Whether children have a good time in school is directly related to their learning efficiency and interpersonal relationships.
Therefore, most parents are very excited and uneasy when mentioning their children's performance in school, afraid that their children will be treated unfairly, and they are extremely polite to the teacher.
Parents hope that their active cooperation can make their children valued and look at each other differently by their teachers, which will make children be treated unfairly.
However, a few days ago, the relationship between a parent in Hunan and the class teacher fell into an extremely stalemate.
The parent reported the class teacher three times before and after, and this wave of operations aroused the attention of the whole network.
The first complaint was because of paid make-up classes.
After investigation, it is true. The teacher was also treated accordingly.
It is precisely because of this report that the relationship between parents and teachers has fallen into an extremely delicate state.
The second time was because of the compulsory purchase of extracurricular books, and after relevant investigations, it was not true.
The reason for the third report was corporal punishment, the child just forgot to bring a book, and the teacher disguised corporal punishment and let the child clean the classroom.
After a detailed understanding, it was found that the reason why the teacher punished the student was because the student did not wear a red scarf for three days, and the teacher did this to maintain the honor and regulations of the class.
The three reports have plunged the relationship between the parent and the teacher into a more deadlocked state, and the parents believe that because of their own reports, the children have been treated unfairly in the school.
At school, students are reluctant to take care of their children, and even teachers take a discriminatory attitude, and the parent claims that the child has now fallen into a state of depression.
After this matter was posted on the Internet, although many netizens sympathized with the student's suffering, many netizens also said that the child was treated so unfairly, which was completely the parents' own doing.
The child falls into a state of depression entirely because of psychological problems, and the root cause of all this is caused by excessive pressure and environment in the outside world.
Nowadays, most parents pay more attention to their children's mental health problems, whether it is the above-mentioned parents complaining about the behavior of teachers, or because of excessive pressure, in short, let children have a healthier psychology, so that they can have a healthier future.
【How to make children's psychology healthier?】 】
1. Create a healthy growth environment
In order to make the child's mental health more stable and not affected by various external environments, as a parent, we must first create a healthy and good growth environment for our children.
This is the most important step for children with a healthy mind.
The family environment that allows children to grow up is warm and full of positive energy, and the strength in children's hearts will be stronger, and their personalities will be more optimistic.
This positive energy of positive health will become the most powerful support in the child's inner world, no matter how bad the situation is, it will make them never give up and bravely move forward.
2. Cultivate children's optimistic spirit
In order to make children's psychology healthier, as parents, we must let them have a positive and optimistic spirit.
When they can meet various challenges in a more positive state, they will have a stronger motivation in their future lives.
Of course, in the process of cultivating an optimistic spirit, parents should guide their children with their own words and deeds, only in this way can they have a positive guidance, rather than being in a pessimistic environment in everything.
The guidance of parents is reflected in many small things in daily life, so only if parents pay attention to details, the child's inner world will be strong enough.
3, parents should be more grateful and tolerant
In order to make the child's mentality more stable and the mind more mature, parents should have a more tolerant and grateful awareness in their daily life and children's education.
Parents with this characteristic can bring more accurate education to their children, but also give them more positive and kind guidance.
When the child's inner world is rich enough, their life will have more opportunities, so that their life competitiveness can gradually increase, but also make their inner world stronger, and their hearts will naturally be healthier.
4. Have a sense of respect for children
In order to make the child's psychology healthier, as a parent, no matter what state, we must respect the child's consciousness, which is very critical and important.
Basic respect for children can make them dare to make decisions and choices, rather than blindly immersing themselves in the protective circle of parents.
【Author's Message】
Amir said that faith is beneficial, but it is not truth.
A healthy psychology is the cornerstone of all achievements, if there is no healthy psychology and body, even if there are the most dazzling results, everything is over the clouds.
In the process of children's learning and growth, although the super high score can make parents have a light on their faces, if there is no healthy psychology as a support, their future will also face a variety of hardships.
In order to cultivate a more mentally healthy child, these points are the most important points that parents should pay attention to.
Today's topic: Do you think: How can children be mentally healthier in their learning and growth stages? Feel free to share your practices below.