A toilet became a religious and cultural tradition in the eyes of Indians, and could even rise to the level of British colonization, tied to the conflict of values of civilization, and the construction of a toilet created a hero of the times.
Ancient scriptures say that you can't excrete in your home, you can only let filth be spilled outside, and your mind is still stuck a hundred years ago, and in the magical country of India, outdoor dissolution is the norm, and it is not uncommon here to be a common occurrence.
Why can't you build a toilet, you might ask? Is it that hard?
But when you learn about the culture of India, you will know that it is really difficult, and the women here will turn on the lights every day when it is not dawn, walk in groups, and do not be naïve enough to think that they are hanging out or partying, and they travel to force them to go to the bathroom in the wilderness.
In the indian cognition of human excrement is filthy is not able to enter the home, can not build a place to undertake, in the outdoor open space to solve their own needs is clean, breathing fresh air, occupying clean open space, can not say that the local people are not clean, can only be said to love clean, strange behavior in logic seems reasonable but see is the low status of women, men can be free to solve, women have to endure a day in the night dark wind high night to solve.
<h1 class = "pgc-h-arrow-right" > married because of love, because of the toilet</h1>
The male protagonist Da Kai is a handsome guy in the countryside, after graduating from high school, he runs his own car dealership, a young man still has no girlfriend, only because his father of the believer makes him have to marry a woman with two big mother fingers, helpless to understand the obscurity, Da Kai has become the laughing stock of the whole village and married a cow as a wife, only because the time of the cow's birth matches the time of Da Kai.
Relying on his love on a cow, I don't know whether to be extremely sympathetic to the male protagonist or silent about the so-called religious beliefs.
Until the encounter with the beautiful and smart girl Janelle, the encounter at first sight, the love story of the greasy uncle and Bai Fumei, from the beginning of the wrong eye to the crazy love, and then to the two running to the palace of marriage, always so sweet, addicted to the whirlpool of love, will make all girls lost, any shortcomings are exclusive advantages, happiness is so simple.
No matter how beautiful love is, it still can't withstand the scrutiny of the details of life, on the night of the new marriage, the seven aunts and eight aunts in the village took turns to knock on her glass and enthusiastically invited her to join the army of night toilets.
Janelle, who is still intoxicated with happiness, has an earth-shattering conflict with her husband Dakai because of the toilet, and Janelle, who has a higher education, whether from birth or in life, has never thought about how her life will become a shrew because of a toilet. Janelle, who was already disappointed in life, when she really couldn't help but want to go to the toilet, her husband took her to the wilderness, squatted down with a shameful face, but did not want to ride the motorcycle publicly with the headlights to meet her, and the two people who looked at each other were embarrassed to look at.
Can imagine the shame of the heroine, but also feel the strange shame and humiliation that has never been suffered, for a woman in a new era, for a woman with higher education, it is absolutely impossible to accept such a thing happening, and her husband did not give timely care and help at the first time of the incident.
Can such love continue? Because the toilet causes contradictions, what you see from the male point of view is indifference, silence, and still continue to live as usual, because this is a normal thing, but no one will think about how the psychology of a newly married girl will be, and everything is so indifferent to women's unfairness, fading to tasteless.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > a 7-minute toilet becomes a luxury</h1>
Because the 7-minute stop of the train became Janelle's time to go to the toilet, but after all, it was not her own home, there would not be so much time and convenience, and suddenly the situation forced Janelle to come to a trip that said she could go.
Standing on the train, Janelle did not have any extra words, what she could see was her aggrieved look, she saw her husband running away, she saw him scolding, such a life may really be enough.
It could have been able to live happily, but because of a toilet constantly quarreling, and even the height will rise to no return, perhaps the toilet is really small, but we can see that what causes is the difference in concepts, is the lack of so-called values and outlook on life.
Why do small things in the eyes of men become sensational events that can be relished or even noisy in the eyes of women, and why do women pay so much attention to detail?
The beginning of the heartbeat is because of the embodiment of details, and the end is often because of the details; the process of moving is because of the details, and the moment of collapse is also because of the details, the details of women are contrived in the eyes of men, but what they do not understand is a hmm, an oh, an o, a forget, it is enough to destroy all the words that want to be said.
When your lover gives you 100 candies, you will certainly not mind whether he has one more or one less, but when your lover only gives you two candies, you will definitely care whether he gives you one less, it is the nature of women to care about the details, and the person who is willing to tell you the details is still because they love you very much and have not given up on you, just because they get too little love.
Every woman cares about the details, and many times she would rather die to the end than say more, because many times saying it is not the beginning of what she expected, thinking that there will be enough warmth, but not wanting to wait for disappointment.
People will lie but the details will not, can be found from your intentions to love her, but also from your perfunctory to see that there is no love, always feel that her calculations, that is because it is not you who swallows the grievances behind your back, the so-called old account is also because you have never changed, such a life there is still something to look forward to?
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > the construction of toilets, the continuation of love</h1>
Because there is no toilet Janelle returned to his home, with disappointment in marriage, with disapproval of traditional ideas, fortunately, Dakai's love for Janelle won over the shackles of religious tradition, and he tried to build a toilet, so that the long-term inherent thinking would not change overnight.
A lot of resistance appeared in front of their eyes one by one, the traditional concept of the family will not change, how to be happy, in the groping of love and details, in the choice of family affection and faith, it is worth saying that the construction of the final toilet, everyone is happy, not every girl has her own hero, but what we hope more is that the future around no longer needs heroes.
Dakai gave Janelle the warmth she needed, standing in the justice of love, standing in the touch of details, standing in the advocacy of humanity and morality.
In India, which we do not know, many young girls died on the way to the Ueno toilet, and they did not dare to rebel against social injustice, but could only obey, such a humble existence.
Women in this era have long ceased to live under the protection of their husbands, let alone humble beings, but people who can carry half the sky may encounter a lot of injustice, but they must dare to speak their minds in this equal generation, no need to rely on anyone's light, they are the queen.
Every husband is a hero in a woman's heart, but the role of this hero will continue to change over time, not because women are fickle, but because they expect too much from men. I hope that every man can turn his head to see the woman who is full of you, from a princess to a maid of the whole family, from an independent name to a husband's surname, from a beloved child to a loving mother, from a girl with ten fingers that does not stick to the spring water of the sun to a rough ugly state.
May one person be favored, willing to do the generosity of the rest of his life, may the rest of his life be known by cold and warm, joy be shared, and the same amount of heaven and earth be wide, and live together for a long time. Warm to each other and live up to each other.
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