Baoji News Network News Recently, the third issue of the 2021 "Baoji Good People" list was announced, and 15 people, including Li Xiaohu, who is filial piety and love for the elderly, were selected. The following are The deeds of Li Xiaohu:
Li Xiaohu, born in March 1972, is a villager in Yongsheng Village, Honghuapu Town, Fengxian County. 30 years ago, the eldest sister-in-law died unexpectedly, the eldest brother ran away from home and remarried in a different place, leaving 3 children and a pair of parents, Li Xiaohu resolutely chose to take on the burden of raising nephews and nieces and supporting parents, supporting the nephews and nieces of the sky, becoming the "father" of 3 nephews and nieces, and he missed his life's events. In the past 30 years, Li Xiaohu has raised three children to grow up, dedicated himself to supporting his parents, and interpreted the responsibility and responsibility of a good person with actions.
Toiled hard to raise three children
In 1991, 19-year-old Li Xiaohu was like a small tiger, strong and energetic, and was planning to go out to work and start a business. However, the weather was unpredictable, people had bad luck, and his sister-in-law unfortunately died of illness. The next year, Li Xiaohu's brother left his hometown and went far away to become a door-to-door son-in-law, leaving behind his elderly and sick parents and 3 children who were not tall enough. At that time, the Li family was originally very poor, and the death of his sister-in-law and the departure of his brother made this unfortunate family even worse. More importantly, the brother left 3 children, two girls are 6 years old, 5 years old, boys are only 1 year old, 3 children have no father and no mother, crying can tear people's hearts apart. "Little Tiger, you are the children's uncle, and the children will count on you from now on!" Li Xiaohu's father, Li Deren, said sadly.
In this way, Li Xiaohu dismissed the idea of going out to work and start a business, and stayed at home to take care of 3 children. For a big man, he can bear no matter how hard and tiring he is. But taking care of children is really difficult for a hunky Li Xiaohu. One moment 3 children wrestling together, you have to give them a "lawsuit"; the next moment 3 children crying for this and that, you have to change the law to satisfy them. Now several adults in a family are tired of raising a child, but Li Xiaohu has to take care of 3 children alone. Fortunately, at that time, Li Xiaohu's mother could still take care of the handle, and the laundry and cooking basically did not need him to take care of these tasks.
In fact, it is more difficult to take care of 3 children to go to school. Every day, Li Xiaohu has to pick up and drop off his children to and from school, run primary school and then run middle school, and help children do homework at night. After doing these things, he can get out of his body to do some farm work or do odd jobs nearby. Li Xiaohu has strength, is a well-known "desperate sanlang" in various surrounding construction sites, and is deeply liked by foremen and co-workers. Gradually, Li Xiaohu became the most popular mason in a few miles, and his income became increasingly abundant. However, no matter how much they earn, household expenses still do not make ends meet. In order to provide for the 3 children to go to school, Li Xiaohu was reluctant to eat and wear, and saved all the hard-earned money earned by braving the cold and heat to pay for the tuition and miscellaneous expenses and living expenses of the 3 children.
Time flies, and the years fly by. The 3 children who were less than the height of the stove at that time grew into big girls in the blink of an eye, and Li Xiaohu unconsciously stepped into the ranks of older young people. In the meantime, the neighbors urged Li Xiaohu to marry a daughter-in-law. Marry a daughter-in-law? Li Xiaohu was thinking in his dreams, but the things at hand did not stop, where there was time, energy, money and money to marry his daughter-in-law, the days were silently advancing in such helplessness.
The East is not bright and the West is bright. Li Xiaohu could not afford to marry his daughter-in-law, but his 3 children were very contentious. In addition to the little niece who could not bear the hardships of her uncle after graduating from junior high school and gave up her studies to go out to work, the eldest niece graduated from Northwest A&F University and was sent to Wuhan University of Science and Technology for graduate school, and now teaches in a university in Fuzhou, and her nephew graduated from Chengdu University of Petroleum and is employed in Xi'an. Li Xiaohu not only pulled 3 children to grow up, but also gave up a graduate student and a college student! Someone calculated an account for Li Xiaohu, and the money spent on the children over the years was enough to marry 10 daughters-in-law. But Li Xiaohu said that he would rather play bare sticks all his life than delay the children's studies.
Caring for sick parents for many years
Born in 1972, Li Xiaohu, "2" this year always seems to be unable to get by with him. In 1991, his brother left his three children to run away, and in 2002, his mother Li Suzhen fell ill and was paralyzed. "Actually, I was lucky. My mother had a stroke that year, and she suffered a cerebral hemorrhage, and her condition was very serious. Although it caused a half-body failure, it was fortunate that my mother survived! Li Xiaohu said. Having personally felt the pain of nieces and nephews losing their mother's love since childhood, Li Xiaohu's sigh is sincere.
The mother was paralyzed, and the father, Li Deren, combined heart disease, diabetes, asthma and other diseases. At that time, Although Li Deren could still walk on the ground, severe hypertension made him faint and unconscious twice, and was pulled back from the death line by the doctor, and the health and safety conditions could not make Li Xiaohu worry at all.
Li Xiaohu is a great filial piety. Since Li Suzhen was paralyzed in bed, she had incontinence and had to get up four or five times a night. Changing bedding and washing his body, Li Xiaohu couldn't sleep all night. Li Suzhen's leg, which was not paralyzed, often ached, and the whole person convulsed as soon as she had a seizure. At this time, Li Xiaohu always stayed around, massaging and cupping his mother, and rubbing it for a long time almost every night. The hemiplegic body could not be pressed for a long time, Li Xiaohu kept turning over to his mother day and night, and then rubbed the crushed half of the body with his hands. In this way, under the careful care of Li Xiaohu, Li Suzhen's body has not only not had a single pressure sore in more than ten years, but also the half of the body that is hemiplegic has gradually become conscious.
As the saying goes, there is no filial piety in front of the bed for a long time. But Li Xiaohu not only did not dislike his long-term sick mother, but became more and more confident as his mother's condition improved, and his service became more and more thoughtful and careful. In order to relieve his mother's loneliness, Li Xiaohu gritted his teeth and bought a TV set. In order to save enough money, Li Xiaohu quit smoking for many years. The mother's physical activity is small, the doctor told her to eat more fruit, but the mother's teeth are not good, Li Xiaohu will chop the apple and steam it, and then mash it and feed it to the mother. Bananas and other fruits to buy in the county or the city, buy back can not be put for a long time, Li Xiaohu tightened his belt and bought a refrigerator to ensure that his mother can eat fresh fruits all year round.
Li Xiaohu always went out of his way to do this and that for his mother, hollowing out his mind to make her life better and better, until her mother died in 2016.
In 2019, Li Xiaohu's father was in a wheelchair, and Li Xiaohu began to take care of his elderly father again, pushing his father for a walk in the village every day, taking care of his father meticulously.
Inherit virtues and establish a good family style
"Now, you're relaxed, your kids are older, and you're working." The neighbor said this to Li Xiaohu. He just smiled and didn't say anything. In his opinion, taking care of his mother and raising 3 children is not a pressure, nor is it a burden.
The sunshine is always after the wind and rain, and yesterday's bitterness has become a happy memory. Nowadays, 3 children have grown up to become a family, infected by Li Xiaohu, the children are self-reliant and self-reliant, and they also know how to care about courtesy, they treat uncle and grandfather very filial piety, 2 nieces although they marry far away, they still worry about their families from time to time, send money to the family, send medicine to the grandfather, and 2 nieces also bring their respective husbands and children back to visit during the holiday. After the birth of his nephew's child, Li Xiaohu helped take care of his grandson, the family was happy and harmonious, and the new family atmosphere of respect for the elderly, filial piety, benevolence and harmony was continuing in the next generation.
Look, this is Li Xiaohu, what a good person! He used the "small self" to write "big love" and became a good example for everyone to learn together. Life is like a dream, he outlines the most wonderful trajectory of life; years are like songs, he plays the most moving notes of life.
Editor: Chen Yunzhe