A month before the winter vacation, be prepared to take your children to play, go to kiss and so on!
No matter how the teachers in the child's class persuaded, some parents always agreed with their mouths, but the child insisted on less than half a month, and it was three days and two ends of the leave.
From the small class to the large class, the gap and difference between the child and the child in the class is particularly obvious due to the long-term leave! Parents did not care, and as a result, they later learned that after going to elementary school, they suffered a big loss.
Children often make trouble, take leave and don't want to go to school, and the primary school class teacher is not as good at talking as the kindergarten teacher!
Moreover, the delay in learning progress is not willing to be carried out by parents themselves.
Intermittent schooling is harmful and cannot be ignored
It is not conducive to the child's daily routine cultivation and persistence
Whether it is a small class entering the kindergarten or the beginning of each semester,
The daily routine determines the child's adaptation.
1. It is not conducive to getting along with other companions
Children who often take leave will not only miss the daily activities of the kindergarten, including games and regular activities, but also difficult to participate in group activities, which will inevitably affect the familiarity and intimacy between children and their peers in the long run, resulting in a sense of strangeness and deep emotion. For the kindergarten peers, they will also feel that this child is special, so it is not conducive to the interaction between peers.
2. Affect the growth and development of children
When winter arrives, some parents will ask their children for leave because of the cold weather, children can't get up in the morning, in fact, this time should be a good time to exercise, but they stay in the bed for a morning, and a short sense of comfort will bring great harm to children. Kindergarten one-day activities are not as simple as some parents think, one-day activities are strictly formulated and implemented in accordance with the law of development, exercise children's multiple skills, and promote children's all-round development and growth in edutainment.
3. Lack of awareness of rules
Children who often take leave are prone to lack of awareness of rules and are more likely to give up lightly. Because in their conception, everything can change with their own joys and sorrows. As a parent, you should give the right guidance and education, teach your children to learn to persevere, do things without procrastination, and work together to develop a time management table.
4, resulting in irregular life
In the kindergarten, there is a corresponding time for a day's activities, and the teacher will consciously correct and cultivate the children's living schedule and self-care ability. In the kindergarten, the children's life is very regular and efficient, eating and sleeping on time, which is also beneficial to the healthy development of the child itself. Always take leave, and the good habits that children have built up so hard are easily destroyed.
5. Affect the emotional connection between teachers and students
Leave of absence of children for the teacher's trust is bound to be much lower, just imagine, the child in their own unfamiliar class environment, children or teachers, are every three to five only see once, inevitably will produce a sense of distance, which is not conducive to the establishment of intimate relationships and emotional connections between teachers and students, teachers can not more carefully observe the development of children, understand the child's ability and so on.
6. Affect the cultivation of ability
Although there is no bookish systematic education in kindergartens, the ability and habits cultivated in kindergartens are indeed very critical, and the abilities and habits of small children are exercised in kindergartens continuously and step by step, and always asking for leave not only delays the development of children themselves, but also breaks the habits of long-term maintenance.
7. Influence the habit of perseverance
It is said that any education must be grasped from an early age, and it is difficult for parents to persist, so how can they expect their children to be able to cultivate it? Parents casually give their children leave, will make children feel that going to kindergarten is a very casual thing, do not insist on it does not matter, over time such a psychology will be reflected in other aspects, such as when learning, when doing other things, always can not stick to it.
Children insist on entering the kindergarten, and parents learn to let go
Is it a kindergarten child who wants to take time off? At first, she didn't know what a leave of absence was!
In fact, it is not the child who asks for leave, more often than not, the parents want to ask for leave for the child. The root cause of the leave is that parents have not yet learned to really let go. I always feel that the child is still young, and I always feel that the child cannot do without himself! It is not that the child cannot do without you, but the parents cannot do without the child.
Let the child insist on entering the kindergarten, parents learn to let go, and then make preparations in advance. Do a good job of home co-education, communicate with teachers about children's situation in the kindergarten, and listen to teachers' real feedback to children. Don't just be willing to listen to good, what is really beneficial to the child's development is to learn about the child's problems from the teacher. Secondly, take your child to exercise more, and exercise with your child to improve immunity. It is inevitable to be sick, but we can reduce the number of times we are sick. At the same time, whether it is school or vacation, go to bed early and get up early, and develop good habits of work and rest. Finally, enter the park on time, do not arrive late, do not leave early, and cultivate the concept of time!
Teacher's message: It is easy to take leave for kindergarten children, but it is easier to break the good habits that children have developed!
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