Text/Schöwende
Helping a son or daughter with children has now become the main job of the elderly aged 60 to 70 in urban and rural areas.
In our country, where the traditional concept of the family is relatively heavy, family affection trumps all human feelings. I often see in-laws or grandchildren on many occasions intimate and happy together to laugh and play, very envious, perhaps age relationship, every time I see a cute and intelligent grandchild enjoying an incomparably strong generation of affection, I am also intoxicated. Yes, today's children are a hundred times happier than our post-60s and post-70s generation, society is advancing, people have greatly improved in both material life and spiritual culture, and now children can be said to be living in a honeypot. But seeing the baby is not simply to let the grandchildren eat well, dress well, not cold, no fever, no accidents, but a glorious and arduous task, mainly manifested in education, the child's brain is a blank piece of paper, but also the golden stage of learning knowledge and memory things, the media often appears some particularly excellent children, such as: Wang Hengyi in the Chinese poetry conference, a little old age familiar with more than a hundred ancient poems, as well as with the grandmother to learn square dance to become an Internet celebrity, etc., are in the grandparents of a hand belt, Although there are a few individual phenomena under personal teaching, it shows a problem: talents are cultivated step by step by practical deeds, words and deeds, even if they are geniuses, they also need someone to guide and continuously learn to become useful talents.
Of course, there are also negative examples. Because of too much doting, blindly accommodating to the child, let it grow like a tree, this situation is a grandmother knowledge fault, can not meet the child's curiosity and entertainment needs, the other is to see the child absent-minded, while playing mahjong or watching chess, while taking the child, so, how can you bring out excellent children? Therefore, the author hereby advises the grandparents who are full-time to watch the baby, in addition to teaching the children some children's songs, telling some interesting stories, when trying their best to exert their talents, the knowledge suitable for or children can digest, in the three or five years of watching the baby, like drinking honey, let the children grow up really healthy, really reduce the pressure of life and work for the children, and really let the children win at the starting line.
In addition, it must be emphasized here that bringing children to children is the interest of the elderly, not the obligation of the elderly, and they have the ability and energy to help bring children, and children should give the elderly sufficient time and conditions, and cannot be taken for granted with children. In short, everyone works together to make children grow up healthily.
About the author
Author's Archives: Xue Wende, a peasant writer in Xingping City, Shaanxi Province, began to publish works in 1990, and has published more than 100 poems (articles) in newspapers and periodicals across the country, more than ten articles have been reprinted by Today's Headlines, and won various literary awards twelve times.
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