【Introduction】Is Dink good or not? How did you live without children in your old age?
After a small friction with his classmates during his studies, he was taught by his mother after returning home, and the 9-year-old boy in Shenyang ran away from home and never came back.
The disappearance of a 9-year-old boy in Shenyang touched the hearts of the people of the whole country, and the citizens of Shenyang collectively went out to help find the children. Before, everyone had a lot of speculation about the child, but the result that everyone did not want to see still happened, the child fell into the water, and the search and rescue dog smelled the child's breath by the river.
This is bad news, and everyone is very sad, and there is no way to imagine how painful the parents of their children will be when they get this news. The child's right or wrong, the parent's right and wrong, the teacher's right or wrong are no longer important, I only hope that the deceased will rest in peace and the child will go all the way.
The children that parents have worked so hard to raise have been cultivated for a full 9 years, but the children have passed away, and the pain of losing children cannot be imagined, and every family and every parent cannot bear it.
Nowadays, the network environment is very developed, children are becoming more and more difficult to raise, hitting is not, scolding is not, do not know how to educate is correct. It is easy to have children, it is difficult to raise children, there is no good economic foundation, there is no warm and harmonious family environment, should we have children in the end?
After the death of a 9-year-old boy in Shenyang, many people think that Dink is very good, and it is indeed not easy to have a child. Dink, for some people feel good about himself, but not so good for some people.
First, the advantages and disadvantages of choosing Dink
Some people will feel that choosing Dink may be lonely in their later years, but it is short-lived, and the long life before it is actually easy and happy. Moreover, the wealth accumulated before is enough to ensure that the material life is medical treatment, and there is basically no pressure.
When choosing Dink, always maintain a high quality of life. It will be difficult not to choose Dink and no one to retire, it will be very lonely when you are old, there will be no one to take care of you when you are sick, and even eating may be a problem.
Because in this day and age, raising a child not only needs enough money, but also has to worry about his mental and physical health every day. There is really a lot to pay to have a child, from young to old, you have to work hard for your child all your life.
The hard-working body without having children is also better than the average person, and the probability of getting sick in old age is relatively low, and they can live a much more self-care. And those who have worked for their children all their lives, save up a body of illness, and when they are old, they hope that their children will take care of them, but their children are not strong, but they will increase their burdens on each other.
The premise of not Dingke is that the family environment is superior, and it is necessary to ensure that the child has a complete and happy family, followed by the need to ensure the healthy growth of the child, physical health, mental health, kindness, understanding, and filial piety. Do not chew on the old, can be financially independent, and maintain a harmonious relationship with children. If you can do that, there's no need to choose Dink.
Children are the bond of the family, and with children the family will be warm and fulfilling. I think every parent wants to be able to raise their children to be good, healthy, rich, and kind. That way, you can leave peacefully when you're in your old age.
Second, can you retire with children?
Some people think that raising children is to provide for the elderly, and the two of them raise children together to grow up as adults, which is bittersweet and bittersweet is an experience and experience, and it is children who make adults' feelings grow and sublimate. A child is a continuation of life in a family, a continuation of the spirit. After having children, there is security in old age.
As the old saying goes, it is said that raising children prevents old age, but in the past and the present, who can guarantee that having children can enjoy their old age in peace? There are not many people in the family who have several children, or the same non-pensioners.
There are old and young children, sandwiched in the middle, can not eat, the economy is not rich, there is no ability, which parents can expect their children to retire, they can not bear to do so.
It is not easy to be a parent, only you know the bittersweet and bittersweet of it, and the filial piety of the children born is good, thinking in your heart: Finally, there is no white pain for you. When you meet an opposite son or daughter, the feeling of sadness, heartbreak, and despair of being a parent is unparalleled.
The vast majority of people, especially women, understand this truth, but when they are not old, they are still obsessed, there is no correct educational concept, they make cattle and horses for their children, they save money and use themselves, they have to wait until they are old to regret it, and they understand that their bodies and wives are important, and it is too late at this time.
The old age of the Dink family is nothing more than relatively lonely, two people walking and chatting, but the old two people who died first are happy, and the remaining one is more sad.