How many invisible ups and downs girls have to go through to grow up - "Jin Zhiying, born in 82"

I am a girl, but in countless moments of collapsing and scolding the street, I have only one hateful thought in my heart: how am I not a man!

Or alone resisted the darkest moments of the great aunt Ling Chi; or was fooled by the other party after being oiled by the boys; or how to be accused by the parents of "you are a girl"; these girls have experienced unspeakable pain in the process of growing up, which is clearly written on the paper and written in this book.

I spent one afternoon reading the life of Kim Ji-young, or "the life of most women."

The problems she encounters can be broadly divided into two categories: one is that women's status is lower than that of men, and the other is the reproductive pressure that women face.

Even if the times are progressing and the concept is gradually improving, girls are always weak in gender relations.

When he was in elementary school, he was bullied by the boy next to him, Jin Zhiying cried and confided in the teacher, but the teacher smiled and said: "The boy bullied you because he liked you";

In middle school, male teachers use their hands and feet on female students, but girls can only swallow their breath; they must often beware of salty pig hands on the subway and buses;

In college, women who are perceived as too smart put pressure on boys;

Entering the workplace, she found that most of her colleagues were women, but the executives were almost all men. After work, I had to go to socializing, putting up with yellow jokes and endless exhortations from customers.

It is heart-wrenching that a girl suffers from these unequal treatments, not because she has done anything wrong, but simply because the girl is a girl.

It reminds me of what Emma Watson once said on International Women's Day: "We are not fighting for women's rights, but freedom for both sexes." ”

Feminists are never equal to male-loathing, but anyone who believes in equality is a feminist.

There are thousands of girls in this world who are like Jin Zhiying, they are always cautious about everything, loyal to their own choices, and go all out, the world should give them reasonable compensation and encouragement, and should also give them more opportunities and choices.

Personally, I like the psychological turning before and after Jin Zhiying's pregnancy, which is portrayed extremely delicately and completes the mental journey of a mother.

Society praises the greatness and beauty of maternal love; yet for those who truly become mothers, the truth is not necessarily entirely beautiful.

After becoming a mother, you must spend time, money, physical strength, and emotions on your children, and your relationships must become child-centered. If you show your original self, you will be questioned whether you are worthy of being a mother.

In fact, raising the next generation is not only the obligation of women, but the responsibility of both men and women.

Many men will defend their position with "I have helped you take care of your children", but you can see from the two words "help you" that they still think that parenting is a woman's business.

The word "mom" should not be a fetter for women.

In fact, in this world, not only men are not friendly to women, but also women are not kind to women, "Jin Zhiying" is men's solidarity with women, in the new era, women should not be bound by the word woman, everyone who suffers from inequality has the right to speak out.

I sincerely hope that every daughter in the world can embrace a bigger and more unlimited dream.