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Text | Tao Ruosu
I never expected that Jay Chou's new trend in the New Year was not to release an album, but to be a father again.
On January 19, Taiwan media broke the news that Kunling was pregnant with three children.
Subsequently, Jay Chou announced the good news:
I wanted to be born and then announced, it seems that I can't defend myself, this most beautiful gift, there is a bet "pregnant" Oh.
From the state point of view, even if he became a father for the third time, Zhou Dong still enjoyed it.
In 2017, kunling was exposed to the "three-child plan" when he attended the event after the birth of the second child.
This kind of planned thing, from the perspective of women, in addition to the KPI indicators of the giants, only marital happiness can be annotated.
Therefore, Jay Chou Kunling dared to have three children, in addition to the "greed of a happy life", he really couldn't think of other reasons.
As Jay Chou fans, eat melon netizens, we bless it.
Since 2015, Jay Chou and Kunling have let everyone see "a different marriage for 7 years".
This does not show that at the moment when the divorce rate is high and the fear of marriage and childbearing is encountered, when meeting a man like Jay Chou, marriage will also become a love myth.
01 Good love, relying on each other, and independent of each other
When Jay Chou and Kunling met, Kunling was only 17 years old and worked part-time in a clothing store invested by Jay Chou.
Although he is not very old, Kunling's empathetic and mature social style makes Jay Chou have to be impressed.
Jay Chou, who grew up in a single-parent family, no matter how successful his career is, he cannot avoid a lack of security in his heart.
And Kunling's own gentle, firm, spring wind and rain personality has made Jay Chou's heart have a home.
It is said that Jay Chou was already worth 4 billion at that time.
But he refused to make a prenuptial agreement and responded domineeringly:
Marriage should consider property, not mutual feelings, then such a marriage is better than not knotted.
Jay Chou used his unreserved love to give Kunling a ladder to see the world, and also gave Kunling a sense of security in walking the world.
This kind of interdependent love is precisely the art of emotional balance.
There were rules in the psychology of love.
Everyone's love is inseparable from the law of "similar personality and complementary needs".
Among them, similar personalities make two people feel at ease with each other, and the complementary needs are in order to make our lives more complete.
Jay Chou and Kunling, they choose each other, only because of the moment of mutual dependence, life is the most contented and complete.
Wang Han asked Kunling in "Every Day Upwards" that her husband is so rich, why should he work?
Kunling thought about it and said that he hoped that his children would feel that their parents were hard-working people.
It's not just talk.
Open Kunling Weibo, do handicrafts, publish books, endorsements, open shops... I also often share my experience as a mother.
Express gratitude to the people around him, even if he bears the title of heavenly king's sister-in-law, he also works hard, takes care of his family, and rarely rubs Jay Chou's traffic, so he has received a lot of good reviews.
As Jay Chou said: No one doesn't like Kunling.
02 A good marriage, the lover first, the child second
On January 18, Jay Chou posted his birthday video.
In the video, his birthday party is warm and lively, and all this is inseparable from Kunling's credit.
Kunling once said in an interview that Jay Chou taught her that lovers come first and children second. Only the relationship between husband and wife above all else can set a good example for children.
They can agree with each other, which is also related to the fact that both parties are from single families.
They have experienced the impact of marital failure on their children in their original families, so in order to be responsible for their children, parents must also love each other.
As a result, our Jay Chou painting style suddenly changed from overbearing Zhou Dong to romantic small public deeds.
Obviously working in Shanghai, he also had to "stop by" to fly to Paris and accompany his wife to watch Chanel's show.
The wife filmed in Prague, just 2 days away, Jay Chou flew with the past, a live "for love to go to the end of the world".
How to say it? What kind of conjoined babies are, what are they like.
The English name of her daughter Hathaway translates into Chinese: Kunling's love melts Jay Chou.
Psychologist Nolfeo said: The relationship between parents is the prototype of the child's future relationship as a couple.
In a happy marriage, what children see every day is that their father loves their mother and their mother cares about their father.
What he learns is tolerance, gratitude, love and sharing, and in the future he will become a sunny, healthy, positive person.
Although jay Chou and Kunling's original family is not perfect, perhaps it is precisely because of shortcomings that they are more aware.
The importance of love and responsibility.
It is also this awakening that they not only reap a happy marriage, but also send precious gifts for the growth of their children.
03 Good family, family first, education first
On January 17th, Jay Chou and Kunling celebrated their 7th wedding anniversary.
Jay Chou made a high-profile confession on social platforms, you make your home full of happiness, I make your home full of fun and laughter.
The movie "The Godfather" has a classic line: a man who cannot accompany his family is not a real man.
As the children grow up, we see that Jay Chou is more and more concerned about the family, and in the education of children, he is also conscientious.
In order to celebrate her daughter's 6th birthday, the picture of Jay Chou and her daughter Xiao Zhou's hand-to-hand bomb on Thursday was praised by netizens very warmly.
Like all parents, Jay Chou also hopes to create a rich growth environment for his children and practice what he preaches.
He especially loves to take his children to visit the zoo, take his children to watch open-air movies, take his children on field outings, take his children to see fountains, take children to music exams, take children to play by the beach, take children to see exhibitions...
From time to time, he also shared his parenting experience in a serious way: don't miss the growth of your child, and spend more time with your child.
04
After marriage, Jay Chou seems to be more and more liked by fans.
He was not only an idol, but also a father, a husband.
The more he loved his family, the more real and profound life became.
Weibo netizens summed up Jay Chou after marriage:
Perhaps Jay Chou is very sure in his heart that compared to the sense of achievement brought by fame and fortune, the consummation of family affection, love, and family is the true meaning of life.
Jay Chou, who is now 43 years old, told us with a perfect married life that fairy tales are not deceitful.
The dream wedding in the ancient castle of Europe 7 years ago is a proof of the happy life of the prince and the princess.
Author: Tao Ruosu, a SOHO mother who loves to read, psychological counselor. I firmly believe that "Dad is the pillar of the family, and Mom is the spiritual fortress of the family". Share parenting, marriage and family, and grow.
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