The first gift after the baby is born is the name given by the parents. The process of giving the baby a name by the parent's surname and the name of the crown can not only reflect the family's cultural heritage, but also pin the parents' ardent hopes for their children.
Mr. Gao has always been proud of his surname, after the birth of his daughter, he hoped to give his child a literary and artistic name, thought for a long time, decided to use the name of "Jiesi", implying that his daughter is pure and elegant, wise and philosophical.
But as his daughter grew older, Mr. Gao found that the child did not smile as much as he did when he was a child, but instead hated being called by his family and classmates.
After communicating with his daughter, Mr. Gao learned that his daughter's name collided with the female hygiene product "Gao Jiesi", and was often joked by his classmates.
Netizens accused: Dad is clearly in the pit baby. Later, Mr. Gao renamed the child, removed the word "si" and changed it to "gaojie", encouraging the child to be an upright, noble, clean and clean person.
The name is the title that accompanies the child's life, which is related to the child's temperament, popularity and growth and development.
How do you give your child a good name?
1. The name should be simple and not complicated
We know that there are thousands of Chinese characters, and the combinations that can be produced are innumerable. Taking a name is easy, but it takes some time to get a good name.
Parents should choose simple and common words when giving their children a name, if the name is too cumbersome and strange, it may affect the child's writing, making friends and even exam registration.
2. The name is smooth and has no harmonic sound
When parents name their children, they should pay attention to the coherence and integrity of the first and last names. In addition, you should carefully check whether the name has awkward harmonic problems, such as "Zhu Fei", "Xia Jian", etc.
If there is a harmonic sound, it will cause ridicule from classmates, make children feel aggrieved, and deepen dissatisfaction with the name.
3. Naming should be cautious and not casual
The name should be simple, but not arbitrary. In order to highlight the uniqueness of the child, parents should carefully name the child. On the one hand, casual names will produce duplicate names, which is easy to cause unnecessary trouble to children;
On the other hand, casual names can easily create an illusion of underappreciation to children, resulting in children's lack of security and inferiority complex.
In fact, in life, we can find that there are many ways for parents to name their children, such as flipping through the dictionary, consulting classic literary works such as the Book of Poetry and Chu Ci, asking people who have knowledge and numerology to help, and letting children grasp the method of choosing names every week.
No matter which method parents choose, whether the child is satisfied with his name or not, he should clearly and positively express his love for the child.
When children grow up, they are told the meaning of their names, which is conducive to children clarifying the direction of life and facing life and difficulties in front of them more positively and optimistically.
We may not be able to grasp the length of life, but we have reason to believe that with the love of our parents and the encouragement of our friends, we can extend the breadth of life to the greatest extent.
Although the name is only a code name, it records the traces of our walking and struggle. Prove that we have come, loved, and worked hard.
Therefore, parents should pay attention to the matter of naming, and do their best to think of a name for their children that is rich, catchy and easy to remember.
Let children grow up willing to introduce their names to others, and they like this code name that accompanies them for a lifetime.