The company sent rice and flour oil today, and the female colleague didn't have a car, so I asked her to deliver it. I promised to help her get downstairs, but when the car stopped at the door of her house, she begged me to help her go upstairs. #微头条首发挑战赛#
(The content of this article is written based on personal real experience, if there is any similarity, it is purely coincidental and does not implicate anyone, thank you for your attention)
Isn't it about to be a holiday, the company sent some benefits, rice, flour oil and bonuses, everyone received it, they were very happy, just when I was how to move these into the car, a female colleague of mine came to me.
I said if I could help her move the rice from the company home, but I don't usually communicate much with this female colleague, and I can even use the word "unfamiliar".
But it's another department, and it's embarrassing to refuse if you don't look up and look down, but you still ask if there is no one at home to help her?
The female colleague said to me with a smile: "Oh, isn't there no one at home, anyway, it's not far, and I can't carry this as a girl." ”
I listened and thought about it, anyway, it's not far, after sending this colleague, I can still pick up the child from school, and then I nodded and said, That's okay.
As soon as I agreed, she said that when I moved these things, could I carry these things into the car, I looked at the rice and noodles weighing more than a dozen, and sent the Buddha to the west, and agreed to her request.
When she got off work, she came over and reminded me to help her move the rice noodles, but I had no choice but to do so, in the process of moving, she didn't help at all, just I was there alone and snorting there to move her things, and my things.
After loading the things in the car, this colleague showed up and said to me apologetically, I just had a work task that was not completed, sorry to let me move these things alone, and I said it was fine.
Then let her get in the car and she wanted to sit in the co-pilot, I was scared at the time, and directly said no, let her sit in the back, if I let my wife know that I let other women sit in her co-pilot, I will definitely kneel on the washboard and sleep in separate rooms.
The female colleague was also frightened, and then said why, I told her that it was my daughter-in-law's exclusive seat, and the female colleague smiled awkwardly and consciously sat in the back parking space.
After more than ten minutes, I finally arrived at the female colleague's house, so I got out of the car and moved her things from the car, and then said to her, "Okay, so I'll go back to Ang first"
As a result, the female colleague asked me if I could help her carry her things, and the child was almost out of school at that time, and now she is driving to pick up the child.
Then I asked her, "Is there no one at your house, can you call them and come down and get it." You don't know it well and firmly say that there is no one, and there is no elevator in the community where she lives, and her family still lives on the ninth floor of the top floor.
If you don't move things, you can easily go up, but these things directly weigh dozens of pounds, and it is estimated that she is tired and out of breath before she is halfway through the move, so I repeatedly asked her to make sure that no one at home came down to help her?
She still swore to me that there was no one, and I could help people to the end, so let her take a hand and move the rice first.
Moving and climbing the stairs was not yet on the third floor, and the female colleague said that her hand cramped and she couldn't move, so in the next process of climbing the stairs, I went upstairs alone during the whole process.
Finally snorting to her door, when she opened the door with the key, I actually saw someone in her house, her husband and my son, who was the same height as me, I was directly angry and asked her, "Isn't there someone in your house?!"
However, the female colleague ignored my anger and said that they had just had an incident, and the family didn't even look at it, and they didn't even pour a glass of water, so the female colleague said thank you to me, and then asked me to bring up the remaining bag of noodles downstairs.
With a sigh of breath in my heart, I went down, then opened the trunk of the car, put her bag of flour on the ground, and told her that I was going to pick up the kids from school and let her family come down and move.
Then she also said to me that the rice was moved, and it was not bad for this bag, I was laughed at directly, I directly said to her in a joking tone, "Big sister, someone in your family helped to move, and let me move, I didn't even give a sip of water when I went up, I still have to pick up my children from school, it's really too late, and you can't embarrass me!"
The neighbors who walked around were all looking at this place, and my mouth was pounding, so I glanced at her, got in the car, and drove away.
On the way to pick up the child, I received a message from a female colleague just now, and I looked at the sentence she sent: "That is half of the help that has helped, how do you want me to move things up now"
Then I replied with an ellipsis, and then directly blocked her, although I still don't look up and look down in the company in the future, but this kind of person is not worthy of being a friend, only worthy of being a colleague.
After reading this incident, everyone agrees with my approach?
