In ancient Chinese history, the status of women has always been relatively low, and this situation has not changed until modern times. In addition to China, the status of women in Africa is also very low, and even in modern times, the status of African women has not been substantially improved. Because of the status of men and women, many tragedies have occurred, and we will talk about such a thing next.
He lost his mother in childhood and was abused by his stepmother
Most African countries are poor and backward, people's living standards are not high, here due to the backward concept, every family wants to have a lot of children, which is also the main task of women marrying men. For African women, when they are still children, the family will assign marriage, exchange them for a cow or sheep, and will not ask them whether they like that person or not, and whether they are happy or unhappy.
Maryam, who was in Uganda, Africa, got such a marriage. Born into a poor family in Africa, Maryam had five siblings, and when they were children, their mother left due to illness, and her departure became the beginning of their tragedy.
After his mother left, his father married a stepmother, and her arrival did not bring them happiness, but made things difficult for them.
When Maryam was seven years old, her stepmother did a vicious thing. She put a lot of broken glass in the children's lunch, resulting in the murder of all the children except Mariam, who was out playing, and from then on, Mariam was wary of her stepmother.
When Maryam was 12 years old, promised by her family to a 40-year-old man, the joyful Mariam thought she had escaped the clutches of the devil, but it turned out to be the beginning of a nightmare.
At the age of 36, 44 children were born
When we were 12 years old, we were carefree children, but Mariam had become someone else's wife. In countries other than Africa, a family generally has only 1 or 2 children, but Uganda in Africa has 5 to 6 children, and such data is one to worry about.
Under the influence of this custom, Mariam gave birth to twins at the age of 13, and the arrival of the child brought a lot of joy to the family, and just when everyone was immersed in joy, what happened afterwards became a nightmare.
In the time that followed, Maryam continued to conceive and give birth to children like a demon, and it was strange that she gave birth to twins or multiples many times, and by the age of 36, she had 44 children.
Although it is a very normal phenomenon in Africa, but a situation like Maryam is rare, in order to find the cause, she went to the hospital to check, only to learn that she has a rare genetic disease, resulting in larger ovaries than the average person, the pregnancy rate is higher than the average person.
After learning the reason, Mariam planned to use normal contraception, but was opposed by the doctors, if she did, it would cause a lot of damage to the body, and finally Mariam underwent surgery to remove the uterus.
So how did Mariam's fate change after the uterus was removed?
My father chose to leave because of the burden
Although Mariam underwent surgery and would not have children in the future, the burden of 44 children was too heavy, and her husband finally chose to leave. The pressure of life was pressed on Maryam's body, although it was bitter, she did not choose to give up, working several jobs a day to maintain her life, but she alone could not support such a large family, fortunately, her first few children grew up and took the initiative to take care of her younger siblings.
In the face of life's misfortunes, many people choose to escape, like Maryam's husband, there are also many people who choose to face, like Maryam, life must be positive to face, will live wonderful, right?