Hey, have you heard? Recently, there was a village wedding, which was jaw-dropping, and the bride actually breastfed her father-in-law at the wedding! Does this sound more bloody than a TV series and more bizarre than a novel? But that's what happened.
We usually say "follow the customs", but this time the "customs" are really a little confusing. It stands to reason that getting married is a big event, and it is auspicious and lively, but this excitement can't be messed around. The bride, that is the newlywed Yan'er, it should be a sweet moment of holding hands with the groom, heart to heart, why did she suddenly get involved with her father-in-law in such a situation?
I heard that the wedding scene was called a "lively", and everyone was coaxing like something, so the bride sat on her father-in-law's lap, holding a bottle in her hand, and fed her father-in-law with a confused face. As for the bride, she is not particularly happy to look at her expression, but it seems that she is in the way of face, so she can only smile and cooperate. In this scene, the people next to him couldn't cry or laugh, and muttered in their hearts: What kind of custom is this?
A young man couldn't stand it anymore, so he pointed to his father-in-law and said, "Which one is this singing by your old man?" How can there be a reason to let your daughter-in-law breastfeed you, this is not in accordance with the rules! As a result, someone next to him answered: "Hey, young man, you don't understand, this is our old tradition here, a festive picture, a picture of auspiciousness." ”
As soon as I heard this, I muttered in my heart. Tradition is tradition, but it can't go against common sense and ignore ethics, right? If this custom is spread, it must not make people laugh off their big teeth? Besides, can the bride feel good in her own heart?
This is a bad habit after all, and it has to be changed! We have to advocate civilized weddings and reject these messy and anachronistic things. Young people have to have their own opinions, and they can't listen to the older generation for everything. If we really encounter this strange custom, we have to be brave enough to say "no", and don't grieve ourselves for the sake of face.
Therefore, let's watch less of the "wonders" at this wedding. After all, marriage is a matter for two people, and they have to be happy and make their own decisions. Those messy customs, it's time to throw them away, so that the wedding can return to the way it should have been—warm, sweet, and full of happiness!
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