Now everyone advocates that parents can take their children out of the house as much as possible, to contact nature, and to carry out more outdoor activities.
Although many parents do this, there are some occasions for children that are not particularly suitable, so when taking children out, parents must have a choice, and try to avoid children going to places that are not suitable for children, so as not to affect the child's body and mind.
Case
Ms. Zhang's husband's grandmother recently passed away, because the old man was very fond of Ms. Zhang's husband when he was alive, so as a grandson, Ms. Zhang's husband naturally had to attend the old man's funeral.
But he also euphemistically expressed the hope that his wife and children could go with him, so that he could at least show that he should be cautious about this matter and highlight their filial piety.
But considering the child's young age, Ms. Zhang did not agree. However, the husband insisted on his own opinion, kept lobbying Ms. Zhang, and finally let his wife reluctantly relax, so on the 2nd day, the family of three drove back to their hometown to visit the last side of the old man.
Since Ms. Zhang's husband was born in a large family, the funeral of the elderly was very solemn, and the guests almost filled the entire hall. In addition to the mournful music that is constantly played on the radio every day, the family invited the most famous local folk orchestra to play, and the sound of firecrackers is incessant, which further sets off the sadness of the atmosphere.
At first, the child thought that so many people were very interesting, but gradually they felt a little afraid, because the music played was not good for the child, and the sudden sound of firecrackers often frightened the child.
Perhaps feeling the discomfort of the child, after the old man was buried, Ms. Zhang left with the child in a hurry.
On the night of returning home, the child had a high fever, and all night he turned over in bed and slept badly, and from time to time he made a series of crying noises, which made Ms. Zhang look particularly distressed. Because of this incident, Ms. Zhang and her husband had an unpleasant quarrel, and did not pay attention to her husband for several days, because if it were not for her husband's insistence, the child would not have been sick.
Aside from funerals, what other occasions are not suitable for children?
Entertainment
Some parents will often appear in some entertainment venues because of socializing or their own greed, and the most frequent of them should be KTV.
Sometimes the child is not taken care of at home, the parents will take the child with them, but the air in this closed occasion does not circulate, coupled with some people will smoke indoors unconsciously, which will inevitably lead to the child's respiratory system is not adapted, resulting in cough and other symptoms.
In addition, in such a place, the sound is very noisy, and the decibel of everyone's voice is very high, which will also cause some damage to the child's membrane.
There are also dim lights, which will make the child's eyes tired, in short, the entertainment place is not suitable for the child, and the parents try not to let the child get involved.
hospital
Hospitals are the places with the most germs, although some hospitals will disinfect regularly, but patients who come and go will invisibly release their own viruses, so that the entire air is filled with unhealthy factors.
Although taking the child to the hospital to visit the elders is a kind of respect for the elders, but because the child's immunity is relatively low, the hospital is still as little as possible, I believe that the elders will not mind this, and when they are discharged home, it is not impossible for the child to visit again. Of course, if you are sick, you still have to take your baby with you!
Market
The floor of the wet market is very slippery, and there are many people coming and going, and if the children are not careful, they will slip or be knocked down, which is of course a very dangerous thing. Therefore, it is best for parents not to bring their children into the wet market, so as not to hurt their children.
Especially in the live poultry market, children should be banned, because many live birds carry bacteria that humans have not discovered so far, and how lethal they cause, I believe that through this epidemic, everyone has already understood. Therefore, not only children, but even adults should go less, so as not to contaminate the bacteria and spread it to the child.
Places of worship
There are many Buddhist or Taoist holy places on the mainland, which is a culture that has been handed down, and some parents hope to take their children to experience it earlier, so they will take their children to religious sites when they are young.
But after entering the temple, it will be filled with a lot of smoke, many devout believers will bow three times and nine times, of course, do not forget to ask for incense, so that the smoke-filled environment will make the child depressed, but also let the child breathe uncomfortable. In addition, the Buddha statues in the temple have a more vicious expression, and children are prone to nightmares at night after watching them, so it is best for parents to take their children to such places less.