Get up early in the morning, the child has to go to school, the parents have to go to work, and when the school is over, the parents have time to chat, study, and play with the child. Therefore, the three hours after the child's school is very important to the parents and children, how do you spend these three hours in your family? Is it time to make good use of it?
6:00-7:00: Dinner table communication time
After the child's school, parents should chat with their children to understand the situation of the child's day, and the dinner table is actually the most natural chat place. But many parents are not very good at chatting with their children, and the dialogue between them and their children is always:
"Is your homework done?"
"How many points did you get on the exam?"
"How are you doing in school?"
This kind of questioning begins with a reprimand, and rarely talks about the child's heart. Over time, children are reluctant to chat with their parents. There was a father who usually asked:
Is there anything good happening in school?
What good performance did you have today?
What's the catch today?
Is there anything you need Dad's help with?
Behind the seemingly simple question is a rich meaning:
The first question is actually investigating her daughter's values to understand what she feels is good and what is bad in her heart;
The second question is actually motivating the daughter and increasing her self-confidence;
The third question is to ask her to confirm what she has learned;
The fourth question has two meanings, one is that I care about you, and the other is that learning is your own business. It is this simple four questions that contain a lot of love and care in it, and in fact prove to be very effective.
What to ask actually reflects the adult's attitude towards life, determines the child's outlook on life, and will guide the child in a positive or negative direction.
When opening the child's box, parents can also ask: "Which child do you like the most", "Which classmate in your class is the most naughty", etc., to remove the child's defense. When children complain about homework, parents should not immediately criticize, but should first show understanding, and then comfort and help.
7:00-8:00: Study time
Writing homework with children should be a fixed track for every family with children. Many families make a lot of noise about their children's homework, and they can't be at peace.
Children write homework, it is necessary to develop good habits from an early age, once the habits are not formed, it is very tossed for children and parents.
Generally speaking, we have these three steps to accompany our children to write homework.
■ Ask your child about today's plans first
For example: "How much work is there in each subject today?" "Which is more difficult, how are you going to get this difficulty?" "Which subject to do first, the state is good to do the difficult first, and the state is generally to do a simple feeling first." Roughly understand the child's progress, secretly observe when the child is learning, and do it in mind.
■ Help your child master the method
Some children are very afraid of memorizing ancient poems, in fact, at this time, parents have to help their children overcome what they are not good at. For example, to instruct him how to memorize ancient poems efficiently, first teach the child where the poem rhymes, and then find keywords to help the child understand what the poem is talking about. Finally, looking at the word pairing, it is much faster to understand the characteristics of this poem.
■ Focus analysis
When the child comes out every time the test results come out, discuss with the child why it is wrong, whether it is carelessness or the concept is not understood... Tell your child that if you usually do more of the type of homework, the probability of getting a high score is greater. This can link test scores with the quality of homework, so as to improve the quality of children's homework.
8:00-9:00: Parent-child reading time
When the child finishes writing his homework, the family sits together and reads a book in the gentle light, what a warm and happy picture.
Reading is of course a very beneficial thing, every parent wants their children to develop the habit of loving reading, but how to help children develop the habit of reading? Parent-child reading every night is undoubtedly a good way.
Parents accompany their children to read, which is conducive to creating a family reading atmosphere, children grow up in this atmosphere, and parents teach by example, naturally they can develop a good habit of reading.
For younger children, parents can take their children to read the same book together, while reading, while telling their children, parents and children snuggled together, such a childhood time will undoubtedly become the child's best memory.
For older children, parents can let him read it for himself, let him read it by himself, and then communicate with the child to see what the child has read from the book, learned, and thought about it. Confucius said: To learn without thinking is to be reckless, and to think without learning is to perish. Many children read a book and quickly forget the situation, which is also what we want to avoid, so that children can learn and have the ability to think and innovate.
This time period has elements of leisure, entertainment, and recreation, but it is rewarding for children. Parents only need to set aside this hour every day, which not only helps their children establish a good habit, but also creates a good emotional time.
No one is born with a parent, nor is there a child born with. Everyone learns to be a parent and constantly gropes in the growth of their children.
No matter how busy and tired the parents are, use these 3 hours a day to achieve high-quality education for their children. Well, when the parents become excellent, the children will also change with the changes of the parents.
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