Introduction: The daughter wants to wear sandals in the weather of minus five degrees, and the post-nineties mother's education method is bright, netizens: reverse education is often more effective.
Recently, in Tianjin, when a mother took her two-year-old daughter out, her two-year-old daughter actually insisted on wearing sandals in minus five degrees Celsius. Although the mother has painstakingly told her daughter that sandals are worn in summer and cannot be worn in this weather, her daughter insists on wearing sandals. Seeing the stubbornness of the daughter, the mother no longer persuaded, planning to let the child experience what is called "the danger of the world".
At first, Meng Wa wore her beloved sandals and the strange combination of small cotton clothes downstairs and did not think so, about 5 minutes or so, Meng Wa finally felt the little toes that were helpless in the cold wind, cold enough to beg her mother to take herself upstairs, and said that she would never wear sandals again in the winter. Then the mother said that the children are like this, even if they say that it is very cold outside 100 times, it is better to let the children experience it by themselves.
Netizens who saw this scene also praised their mother's approach:
"In fact, reverse education is often more effective than bitter persuasion, both for children and adults."
"This is the normal operation after becoming a mother after the nineties, you are the first time to be a child, I am also the first time to be a mother, no one will let anyone." Reverse education is a common occurrence. ”
"This is a very intuitive lesson for children, children are too warm at home in winter, do not know how cold it is outside."
Xiaobian is also very supportive of this mother's way of education, for children must not be brainless coddling, but should let children realize their mistakes and deficiencies, so that children will seriously correct. As a child, the guidance of parents is very important, and only the correct guidance of parents will make children more sensible. What do you think about this?