I came from an ordinary family in the countryside, with two older brothers and one sister.
Because there are many children in the family, the family that was not wealthy is even worse.
However, when I was a child, I was ignorant and often caused trouble for my family, and people in the village said that my family was unlucky to have a son like me.
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However, this did not stop me, and I still played with the children in the village.
Once, I knocked out the front teeth of a child in the village, and the other party found a whole bunch of people to block me.
In the end, it was my two brothers who came forward to save me and didn't bring this matter to my parents, otherwise I would have been beaten to pieces.
Since then, I've stopped a lot and don't want to trouble my brothers anymore.
With the passage of time, my brothers have also reached the age of studying and working.
However, because the family is not wealthy, the second brother, who originally had good academic performance, was forced to go out to work.
When I watched my second brother hold back tears and prepare to drop out of school, I bravely stood up for the first time and said, "Brother, I will go to work when you go to school." ”
At that time, my grades were not good, and my brothers helped the family for many years, and I never contributed anything to the family, so I felt that I should do something for the family.
In this way, I began to find some odd jobs outside, and my second brother successfully continued to go to school.
It was also when I was working that a co-worker with me came to me one day and told me that he was going to join the army.
Before that, I didn't know anything about being a soldier, but I saw that my workers' eyes lit up when they talked about being a soldier, and I was a little envious for a while.
So, I cautiously asked, "Isn't there no money to be a soldier?"
"How can there be no money, the soldier will be paid every month, and the food and shelter will be included, this money can be given to the family, and we don't have to do this hard work!"
These words successfully ignited a small fire in my heart, and I also wanted to be a soldier and see a different life.
So, I went home and told my mother and brother about it, emphasizing that I was paid every month.
In the end, my brother spoke for me in front of my mother, who finally agreed to let me join the army.
At that moment, it was probably the happiest moment since I dropped out of school, and I seemed to see new hope.
In this way, I signed up with hope, and after layers of screening, I successfully entered the army.
In the army, I received high-intensity training every day, and it can be said that I had no energy to think about anything other than training, eating, and sleeping every day.
In addition, the daily routine of life in the army is very regular, and it has also cultivated a lot of skills for me, and my physique has improved, and one person can beat three people.
Such a qualitative change made me realize that I am getting better and better.
So, although it was hard in the army, I was very happy.
Because here, everyone's feelings for every comrade-in-arms are very pure and sincere.
It is precisely because I once dropped out of school and worked outside the home that I understand how rare this kind of pure affection is.
Among these comrades-in-arms, I also met a comrade-in-arms from Harbin, who was hearty, and we were more enthusiastic because we lived in the same dormitory.
Usually, except for training, I get close to him and often chat together.
Once, in the middle of the night, I had a stomach ache and was sweating, but because it was the middle of the night, I didn't want to affect the rest of my comrades, so I couldn't bear it.
But the pain made me gradually unable to make a sound, and it was he who noticed that something was wrong with me in time, and ran to the infirmary with me on his back in the middle of winter.
On the way, I looked at his anxious appearance and my heart warmed.
When I arrived at the infirmary, the doctor examined me and prescribed medicine and gave me an infusion, so it was so fast.
I was already in pain and couldn't breathe, and I couldn't hear what was being said.
But what touched me was that when I woke up in the infirmary the next day, I saw him lying on my bedside, and it turned out that he had taken care of me all night.
This is the second time I feel a little sad, in the years in the army, we have been with each other and share each other's affairs, and we all value this relationship very seriously.
When he woke up, we had a good relationship because of this incident.
Time passed so quickly in the army that it was time for me to be discharged before I could react.
At that time, the army gave a plan that if I stayed there, I would be assigned a job. If you choose to go back to your hometown, the army will also subsidize a sum of money.
However, I thought that I hadn't been home for too many years, and I hadn't fulfilled my filial piety, so I wanted to go home and share the pressure with my brothers, so that I could do my filial piety in front of my mother.
So, I chose to take the money back to my hometown.
And this comrade-in-arms from Harbin chose to stay there.
For a moment, we both realized the sadness of separation, and we hugged each other tightly, because we knew very well that we didn't know when we would see each other again.
Therefore, the two of us were a little reluctant, and when the time came, we hurriedly made an agreement: we must find each other to get together when we have the opportunity, and we must not forget each other.
After returning to his hometown, he first got together with his family and gave his mother a sum of money.
Next, I started to look for a job, but because I had no education and no work experience, I had to find some work on the construction site.
However, after a long time, my body was a little unbearable, and the most important thing was that I needed to save money for the bride price when I reached the age when I should get married.
When I went home this time, my mother's health was not very good, so I gave part of the money for the army allowance to my mother, and I couldn't count on my mother anymore when it came to getting married.
The salary on the construction site is relatively higher than that of other jobs.
So, for the sake of this salary, I can only stick to it first.
In the blink of an eye, two years have passed, and my body has begun to have various big and small problems, either back pain or leg pain, and even some prostration due to overwork.
When I washed my face, I looked in the mirror and suddenly found that I had no energy in my body, and I remembered for a moment those days when I was a soldier.
Thinking about it again, the time when I was a soldier is probably the best memory of my life.
At the same time, I remembered my comrade-in-arms in Harbin, who in the past two years, I knew that he had been assigned a job, and the work was decent and the salary was not bad.
Every time he arrives at the holidays, he will send me a message, and a while ago he told me about the partner, the girl is a teacher, and the words are full of happiness.
Thinking about this, I was a little depressed for a while, and even began to wonder if I had made the right decision to return home in the first place.
Frustrated, I decided to quit my job and prepare to find more possibilities for myself.
Next, I started looking for a needle in a haystack.
Just when I was confused about work, my relatives sent a message saying that they would introduce me to someone, and we met in this way.
The other party is very good-looking, and he is quiet, but because I don't have a job, I don't seem to be satisfied.
Between the words, I can also feel the meaning of the other party, so I don't pay attention to it after the meeting, but I still think of this soft-spoken girl from time to time.
That's why I realized that if I wanted to settle down, I had to start a job first.
After thinking about it, I couldn't find any good jobs outside on my own terms, and the salary was low, so I planned to use the money in my hand to start a small business.
After discussing it with my brothers, I finally decided to open a supermarket near my home, so that I can be considered a boss and my life will always get better and better.
In this way, I was busy for a while, and the supermarket finally opened smoothly.
Because there is no supermarket in this area of the family, there is no competitiveness, and the business is not bad.
It is precisely because of this that my relatives have made it much easier for me to be a matchmaker.
When I met on a blind date for the second time, the other party was from the next village, and he had a big grin and loved to laugh.
Although she is relatively ordinary in appearance, I think it is beautiful to see her smile.
The most important thing is that this girl does not dislike the poor conditions in my family, and even took the initiative to say that she can reduce the bride price, just mean it.
In this way, after the two of us met, they kept in touch one after another, and seeing that they had been together for about half a year, they got married under the arrangement of their families.
After we got married, we devoted ourselves to keeping the supermarket in order, and our lives were getting better.
Not long after, the daughter-in-law gave birth to a son, and the family of three was very happy.
But unexpectedly, such a good life did not last long.
Because my supermarket business is good, it attracted competitors, and opened another supermarket on this street, the environment is good and the price is cheap, and the business is much bleaker all of a sudden.
These days, I am also thinking about how to get back the business, but I have no clue that the supermarket has been losing money, and the children at home also need to spend money, which is more difficult than before.
My daughter-in-law and I also quarreled every day because of money, and in the end I had to close the supermarket and go out to find a job.
After looking around, I had no education and lack of work experience, and I couldn't do heavy work because of the old problems left by the previous work on the construction site, so I didn't follow up after the interview.
Fortunately, when I was looking for a job on the street, I met Fa Xiao, who worked as a security guard in a neighborhood near his home, and he introduced me to work as a security guard.
It was also working in the community that made me realize the importance of buying a house, otherwise it would be a problem for my children to go to school in the future.
Therefore, I work as a security guard during the day and deliver food at night, barely saving some money for my family every month.
Suddenly, one day my comrades-in-arms in Harbin called me and said that I should go to him to play, and that I would pay for the travel and all the expenses for playing there.
This phone call suddenly brought me back to the old days, but my mood was not as good as before.
However, I still miss my comrade-in-arms and miss him, we haven't seen each other since I was discharged from the army, and neither of us thought it would be so difficult to see each other again.
Now, we are both married and have a family, and I know that my comrades-in-arms in Harbin are doing well, and we are obviously not people of the same world anymore.
But I have always been worried about the old comrades-in-arms, and I really want to get together again.
So, when I got home, I told my daughter-in-law about it, and I was very happy, but I didn't expect my daughter-in-law's face to change after hearing it.
Seeing that my daughter-in-law was unhappy, I had to ask what was wrong.
The daughter-in-law said, "You don't know what conditions are at home, why do you still want to go out to play?
These words are like a basin of cold water poured down without warning, yes, my comrades-in-arms in the past still had to spend money, and it is not good to cause trouble to others.
So, the next day, I called my comrade-in-arms and politely declined, and I clearly felt the loneliness of my comrade-in-arms on the phone, and he seemed to really want me to go over and get together.
At that moment, I regretted rejecting him a little, because I felt the same pain in my heart.
After all, we used to be closer than brothers, but now we're a little polite.
After this incident, I felt uncomfortable for a while, and my daughter-in-law also saw it and comforted me, and when some of the children in the family were older, I would go over to get together with my comrades.
And just like that, the matter was over.
Next, I worked day and night to deliver takeaways, but after refusing to allow my comrades-in-arms to play, my comrades-in-arms began to mail gifts home from time to time.
Generally, it is children's milk powder, toys, and children's clothes.
I was a little sad to see this, and I wanted my comrades-in-arms to know that it was not easy for me to do so over the years, so I sent these things to help me.
I called my comrades-in-arms not to send it, but my comrades-in-arms said that their son at home also wanted to use it, and it happened that it was not worth much money to buy it together.
I'm a little reluctant to go, and I'll send him some souvenirs from here.
In the blink of an eye, eight years have passed, and my old comrades-in-arms and I have not seen each other since we were discharged from the army.
During this time, as long as I was idle, I unconsciously remembered the time with my comrades-in-arms, and I rarely remembered it before, because life pushed me forward, and I didn't have time to think about it at all.
But I didn't expect that there was some truth in making my wish come true.
On this day, I was running a takeaway when I unexpectedly received a call from my comrade-in-arms.
On the phone, the comrade-in-arms said: "Brother, are you busy during this time, this is not the National Day soon, I want to get together with you during the holidays." ”
Hearing this, I couldn't be happy, and said happily: "Okay, I'm thinking about you, you're here, let's get together." ”
Soon, on the day when my comrades-in-arms said yes, I ran to the station in advance to pick up people.
In the crowd, I saw my comrade-in-arms at a glance, he was fatter than before, and he was more energetic, and he was stunned for a moment when I called his name.
When they arrived, their comrades-in-arms were surprised and said, "Brother, you have changed a lot over the years." ”
It was also this sentence that made me realize that I seem to have aged a lot over the years.
His daughter-in-law and son came with his comrades-in-arms, and I first booked a room for them in the hotel in advance and paid for the room for five days.
Then I took them to a local hot pot restaurant for dinner, and we chatted for a long time.
In the private room, we both drank until the end of the drink was a little tearful.
In the end, the daughter-in-law of my comrade-in-arms took him back to the hotel, and the next day my comrade-in-arms blamed me for booking a room for them and spending money indiscriminately.
I said directly to my comrades-in-arms: "My brother hasn't seen each other for so many years, so let me entertain you well this time, don't be polite to me." ”
Next, I took my comrades-in-arms to walk around and play, eat and drink with me, and was responsible for paying, although I spent a lot of money, I was really happy.
My comrades-in-arms played here for three days, saying that the child still had to do his homework, and he also had to prepare for work, and it was not good for me to keep it.
So, the night before my comrades returned, I asked them to come to my house to play.
My comrade-in-arms came and brought a bunch of gifts, and I blamed him for a few words, and he just smiled and said it to the child.
That night, my daughter-in-law arranged a table of dishes, and we drank and hugged our heads and cried for a while.
Because we know that this time we will be separated, and we don't know when we will meet again.
The next morning, I sent my comrades away and bought some souvenirs for them to take away.
When I got home, my daughter-in-law asked me how much I had spent in the past few days, and I roughly calculated that it was about 5,000 yuan. The daughter-in-law was a little unhappy and said, "How long will it take to earn back the 5,000 yuan?"
For a while, I was also a little worried about money, but I haven't had a happy time during this time.
After a while, my comrade-in-arms sent me a text message and said: "Brother, I have broken your money in the past few days, I am very happy that our relationship is still there, I know that you have not had a good time over the years, and I put 10,000 yuan under your pillow, which is my heart must accept it." ”
I immediately ran to the bedroom where my comrade-in-arms slept last night, took away the pillow, and sure enough, there were 10,000 yuan underneath, and I suddenly burst into tears.
This 10,000 yuan is not only money but also our brotherhood, he understands me so well, I have some bad feelings in my heart, and I will never forget this feeling for the rest of my life.