What if my child always likes to play with his mobile phone? Learn these 3 tricks and let the child consciously and voluntarily put down the mobile phone!

The current era is the media era, is the era of data explosion, now people contact the things are intelligent products, I believe that everyone is very touched, now everyone is holding a mobile phone, every day is playing with their heads down.

People are now becoming low-headed people, living a life dominated by mobile phones, although this smart phone is convenient and decorated our lives, but the harm brought to us is very deep. This kind of harm gradually spread to the child, now not only adults are addicted to mobile phones, this child is also addicted to mobile phones, children are now a mobile phone in each person's hand, immersed in this mobile phone every day, no matter where they are clamoring for mobile phones, they are holding mobile phones. If there is no mobile phone, or if the child is restricted from playing with the mobile phone, the child will lose his temper or cry. This phenomenon is getting worse and worse. Parents want to let their children quit mobile phones, first of all, they must know what is the reason for their children's addiction to mobile phones?

Why kids get hooked on mobile phones:

First, the child's self-control is too poor, the child's self-control is poor, which is the main reason why they are addicted to mobile phones. Especially when children see something that interests them, it is easy to indulge in it and cannot extricate themselves. There are also parents who do not have any plans for their children's leisure time and will not let their children enrich themselves in their free time. Children do not know what they should do, do not have specific goals, and will become increasingly addicted to mobile phones.

Second, the excessive connivance of parents to children's addiction to mobile phones, parents also have to bear part of the responsibility, especially when the child first contacts the mobile phone, if the parents do not control the time of the child to play the mobile phone, the child will fall into the abyss of the mobile phone. Now many parents come home from busy work during the day, and their children want to play and interact with their parents, and their parents are not in the mood, they just want to relax well. At this time, the child will be noisy. Parents feel upset, in order to make the child quiet, they will give the mobile phone to the child to play. As long as the child does not cause trouble and does not disturb the parents, how to play can be. Children will feel that their parents allow themselves to play mobile phones, there is no moderation, often play until 12 o'clock in the evening, only to drag tired eyes and body before going to bed, the next day there is no spirit in class, the mind is thinking of the game in the mobile phone.

Third, parents have not made a good example Parents do not blame children for being addicted to mobile phones, we adults sometimes play mobile phones for hours without end, let alone children? It is said that parents are the closest teachers of children, but / If parents have been playing with mobile phones in front of their children, children will feel unbalanced in their hearts, why can parents play with mobile phones, but they can't? Many parents play mobile phones in front of their children for a long time, and when children play mobile phones, they will scold their children and control the time when their children play mobile phones. Doing so will only make the child rebel and become more addicted to the use of mobile phones. Everyone knows that mobile phones are very harmful to children, not only can lead to children's vision decline, slow thinking, but also let children have no intention of learning, and their grades have plummeted.

How can parents let their children obediently put down their mobile phones? Just three moves.

1. The use of mobile phones correctly Many children are addicted to mobile phones, do not pay attention to lectures in class, do not do homework on time, and have irregular work and rest times. In order to prevent their children from indulging in mobile phones, parents usually use tough means, beat and scold their children, and then forcibly confiscate the mobile phone. These methods "cure the symptoms but not the root causes", can only temporarily control the child's play with the mobile phone, and can not cure the child's "addiction" to the mobile phone. In fact, parents can let their children play with mobile phones appropriately, but they must educate their children on how to play mobile phones correctly. Today's smartphones are fully functional and can do a lot of things, in addition to playing games, watching TV, and doing a lot of beneficial things. For example, parents can let their children watch some instructional videos on their mobile phones, so that children can learn the knowledge they are interested in through videos. When the child encounters doubts, parents can also let the child check the Internet through the mobile phone. These things are good for children, and parents should learn to teach correctly.

2. Divert your child's attention

Children are addicted to playing with mobile phones, and parents can try to professionalize their children's attention and guide their children to do what they are interested in. For example, playing with blocks, playing ball, singing, watching movies, visiting the mall, and so on. Children find more interesting things, not only exercise their interests and strengths, but also gradually get rid of their dependence on mobile phones and gradually "forget" mobile phones.

Jiale flower type art blocks are very suitable for children of different ages to play, rich and diverse play, brightly colored building blocks, let children freely explore the play, building blocks can exercise children's hands-on ability and brain ability, but also learn interesting knowledge, very suitable as a toy to divert children's attention.

3. Parents have to spend time with their children, children sometimes get hooked on playing with mobile phones, in fact, because parents are always busy with work, there is no time to accompany their children, so that children will feel more lonely, can only rely on mobile phones to seek security. So parents should spend more time with their children, play with their children and do homework together, or go out to play together. Children in the company of parents, together to build Jiale flower type art blocks, children themselves to build brains, and parents can jointly discuss building methods, enhance the relationship and tacit understanding between parents and children. Children will also slowly become less dependent on mobile phones, will not be obsessed with mobile phones, put down mobile phones.

The harm of mobile phones for children without self-control is really great, parents should know this harm, but also to pay attention to the child's behavior, do not let the child have this tendency, if the child has this tendency, parents should know how to educate in time, let the child put down the mobile phone, and develop in a healthy direction.