Once a woman is caught in a relationship, it is easy to be blinded, can not distinguish between right and wrong, willing to be led by the nose of the other party, and wait until the end to wake up and realize that everyone has lost all their money.
Widowed for 10 years, he wanted to remarry but was opposed by his in-laws
Li Xiaoli, 43, was widowed for 10 years, and her husband died of liver disease at an early age, so she never remarried and raised her eight-year-old son alone.
When her son was 18 years old, Li Xiaoli began to think about her own affairs, and in this way, she met her current boyfriend. The two people developed rapidly, and in less than half a year, they planned to talk about marriage, because Li Xiaoli was pregnant.
Li Xiaoli told her sister-in-law about the idea of remarriage, but she did not expect that her in-laws did not agree after knowing it, and even got angry and went to the hospital. Why should the in-laws prevent their daughter-in-law from remarrying?
Mother-in-law Zhou Changfeng has a son, a daughter and two children, and her son died of illness ten years ago, leaving them with only one grandson. When the son died, the grandson was only 8 years old, and now the child has grown up, which is a great comfort for their old couple.
They originally thought that life would go on like this, but they did not think that their daughter-in-law Li Xiaoli actually had the idea of remarrying, and they soon talked about a boyfriend. They were very angry, not because the daughter-in-law wanted to remarry, but because they were worried about making wedding clothes for others.
"I don't disagree with her remarriage, I mean to get married, you have to do a good job with my Xu family, the house should belong to the grandson, do you understand?" I bought it for my son, and when my son is gone, he will give it to his grandson. I want to get my house again, I want to find a lover, I want to find an outsider to live in my house, I don't have such a high style. ”
It turned out that the contradiction between the in-laws and the daughter-in-law Li Xiaoli was because of the property, and they hoped that the daughter-in-law could transfer the house to the grandson's name before she got married, and they did not want the son's house to be occupied by other men. The old man's idea is reasonable, the house is bought for the son, and the son should naturally give it to the grandson when he is gone.
Not only the old two, the daughter Xu Qing is also very surprised by the sister-in-law's love, less than half a year to talk about marriage, she is not very optimistic about the sister-in-law's love, think that the purpose of this man is not simple.
Now the in-laws and mothers-in-law want to transfer the house to the grandson's name while they are still alive, only in this way will they be assured to let their daughter-in-law marry. So what does the daughter-in-law think? Does Li Xiaoli agree with her in-laws' opinion?
Daughter-in-law is in trouble
Xu Qing took the reporter to find her sister-in-law. On the way, she pointed to a five-story building and said that this was bought by her parents for her brother, her sister-in-law and nephew lived on the fourth floor, and the other floors had all been rented out, and the annual rent alone was more than 100,000.
Li Xiaoli saw that her sister-in-law Xu Qing did not have a good face, picked up the broom and drove people outside, bluntly disagreeing with her in-laws' opinions, believing that her in-laws planned to leave the house to her daughter and did not consider her grandson at all.
In addition, she also thinks that the idea of transferring the house to her son is too hasty, because the son has just turned 18 years old, his mind is not yet mature, and he is worried that his son will do something bad with the property.
"This child, this boy, you give it to him now, and in the future I don't know if he's a loser or not, and you don't know if you'll take a loan, you don't understand it, I won't agree."
"You think he's not grown up yet, so you're not at ease, aren't you?"
"Is it that he has not grown up, he is not innocent, and he will take the house to take out a loan later?"
From Li Xiaoli's point of view, her approach can be understood, but then again, what character does her child still know? One has to wonder if this is her excuse.
Later, Li Xiaoli's words turned sharply, and suddenly said that there was a precondition for her to transfer the house to her son, that is, the in-laws must first transfer the house to their son. Between the conversations, she showed a strong dissatisfaction with her in-laws, who suspected that she verbally wanted to transfer the house to her grandson, but actually intended to transfer the property to her daughter.
The son Xu Yang did not agree with his mother's idea, and the performance of the sister-in-law Xu Qing over the years, he saw it in his eyes, knew the sister-in-law's efforts, and also recognized the sister-in-law's efforts.
For his mother to remarry, Xu Yang said that it was not easy for his mother to raise himself to grow up, and he supported his mother's remarriage, but did not agree to her mother having children. "The one in the stomach is absolutely unacceptable, not in this life."
Li Xiaoli is now on the opposite side of her son, and she feels that the reason why her son thinks so must be instigated by her in-laws' family. It can be seen that the misunderstanding between Li Xiaoli and her son is very deep, and all the faults are blamed on the in-laws' family.
At this time, the reporter also learned a shocking truth. Xu Yang told reporters that his mother's current boyfriend has not yet divorced. But Li Xiaoli denied it, saying that her boyfriend had divorced and said that she planned to give birth to the child, but would not get a marriage license.
"Why do you want to have children? It's actually quite hard to bring a child. ”
"It's not quite hard, I tell you, this is also a kind of fate, since she came, I will give birth to her."
No divorced boyfriend
Li Xiaoli said that her relationship with her boyfriend is particularly good. "The other person is good, likes me, and I like him." Li Xiaoli talked about the happy expression on her boyfriend's face, the image of a small woman in love. But is her boyfriend divorced? Who is right?
The reporter called Li Xiaoli's boyfriend on this matter and wanted to ask him if he had a divorce?
Li Xiaoli's boyfriend Zeng Qiang said as soon as he came up that he did not want his girlfriend to give birth to a child, but his girlfriend insisted on giving birth. When talking about his marital status, Zeng Qiang's attitude was very ambiguous, and he said at first that he was divorced, but when the reporter asked to see the divorce certificate, he did everything he could to resign, and had to make people suspect that there was no divorce at all.
Xu Yang was particularly worried that his mother would be deceived, but at the same time he could not stop it, so he was particularly anxious.
On the issue of the house, Xu Yang supported the grandparents and agreed that the grandparents wanted to leave the house they lived in to their daughters.
The house of the old couple was originally bought for their son, but as soon as the house was bought, the son fell ill and died. All these years, the daughter has been taking care of them, and the guilty old man wants to leave some property for his daughter.
Xu Yang said that he would not compete with his aunt for real estate, he knew that his aunt had not been easy in recent years, he had his mother's house was enough, and there were six rooms in the countryside.
In order to solve the problem of the house, the old man came to the neighborhood committee to adjust, but Li Xiaoli did not answer the phone, and the mediation could only be shelved.
The village director told the second elder of the Xu family that without their consent, without Xu Yang's consent, Li Xiaoli could not transfer the property privately, and they would not agree. The village director's promise made the second elder of the Xu family completely reassured.
Later, Xu Yang called the program team and said that his mother had broken up with her boyfriend. "That man is a liar, isn't he?" "Well, she told me she broke up, but I don't believe it, she told someone else the second time she broke up." "What about the child?" "I don't know."
Li Xiaoli, who has been single for many years, thinks that when she meets true love, who knows if she has met a good person, it is the right way to turn back in time. There is no need for a family to speak two words, and opening up to each other is the key to solving the problem.
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