As we all know, love and marriage are two different things.
Ideally, people get married because they are in love. But the reality is that people who enter into marriage do not necessarily love very deeply, and people who love each other may also part ways because of the dowry dispute.
Therefore, how much love accounts for, in order to carry the chai rice oil and salt?
We grabbed a couple of married people and talked a little bit about this esoteric question.
I'm a little disenchanted from love.
It's important, but it's not just about love that sustains a marriage. 1+1>2 social viability, comfortable mode of getting along, stable mood, similar three views, these are all important.
The reality is not only "ning que do not abuse single to the end" and "casually find someone to live" two options, most people are looking for a relatively suitable partner in local love, there is bitterness and happiness to live.
Without perfect love, money is not a panacea. The point is to know yourself and see what your heart is asking for.
On the other hand, instead of asking for the guarantee of marriage, it is better to improve oneself inward. The more mature you are, the more distorted you are, and the world will not collapse.
Love is like that, and so is marriage.
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Series of columns "Emotional Confessions of Contemporary Men and Women"
Focus on young people's concept of marriage and love
In this era when it is better to fall in love than to make money
We are still curious about the love and marriage of young people
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