As the saying goes: "Parents are a mirror of the child, and the child is the shadow of the parent".
In the process of children's growth, the teachings of parents are particularly important, which is related to the cultivation of children's personality.
If the child is born and handed over to the elderly to carry, some elderly people who dot on grandchildren and granddaughters will spoil the child lawlessly.
In the case of this article, a 13-year-old child can spend 100,000 yuan a month, is it the child's ignorance, or the parents' neglect? Who should bear the problem of education for left-behind children?
1. Spend 100,000 yuan a month
No rules, no squares.
Children have not yet developed a sense of right and wrong, and indulgence will only make them lawless.
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Just like today's protagonist, Li Jun (pseudonym) in Hunan has a 13-year-old son, who grew up living next to his grandparents, it is the age of junior high school, he does not learn no skills, specializes in comparing with his classmates, and finally spends 100,000 yuan in a month, and this money is still his grandfather's pension money.
The reason why the family found out was because the family received a lot of express packages, which were full of valuables, including tablets, various cosmetics, and even a TV.
Li Jun was confused, he had never bought these things online, when the child's grandfather hurriedly said that when he went to the bank to withdraw money, he found that the 100,000 yuan pension in the card was missing.
It turned out that It was Li Jun's son who took advantage of the fact that the adult was not at home, tied his grandfather's bank card to his mobile phone, and then went crazy to consume. The monthly bill is 28 pages long, and in addition to online shopping, there are also large recharges in the game.
Parents are the child's first teacher, children still do not know how to earn money, some do not understand what the concept of RMB is, only know that they can buy things with money, this problem, but also need parents to discipline their children.
2. Charge a lot of money in front of your friends
Li Jun was angry at his son's behavior, and what made him even more angry was that the reason why his son did this was to dress up in front of his friends. This money was not only used by himself, but also spent on two classmates, all of which were lost in the game.
It is understood that these three children know the payment password, want to eat what to buy, as long as the game has new equipment, they will directly charge money in, and even Li Jun's son also took two classmates to the outside room to play games. All the expenses are paid by Li Jun's son with his mobile phone, and the cost of a day at most is as high as more than 10,000, which is really a lot of money, and there is no sense of saving.
3. After-the-fact adjustment
At present, the account in Li Jun's hand only has the consumption bill, but he does not know which ones are used by his son and which are used by his companions, and in addition to anger, this matter should also have a solution, he believes that the parents of the other two children should bear the expenses spent by their children.
In the face of Li Jun's questioning, the other two children admitted that they had indeed spent money on Mr. Zhi's son.
Under the mediation of the neighborhood committee, they contacted the parents of the two children, one of whom expressed a willingness to bear the cost, while the other parent ignored it and did not want to solve the problem.
The parents of these two children are also working outside, usually carried by grandparents, and like Li Jun's son, they are pampered by their grandparents, so they usually neglect discipline.
Old people are old and can't do everything about their children.
Truly good parents are the ferrymen in their children's lives. Therefore, no matter how busy parents are at work, they cannot be less concerned about their children.
100,000 pieces is not a small amount, and this matter also reflects the education of left-behind children. What all three children have in common is that they are all left-behind children, and their parents work outside the home all year round, and grandparents take care of the children.
In fact, in the author's opinion, because of the work and neglect of the child's education and care, is very unworthy, may be many children from childhood to form a bad disease, if not corrected in time, will follow them for life.
Moreover, it does not mean that the child is handed over to the grandparents, the parents can not worry, on the contrary, although the child is small, they are perceiving to everything, in the process of children's growth, especially pay attention to their inner thoughts, and be correctly guided. Children are like a small sapling, they must be carefully irrigated before they can grow into towering trees.