Parents love their children very much, especially if there is a daughter in the family, it is even more loved. After all, compared to the son who dances the knife and gets the gun every day, the daughter is more well-behaved, more obedient, and more intimate. Moreover, the appearance of the girl is also sweeter, and the parents come back from work after work and see the cute little beauty of the family, and the tiredness of the day will be swept away.
However, not all daughters are soft and cute. Recently, Mr. Su in Jiangxi was saddened by his daughter. His daughter, named Meng Guo, is six years old. Because of its lively and innocent nature, it is deeply loved by everyone. But Mr. Su was worried because he found one of the shortcomings of Meng Guo, that is, the child was too lively and naughty, and Mr. Su even doubted whether Meng Guo was suffering from any disease.
Since Mr. Su often travels abroad, he usually learns about Meng Guo's condition from his wife's mouth. Some time ago, Mr. Su's wife complained to him that children are getting harder and harder to carry every day. Meng Guo jumped up and down all day, almost like a living monkey, extremely energetic, feeling like a tomboy, not at all ladylike style.
The wife went on to say that every time she said a few words, she did not go to her heart at all, always made a grimace, and then still went her own way. Mr. Su listened but did not think so, thinking that the child's liveliness is to show that the child is healthy, otherwise it is not good to look good all day, so he did not pay attention to the fact that the fruit was lively.
It happened that during that time, the company gave Mr. Su a few days off, and Mr. Su originally thought that he could take advantage of the holiday to take a good rest and relax himself, but he did not expect that his vacation was almost ruined by Meng Guo. It is precisely because of this that he began to think carefully about what his wife had said before, and he truly appreciated his daughter's naughtiness.
When Mr. Su was at home during the holidays, Meng Guo always ran around and made him sleep badly. Moreover, when Mr. Su was sleeping, Meng Guo always jumped into bed and pestered his father to tell himself stories. And after telling the story is not enough, Meng Guo then has to ask his father to make a game, for several days in a row, Mr. Su feels that the holiday is even harder than going to work.
Seeing that the child was a little too lively, Mr. Su rushed to the hospital with his daughter, but the doctor's examination results were very healthy. Mr. Su was not at ease, and said the behavior of Meng Guo again, the doctor smiled and said, this is just the child's personality is more extroverted, the popularity will be very good when he grows up, and parents do not have to pay attention to it deliberately. At the same time, these shortcomings are also "shining points".
The madman is more generous
In the eyes of many parents, liveliness seems to be the patent of boys, and girls should be quiet and elegant. But girls can also be lively and playful, and as they age, they will slowly become generous, enthusiastic and cheerful. Such a girl can live in harmony with people in life and work, and there is no doubt that she will make a lot of friends.
Become a big beauty
It is a woman's nature to love beauty. The same applies to little girls. There are many little girls, when they are just sensible, see their mothers or other women in the grooming, and they will have such thoughts in their hearts. So they would secretly use their mother's cosmetics and wear their mother's beautiful clothes. For example, Mr. Su's small fruit always uses his mother's cosmetics.
Many parents think that their children do this because their children have precocious puberty, but this is not the case. On the contrary, the girl's performance shows that she is a person who pays attention to her own appearance, and must be clean and diligent in cleaning up after she grows up. Such women are easily liked by others and will gain a lot of friends.
summary:
Many parents want their children to be perfect and have no flaws. But sometimes there are some "shortcomings", which seem to be shortcomings but are far from shortcomings, and these shortcomings may become the child's advantages in the future, which is conducive to his personal development. At the same time, parents can not be too rigid, boys and girls are actually the same, in terms of personality to vary from person to person, can not be on the gender.