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For the opposite sex, in fact, many things are to be grasped, what should be said, what should not be said should have a scale.
Many times, when the words are spoken, there is no way to redeem them, maybe you say that the person has no intention, and the listener is intentional. If you have a mouth and a heart, you hurt a person.
In feelings, some words are still not easy to say, people still have to have some secrets, casually and easily do not know where to offend a person.
For some words, it is more than worth the loss to destroy the feelings that have been operated by each other for a long time. Therefore, between the opposite sex, these words are best rotten in the heart.
When men and women get along, in fact, even the best feelings will contradict each other, and some people may speak more casually, habitually according to their own temper, and inadvertently say a few words of sarcasm.
You may feel nothing about yourself, but everyone has their own taboo things, and it is best not to do the kind of things that poke people in the pain.
For some words, you may not mean that, but the essence of saying them has changed.
Your casual sarcasm and sarcasm will make the other person feel that you look down on him, disappoint you, gradually move away, and keep your distance from you. Between men and women, I am most afraid of a person who is serious, and it is over.
At any time, don't joke casually and talk about the shortcomings of the other party, otherwise it is easy to hurt a person's heart.
What people are most afraid of is a person's cold words, no matter how angry and sad, do not casually go to the other party, destroy each other's feelings, it is not worth the loss.
Two people will face many problems in their daily lives, and may have their own views and opinions on things.
It is also normal to encounter quarrels, and the more we encounter contradictions, the more we must learn to be calm and not to talk angrily without moving. Because of a lot of words, once you say it hurts.
In feelings, the most taboo is to run away when encountering problems, get angry and hurt all kinds, and leave the relationship.
You know, a relationship is not easy to establish, it takes each other's energy and effort, don't hurt the peace because of a few normal words, rush to break the relationship, this is not necessary.
Many times, the more calculating you are, the more you may stimulate the other party's emotions, and on the contrary, it may be the best way to calm down and deal with the problem.
Don't ignore it and say anything because of your temper, it's easy to hurt feelings.
In the world of feelings, everyone treats feelings differently.
Some people habitually say some harsh words to make the other party aware of their emotional changes, but in fact, such results may be counterproductive.
Any good relationship should be tolerant and accommodating to each other, rather than being cruel at every turn.
There may be some words that come out, and it is very cool for a while, but when you look back, you will feel how stupid you are, and you will regret your behavior.
But some feelings, once they cause harm, can not be repaired. Some angry words, just talk about it yourself, don't say it in front of each other, it is easy to hurt feelings.
You know, maybe you have a hard time maintaining the relationship, just because of your angry words, the other party will remember, it has always been in the bottom of your heart, all your previous efforts have been wasted.
Therefore, when two people get along, they must know how to grasp the measure and speak well.
summary:
Emotional things, may not be able to avoid quarrels, but you can grasp the measure, do not say what should not be said.
Some words, saying it is a kind of harm, do not overestimate your position in a person's heart, you must know how to be careful in words and deeds, in order to last.