As a mother, every time I see Junjun appear, I am heartbroken, and I really want to hug her through the screen.
At Junjun's age, she should have been innocent and messy, but she has a mature, sensible, and well-behaved person who does not match her age, and the reason for her personality is the failed marriage of her father Mr. Li and her mother Qian Xiaomei.
After the divorce of the two adults, Jun Jun followed her mother, and the little girl ostensibly lived a life of wearing clothes to reach out and eat to open her mouth, but in fact, the love she received was extremely limited, and the only thing that accompanied her every day was the nanny Qiu Yan.
Qiu Yan is a rough personality, she is not as dedicated as Li Fang, nor is she as painful as Yu Fen, she has time to look at the mobile phone, for the daily care of Junjun, she is able to get by, can be confused.
After Mr. Li was discharged from the hospital for surgery, Junjun came to visit his father, and when he slept at night, when the adult asked her who she slept with, Junjun did not know how to answer, so he sat so quietly.
Obviously, I have lived here since childhood, but now I am like a guest, although my father hurts him, I am not intimate, my brother is pro, but I am not usually together, she is only 7 years old, let her choose who to sleep with, it is really difficult for her.
At night, she secretly cried for a while before going to bed, she wanted to nanny Qiu Yan, not how good Qiu Yan was to her, but she could only rely on Qiu Yan, because Qian Xiaomei was too busy to take care of her.
She is still so young, she has tasted the bitterness of life, she has everything, she has nothing, such a baby you are distressed?
In a long-term environment of lack of love, the Junjun who appears in front of us is thin, weak, quiet, uncomfortable, and when she encounters anything, she is first considering the feelings of others, even in the face of the dearest father, she does not dare to express her thoughts.
In chapter 165, Jian Yi writes:
...... Only to hear the voice of Yao Yao outside: 'Daddy, you take me and Junjun out for a day, right?' ’
Mr. Lee asked a little surprisedly: 'Don't I take you out often?' ’
Yao Yao whispered, "Junjun also wants you to take her out to play." ’
Mr. Li asked in surprise, "I just called her, and she didn't say anything." ’
Yao Yao said again: 'She does not dare to talk to you.' ’
Dad is still the father, but divorced, with a new wife and a new daughter, so Junjun becomes cautious, afraid of a bad person, causing Dad's disgust and dislike.
Junjun understands that Dad has a lot of children, And Dad can choose who to love, but she has no choice, so she does not dare to be spoiled, does not dare to play tricks, does not dare to be willful, and relies on a sense of understanding to attract Dad's attention, and then share a little love.
On National Day, Junjun returned to her father's side, and at night Lifang took her to sleep, and the author Jian Yi described it like this:
Li Fang said, "Junjun, you should also lie down and go to sleep, Auntie is taking a bath." ”
After saying that, she went to the bathroom, and when Li Fang came out of the shower, Junjun was not yet asleep, sitting at the head of the bed with her eyes open.
Li Fang asked, "Why don't you want to sleep?" ”
Junjun said, "I'll wait for you." ”......
Seeing this, I think Junjun is very intimate, feeling warm at the same time, but also think that Junjun has some feelings of pleasing Lifang, will it be afraid that he will not be loved? ......
When Li Fang made breakfast and went to the third floor to see Yingying, Junjun had already gotten up, washed herself, and even tied two braids in her hair. But the piercing is not good, a little messy and a little frizzy.
Even adults, on holidays, will lie in bed, but Junjun gets up early, not that she is not inert, but that she is uncomfortable here, after all, it is not her own territory, she does not want to cause trouble to others.
It is a good thing to think for others when things happen, but it is tiring to think about everything for others!
Sensible children live in their hearts with grievances and hidden hearts, and Junjun is no exception.
Adults who leave anyone can live, but the child is hurt by divorce, if things are allowed to continue, junjun will inevitably be as sensitive, fragile and inferior as the children of ordinary single-parent families in the future...
Fortunately, Mr. Li realized the problem of Junjun's personality and planned to let Junjun spend weekends and holidays here in the future, which is also a blessing in misfortune.
Mr. Li's decision made me breathe a sigh of relief for Junjun, and finally I didn't have to worry about her being biased.
There is a saying that a good childhood can cure a lifetime, and a bad childhood needs a lifetime to heal.
I hope that Junjun can have a good childhood, and I hope that the adults on both sides can treat Junjun kindly, so that this cute and beautiful little girl will always be healthy physically and mentally!
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