Zhuang Di Xiaomeng / Seeing the essence through the story
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Perhaps because of the innate cleanliness, many men want to find a girl who has a simple experience and is clean and self-sufficient.
Although the wish is beautiful, but this kind of thing is not so easy to achieve in modern society, after all, the contemporary society is open to the public, plus many girls have the experience of early love, so when they meet their current boyfriends, they have more or less experienced.
So many men lower their requirements a little, they do not require each other to experience 0, but also want her private life to be clean.
After all, there is a difference between "past" and "past", some girls have simply talked about one or two relationships, while some girls' past can be written on hundreds of pages.
"The person I've been in a relationship with is a table of mahjong."
This sentence seems to be a network paragraph, but there is such a situation in real life.
Girls don't want to meet girls like this, they want to find a woman with a clean private life, but girls are deceptive.
Pure appearance does not mean that the heart must be pure, so many men are in a confused state.
In fact, it is far less difficult to find a pure girl than everyone thinks, don't look at her appearance, look more at her social circle.
"Popularity" is too good, and girls with too complicated social circles are difficult to keep simple
The problem is not absolute, but there is also probability.
Under normal circumstances, if a girl's communication range is very broad, and the social circle is relatively complex, then she will not be simple.
I once met a girl who was beautiful and looked particularly pure.
Her appearance in her early 20s always gives people the feeling of a little sister next door.
Later, it was found that he had several friends who particularly liked to play, including men and women.
They like bungee jumping and even like to casually date the opposite sex on a certain piece of software.
I was amazed, because I couldn't imagine that such a pure girl could play with such a friend.
Some of the things that happened later made me understand the reason, in fact, the girl was not as pure as she seemed on the surface, she also liked to play, even more than friends.
Coming out of the mud without staining is just a legend, such people do exist, but they must be rare.
How can a person stay in the mud for a long time keep it clean?
The fact that girls have more friends is not a disadvantage, after all, there are more friends who have a good way to go, but if the social circle is too complicated, it must be a disadvantage.
After all, the private life of such girls is usually not simple.
It seems that "popularity" is not good, and girls with small circles are often clean and beautiful
I once knew a very homely girl, she was about twenty-five or six years old, and she rarely liked to go out except for work.
She is quite beautiful, 1 meter 65 tall, slender figure, is a type that many boys like.
However, she is low-key and not easy to chase at all, because her attitude towards feelings is very cautious, so the average man cannot approach.
Plus her circle is already very small, so she hasn't had a boyfriend all along.
After spending a long time with her, I found out that he was really a treasure girl, who cooked a good job, liked to clean up the house, and never went out to play.
She likes to save money, occasionally travels with her girlfriends, and has no bad hobbies.
Later in my work, I knew a boy of her age who was the same kind of person, which I found very rare, so I introduced them to each other.
They first got along as friends, and soon they were rightfully together, and then they got married.
The boy is very happy, because he feels that his wife is his dream lover, and his private life is clean and family-oriented, which is simply the ideal partner.
A girl's small circle does not mean that she is not popular, on the contrary, it just proves that this kind of girl has a clean private life.
After all, people are different, and some girls like to live in their own world and do their own things, rather than having to cater to others, let alone hanging around outside every day.
Such a girl's life is plain, but it must be the most precious treasure in the world.
The smaller the circle, the more suitable the girl is to marry home
If you look closely, you will find that many men pay special attention to each other's circles in the process of finding wives.
If a girl's circle is particularly complicated, and the people in it are very playful, there are male girlfriends and little sisters, even if she looks beautiful, no man is willing to marry her home.
But this kind of girl is never short of people to chase, because she is really suitable for being a girlfriend.
But once it comes to marriage, men usually choose to stay away.
In the matter of marriage, men always behave extra cautiously, and they hope that their other half is clean and gentle to take care of the family.
And if you want to meet these conditions, you must have requirements in character.
A girl with a gentle personality and a small circle is usually a show of wisdom, this kind of girl does not like the outside world, has her own outlook on life and style of doing things.
They are born good wives and mothers, and once they get married and have children, they will definitely play the role of wives and mothers.
The purpose of a man looking for a wife and a woman looking for a husband is the same, both in order to live a good life. So women like men who know how to hurt people and have a sense of responsibility, while men like women who are clean and clean and take care of their families.
If these two kinds of people can meet together, they will most likely have a happy family.
Original author of the Zhuang Di Xiaomeng/Emotional Column
May your life be full of surprises, and may your happiness come as scheduled.