The relationship between relatives and friends is particularly important in interpersonal relationships, especially in this cold and warm society, having a good relative and good friend is even more precious. Relatives and friends are often interconnected, especially for families who have children with each other, many people will give some things of their children as gifts, especially clothes.
In the past, whoever gave a child a few pieces of clothing to wear was very likeable, but now the conditions of every household have been able to meet the normal expenses of a child, and the clothing supplies sent by relatives and friends are actually no longer valued. But because children grow up very fast, even if they receive others to wear used clothes, they are still very new, which is of course acceptable, but some things, no matter how new and valuable, are better or not to receive them.
Yuan Li is a mother in the northeast, because of the customs and customs of the reasons around her is very many friends, the neighbors are also very good, relatives between the walking is also very frequent, on weekdays who have any good food will share with each other, what labor will also help each other, the relationship is very harmonious.
Yuan Li is a child who only has three years after marriage, and everyone comes to see her after the child is born, and usually sends some things that their children have not worn. Two days ago, the neighbor sent a bottle, saying that her child had stopped eating milk powder, so this bottle was idle, but when I first bought this bottle, it took hundreds of dollars, thinking that it was very good, I gave it to Yuan Li and asked her to change the pacifier to use it directly.
Yuan Li didn't think much about this bottle, thinking that there was no problem in boiling the bottle for a pacifier, so she replaced the bottle she bought before, but this bottle just used the child's diarrhea, which frightened her, and hurriedly took the child to the hospital.
After the examination, the doctor said that it was a bacterial infection and asked Yuan Li what she had given the child to eat, and Yuan Li thought and thought. The doctor was instantly angry when she said this bottle, asking her how dare she casually use something that other children have already imported? Even if the nipple bottle is changed, it has been used, and the quality and hygiene are no longer guaranteed, so Yuan Li can quickly replace it when she goes home.
Indeed, for some things sent by relatives and friends, do not accept them all, because these may affect the health of the baby, and when the time comes, it is necessary to know the human feelings and let the baby suffer, why bother? Especially these three things, Bao Ma must pay attention to rejection.
The most important thing to refuse is the bottle that has been imported, the water cup and some biting rubber toys that massage the gums, the price of this type of thing is indeed relatively expensive, but do not covet cheap use of others. Because this kind of item has been used, itself may have a lot of bacteria residue, even if the disinfectant will inevitably be incomplete, and everything will have its use period, this kind of item has been repeatedly used by the last baby and disinfected, quality and other aspects have long been no guarantee, so these things must not be accepted.
Clothes are probably the most received by the baby of a category, all say that the child is windward, unlike adults to buy a dress can wear for several years, may be the child's clothes only wear for one quarter can not wear, so these clothes are still very new, throw away it is a pity to send to relatives and friends who are still relatively small children. Some clothes are still very clean and the new mother as long as you don't mind is of course acceptable, after all, this also saves yourself a lot of money, to know that the child's clothes are also very expensive, but the underwear that has been worn must not be collected, these close-fitting clothes can easily lead to skin allergies and cross infections, be sure to buy new ones for the child, this human feeling really has to be rejected.
Finally, the shoes sent do not receive, especially the baby who has just learned to walk and just can walk must buy new shoes, because each child's foot shape and walking posture are different, if there is a foot type of varus or valgus like adults, it is even worse, which will directly lead to different degrees of deformation of shoes. Once the children in the back put on it, they will be held back by the deformed shoes, which will change the walking posture and foot shape. So don't care how expensive and beautiful the shoes given by others are, it is better to buy new shoes for the health of your children.
Nowadays, it is different from before, the economic conditions have been greatly improved, the children's clothes in the mall are diverse, and the children of each family are very neatly dressed, and there is no need to wear other people's leftover clothes. It's just that there are many elderly people in the family who are more frugal, and for the things given by others, they are basically accepted according to the order, in fact, we can make it clear to the elderly, after all, the health of the child is the most important, and human feelings are also a debt.
In fact, relatives and friends together in harmony and happiness is the most important, give each other the baby things are also from each other's heart, the mother does not have to be very rejected nor do not accept all, learn to politely refuse, for example, the child already has a lot of this, it is better to take it as a memorial! In this way, it not only gives others face but also does not have to embarrass themselves, relatives and friends can also get along happily, so it is very important to pay attention to good talk skills in this regard.