I often saw articles like this before:
"How good is a child who has seen the world?" 》
Faye Wong's daughter Li Yan, who held a painting exhibition at the age of 6, has traveled most of the world at the age of 9; at a young age, walking on the Paris runway, confident and generous, without being afraid of the stage, people are stunning.
Huang Lei's daughter, Huang Duoduo, has gone to more than 40 cities in 10 years and began to contact drama at the age of 2, performing nearly 500 times.
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After reading it, many people can't help but sigh: "See the world" is just thrown out by money. Ordinary families, or wait for the children to grow up to see the world.
Many people equate "seeing the world" with "high consumption" and are discouraged.
In fact, seeing the world does not necessarily require a lot of money, and in the same way, willing to spend money may not necessarily be able to see the world.
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There was a 12-year-old boy whose parents took him on a trip to South Korea in order to increase his knowledge.
Unexpectedly, the boy kept complaining along the way:
"The palaces in Korea are too short and too small to look at"
"Korean kimchi stinks and stinks, it's really bad"
Later, I simply stayed in my hotel room and spent the remaining three days of travel.
The boy is trapped in his own narrow cognition, rejecting everything different, and the whole journey becomes boring.
In fact, to see the world, it is not simply to go out and see the world.
If you just take a pair of eyes and an empty, narrow soul on the road, you can't see the world at all.
Therefore, to see the world, you must first have the ability to see the world, and then you have the meaning of seeing the world.
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A person with a rich heart, everywhere he goes is a landscape.
A mother travels to Africa with her 10-year-old daughter, and the majority of African-classified film and television dramas are played on the plane.
Mom asked her, "How is this film and television category different from the DK Children's History Encyclopedia written by the British people you watch?" ”
The girl said: "DK is written by the British, it is British-centered, China has played such a big role in history, but there are not many places in the historical encyclopedia."
Looking at this film classification, I understood what the culture of the African center looks like. ”
This little girl's cognition is unattainable by many adults.
The ancients said: Read ten thousand books, travel thousands of miles
If you want your child to see the world, reading and walking should complement each other.
A child who "loves to read" is not "reading dead books", but uses books to expand his thinking about life and verify the content in books with life.
As the famous writer Yang Dai said: The meaning of reading is probably to use the feelings of life to read books, and to use the income from reading to live.
Whether it's a park near your home, a grass, a museum in the city, or an exotic place, you can take your kids to see it.
For younger children, they may prefer to learn about the world through direct experience. However, parents must cultivate their children's reading habits and thinking habits from an early age.
As the child grows older, the knowledge he reserves will be sublimated through each "experience" of going out, and finally become a precious asset in his life.
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Curious, ambitious children will take the initiative to explore the world.
Hengshui Middle School "xueba" Zhang Yifeng is a child from an ordinary rural family, before his speech "the country pig will arch the city cabbage" was on the fire, let me start to pay attention to this boy.
I read all of his speeches in one sitting, and the ones that impressed me the most were:
When he first walked from the countryside to the city, he found that the gap between himself and the children in the city was too big, which made him very lost and confused.
Every time he hears his classmates talking about "what fun places to go in the summer" and "what fun things are in Beijing and Shanghai", it will make his heart tighten, and then find an excuse to leave.
Until one day, he was writing his homework when he suddenly heard such a voice on the TV in the living room: "What kind of China have you ever seen?" ”
The pen in his hand fell, silly there, and he suddenly realized that so far, he seemed to have only seen China in the picture.
So, he went out and saw "Aerial Photography of China" on TV:
China above the firmament is so gorgeous and moving.
The snow in the north, the wind in the south country, the Hanshan Temple outside Gusu City, and the Gansi Bridge in the moon full of gods, this scene shocked him and filled his eyes with tears.
This yearning and curiosity about the outside world made him regain his courage and be ready to go.
Albert Einstein said: I don't have any special talent, just an incomparably strong curiosity.
A person with curiosity who will use limited conditions will try to stick his head out, see the world he wants to see, and walk the life he wants to go.
Therefore, parents do not have to feel guilty about not being able to take their children out on a trip. Whether you travel once a year or five times a year is not the most important.
High-quality companionship is always more important than spending money.
The study is always more important than the school district room.
Feeding the child's soul first and giving him plenty of love is to prepare him to see the world.
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