laitimes

A real and tragic experience! Don't borrow money unless you're ready to be a grandchild

author:Red clouds fill the atrium

People interact with each other, it is inevitable that there will be a situation of private lending, borrowing money and asking for money are a science, today to share with you my real experience of asking for money today, for your reference and reference.

A real and tragic experience! Don't borrow money unless you're ready to be a grandchild

This article is worth commemorating, for the first time in my life, I encountered a debtor who exploded! #要钱 #

As the saying goes, I have never eaten pork and seen pigs run, so I usually pay attention to the problem of private lending, and people who are not strong in relationships and trustworthy generally do not lend money to others.

A real and tragic experience! Don't borrow money unless you're ready to be a grandchild

In September 2021, due to the difficulty of capital turnover and the urgent need for money for family changes, I moved my compassion, lent him 7500 yuan for emergency, promised to return it at the end of December, and wrote me an IOU, and I was not willing to bear the responsibility of being sued after the deadline.

At the end of December, when I was collecting a phone call, I was told that the plan did not change quickly, the account was temporarily confiscated, and the person who owed him money promised to settle the bill for him on January 10, and when the bill was settled, he would pay it back to me. On January 10, I called and pushed me back until January 15.

On the evening of January 20, after the class, I went home to ask a family about the situation in person, and happened to meet Xiang's son at home, when talking about borrowing money, he said to my son bluntly: "I don't have any money, the accounts are confiscated, I have 500 yuan here, do you want it, if you want it, take it, I don't have more, don't forget it!" "

A real and tragic experience! Don't borrow money unless you're ready to be a grandchild

When I heard this sentence, the blood went straight to the top of my head, I really wanted to greet the past with two mouths and fists, when I thought that we wanted money, as long as I gave it to me, it didn't matter, I couldn't afford to play with this kind of faceless person, so I forced myself to endure the anger of being despised and insulted in my heart, and calmly said to him: "Everyone has difficulties, just because I thought of your difficulties at the beginning, I lent money to your father, please also think differently, you have a family to live, I am not the same as the old and the young, Promised me to pay back the time to your dad to push me to January 10, January 10 to push me 15, I thought I could give it today, you still don't have, how to say to give me some way to do it, can't pay it off at once, give me a part of it first, at the end of the year, I also have to prepare for the New Year, the rest of the part as soon as possible to find a way to return it to me, it is okay."

A real and tragic experience! Don't borrow money unless you're ready to be a grandchild

Who knew that to a son slapped the table and shouted: "I told you that there is no money today, 500 yuan you want, do not want me, where there are you who want to account for the debt, if you force my parents to die and drive crazy this responsibility you are responsible", while saying that he got up to change his shoes and prepare to go out.

This is not the end, to see a son angry, come to dissuade, let his son talk well, owe money to pay back, no money to have words, you did not drink, said what crazy words.

Xiang Xiang's son stood up, and his finger said to so-and-so: "Who are you talking to?" If you are on the side of outsiders, then I don't care, force you to die and don't call me", while saying, he walked to the door and said to me: "You just sit here and force them to die, how much money can they make in their sixties, force them to die and drive them crazy, you are responsible, I put the words here today, I will not pay back this money, you can now call the police to arrest me and go to jail, don't let me go to jail for the New Year, let me go to jail, I am willing, I just don't want money!" ”。

A real and tragic experience! Don't borrow money unless you're ready to be a grandchild

I couldn't bear it any longer, I didn't want to be so depressed, and responded: "You know now that they are old, I shouldn't urge them to pay back the money, as far as I know, the money borrowed is because of fishing for you, you have the ability not to let your parents worry about you, more than sixty is still in debt for you, don't want me to collect debts, you will give me the money back." When borrowing money, I said well, give it to me before December 31, push it to January 10, push it before January 15, your own promised repayment plan, I never tried you, today on the 20th, I came to ask for money You are this attitude? You are also a person who has been mixing with the north and south for decades, and what you say is not human? ”

Continued: "I asked your father for money, but also to assert the rights of my creditors, since ancient times to repay the debt, it is natural, I have never heard of the debt not to be repaid, but also proud of being so arrogant as you, lending money to your father is to let you turn over, not at this time to let you turn your face with me, you do not return I must not ask you, the money borrowed by your father I can not tell you, today if your father tells me that he does not pay back this sentence, I will ask a lawyer to sue him tomorrow, do not need you to urge me to call the police!" ”

A real and tragic experience! Don't borrow money unless you're ready to be a grandchild

Replied to a son: "I just don't pay back, you call the police, let me go to jail, you sit here and force them to die, I will make you responsible", after saying the slamming of the door and leaving.

Then he replied to a certain daughter-in-law: "He (son) has been working outside for more than ten years, and he really has not earned money, and he is not enough to spend a few thousand yuan a month, and there is no way to do it."

Hearing this naked cover-up, let me instantly understand why I can educate such a non-standard descendant, the son has been working outside for more than ten years, the family has nothing to do, the wife is divorced, leaving two small children to let a certain couple to bring, the cost is more or less to give to a certain person, actually said of course, natural righteousness, righteousness, righteousness, it is true that there is no level will be inherited!

A real and tragic experience! Don't borrow money unless you're ready to be a grandchild

I replied, "As for how your son does things for people, I will not comment, you parents know better than I do, I do not participate in your family's affairs, but the matter of borrowing money is the money borrowed by the two of you from me, you have to give me an explanation, when can I repay it?" Give me a precise word, if you don't want to pay it back, I won't come to your house to ask for it, and I'll ask the court to come and talk to you. I have never forced you to contact me several times by phone, and today you promised to give me back the money, I did not say a word of special words first, but you made me feel angry, and it is fate that you meet, if you don't care if you meet an enemy on the street later, I don't want to have anything to do with you."

Xiang Mou said to me: "Please don't be angry, my son has little schooling, no culture, can't talk and has a poor temperament, it is a natural thing to owe money to pay back, I give you the next word, this money he does not pay me back, wait for my migrant money to receive first give you a part of it (about the appearance of the 28th of the Waxing Moon), once not so much, pay you off several times."

A real and tragic experience! Don't borrow money unless you're ready to be a grandchild

Me: That line, you worry more about snacks, the end of the year, the checkout is in the checkout, seize this stage to get the account back, all have a stable year!

From this case, we can see that xiang a son and a daughter-in-law are one and the same, and the mother's doting and wrong ideological orientation are also the main factors leading to the son's current pungent personality, and the mother should take the main responsibility.

What do you think of this kind of debtor? Have you ever encountered this kind of dog blood plot again? #Asking for money##借钱难, it's harder to pay it back##生活中借钱不还的人, how do you deal with it##你都见过什么样的老赖 #

Read on