Family Labor Education | There are several ways to cultivate children's correct labor values that you must know

Labor education is related to the future growth of children, and family labor education is the "main battlefield" for cultivating children's correct labor values, so the guidance of parents is crucial. This issue recommends two excellent labor education cases for parents to guide their children in their children's family labor education.

To love children is to be willing to "use children"

Labor education is not only the need of children's future life, but also the needs of children's future survival. Chen Weiru's mother exercises her children from labor, encourages her children from actions, guides her children spiritually, cultivates children's labor values, and promotes children's all-round development.

Biography

Chen Weiru: Chongqing Municipal People's (Rongqiao) Primary School Sixth Grade 4 Class LaborEr

Parental views

Children should properly eat a little of the "bitterness" of labor in order to harvest the "sweetness" of growth. Parents should be willing to "use the child", from an early age to let the child to work, to experience, to exercise, the child has the ability to survive, even if the hand is not afraid of "falling".

But children are born with inertia, and once they meet their physiological and survival needs, they will become lazy. Therefore, parents should have skills in labor education, so that children can form the awareness and habit of labor, and truly achieve work in their eyes, know what they have in mind, and have tricks in their hands.

Parent Tips

1. Lead by example and cultivate a sense of family responsibility

A clean and tidy home is a haven for the soul. Every member of the family is responsible for the cleanliness of the home. We establish family conventions, stipulate family working days, design housework suitable for children's work, and lead by example to cultivate children's sense of family responsibility.

When I was mopping the floor, My father cleaned up the kitchen and the children sorted out the bookshelves; when My father cooked rice and cooked, I helped to lay the hands, and the child was responsible for serving the dishes and setting up the rice bowl; the new furniture arrived, and we looked at the drawings with her to build. In this process, children practice hands-on, sweat, feel the joy of labor, and produce a strong sense of family responsibility.

2. Timely affirmation and continuous stimulation of labor interest

In my daily life, I try to create a happy labor experience for my child, praise her behavior in a timely manner, and stimulate the motivation for continuous labor.

Once, I was sick with a cold, and when I woke up to find my daughter finishing her meal, she not only washed the dishes and chopsticks, cleaned up the dining table, but also wiped the corners and corners of the kitchen countertops.

I sighed in surprise: "It's nice to have a daughter, sympathize with my mother who is sick and clean up the kitchen, and let my mother hug me." "I express my appreciation for my children, which is both affirmation and allowing children to see their own value, and to produce a sense of satisfaction that they are needed and affirmed."

3. Encourage trial and error and cultivate correct labor values

Children's understanding is mostly learned from mistakes. I encourage children to try and make mistakes, and let children try and exercise. One day my daughter hated me for cooking badly, so I encouraged her to do it herself.

The child is competitive and goes into the kitchen to choose and stir-fry. Seeing that the dish was almost mushy, I did not interfere. When it is time to eat, the child frowns as he eats. "The first time I can fry like this, it's very good, and I will continue to work hard."

Since then, the child has never said that I am not good at cooking, she has learned to stir-fry with her father, and now she can cook several dishes.

The word "diligent" is used to base the future worry-free

In the impression of many people, the "post-95" is far inferior to their parents in terms of labor, but Jiang Yuling, who was born in 1997 and graduated from Wuhan University as a graduate student, is not only diligent and efficient in work, but also a good hand in life. I believe that her sharing will inspire many parents.

Biography

Jiang Yuling: Employee of a state-owned enterprise, graduated from Wuhan University.

My labor story

Parents should be willing to let go

Since I was a child, my parents have paid more attention to the exercise of labor skills, which is related to my family environment. My father worked in the railroad department and was often away from home; my mother was a nurse, working hard, leaving early and returning late.

Under the guidance of my mother, from the second grade of elementary school, I began to make my own breakfast, from the beginning I could only boil eggs and hot milk, to later I would make small noodles, wrap hands, and do simple baking, not only to take care of myself, but also to help my mother share a lot of housework.

My mother's encouragement strategy is also very good, she often praises me in front of relatives and friends that I love labor, and she says it very specifically, and every time I hear it, my heart is sweet. Later, I learned psychology to learn how effective this trick was. When I reached the university and even graduate school stage, I found that some of the students around me had almost zero housework, their clothes were carried to the laundry room to spend money to wash, their shoes were dirty and not brushed, and the desktop and bed were even more messy. I am very fortunate that I have cultivated good labor habits since I was a child.

After work, I experienced the benefits of loving labor. As a new employee, everyone says that I have an "eye frame", for example, I take the initiative to flush the coffee machine in the office, I go to tidy up the bookshelf, no one pours tea for me in the meeting, and I also take the initiative to take on some extra tasks within my ability... These bits and pieces of mine have left a good impression on everyone.

Experience

The underlying support of labor consciousness

In fact, when I was an undergraduate, I went to an ordinary college, but in college, I learned my favorite journalism major, coupled with the more diligent habits I developed from childhood, I was willing to make an effort to study.

Gradually, I realized that whether it is physical or mental work, housework or study exams, whether I am willing to do it or not, in the final analysis, it is a "diligent" word.

This allows me not to be sloppy about any of my "to-dos", but to be willing to go deep into it and do things well in a specific and subtle way. With the support of the word "diligent", I also made a breakthrough in my studies, becoming the only graduate student in the department who was guaranteed to be a graduate student of 985 University that year.

Now I have been in the workplace for nearly a year, but also because of a "diligent" word, my work ability has been affirmed by the leadership. It is in response to the words that my mother often said when I was a child: "Children who love to work, do nothing bad."

This article is from the New Parents Daily, Issue 969-970

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