Zhao Wei, Huang Bo starred in the popular movie "Dear" in 2014, based on the abduction and trafficking incident of 4-year-old boy Sun Zhuo, in the real world, the parents looking for a son 14 years later Sun Zhuo was miraculously found, the two sides met in Shenzhen and hugged and cried, but the son who had not seen for a long time said that he wanted to stay in the family where he grew up now, which caused netizens to criticize, "Such family affection is based on crime", he said in an interview that both sides are parents, and he can't say who is lighter and who is heavier.
In 2007, when the 4-year-old Sun Zhuo was abducted by a strange man, he was later traded from a human trafficker to a new family, who pulled him to grow up, and in 2014, when he did not know his origins, Zhao Wei and Huang Bo made a tear-inducing movie "Dear" with the story of Sun Zhuo and his biological parents, until Sun Zhuo disappeared for 14 years, he finally reunited with his biological parents.
The two sides met at the CID Building in Shenzhen on the 6th of this month, and the parents who had been looking for children for many years hugged and cried tightly when they saw Sun Zhuo, and they did not want to let go for a long time. Sun Zhuo said in an interview afterwards that he is now in high school in Guyang, Liaocheng, Shandong, the grades belong to the middle school, there are two sisters in the family, when he was a child, he heard his sister say that he picked it up, "I thought he was joking", he did not expect that one day he was called to the school office, where a strange pair of men and women shook hands with him in a friendly way, and his brain was blank at the moment.
Father Sun Haiyang was excited and tearful on the day of the meeting, and the big palm clutched the coat that Sun Zhuo wore, and then the family of three returned to his hometown hubei from Shenzhen, he said happily, "Hug believes that it has been found, the child looks like me", and also hopes that the child can stay around.
Sun Zhuo confessed that he felt guilty about his choice, although several good friends told him how much effort his parents had to finally find him, enough to prove their love for him, but in the end he still wanted to stay in the current home, "they should be disappointed", "I also thank them, they must be very hard." ”
The news of the reunion of Sun Zhuo's family for a long time became a hot discussion on Weibo, many netizens could not understand, the biological parents spent many years to find someone, but he chose to stay in the adoptive parents' home, "to be a son, conscience"; and the adoptive parents were bought from the hands of human traffickers, "such family affection is based on crime and the pain of the family for more than ten years"! Some people also say that Sun Zhuo does not want to see the truth, the adoptive parents bought him because he was a boy, not because he was a special existence of Sun Zhuo, even if he bought other little boys, the adoptive parents will also double their love for the boy, but the love of the biological parents can give more, "Sun Zhuo does not want it."
Another netizen criticized the adoptive parents for committing crimes and destroying other people's families, and after exposing them, they also wanted to take the children for themselves, and the behavior was no different from that of robbers. However, there are also netizens who hold different views, saying that the child was innocent from beginning to end in the incident, and has always thought that it was the biological parents for a long time, and now I know that the original biological parents have other people, "If it is what you think, I will collapse", so there is no need to review the child.
"The real problem is human traffickers, not adoptive parents, not Sun Zhuo, not Sun Zhuo's biological parents", netizens pointed out that sun Zhuo's disappearance was related to the government's population policy and its follow-up, in the concept of son preference, many people want boys, "the biggest sin is not in the adoptive parents, they also have desires and difficulties", and imagine a person if he grew up like Sun Zhuo under the loving care of his adoptive parents, he was not bullied, "You will want to easily leave your adoptive parents, Going back to the home of your biological parents who didn't know they existed all your life? Some netizens also expressed "support for the same crime of buying and selling", and Sun Zhuo's adoptive mother has been seized by the police.
For the criticism, Sun Zhuo said he now has one more home, and his parents are on both sides. He blamed himself for being abducted at the age of 3, which was partly his fault, because it was too easy to trust others, he would be easily abducted by human traffickers, resulting in a series of tragedies, and then when he learned that his biological parents came to find someone, he couldn't believe it was true, it took a few days to slowly accept, and now he has two pairs of parents to contact, "that is, when there is time, knock on the door and meet." ”
Sun Haiyang expressed respect for the child's decision, he said that after all, there are many differences in the content of textbooks in Shandong and Shenzhen, if the child wants to return to Shenzhen to study, it will have an impact on learning, if the child wants to go back to Shandong to study, let him go back.