Time is relentless.
In the passage of time, many precious things are often taken away.
For example, a person's appearance will decline over time.
There is an old saying that goes, "Flowers are not red." ”
In addition to the obvious things, in fact, many people's behavior habits will gradually change with the change of cognition, and even one day, it will become worldly.
Once upon a time, everyone had innocent dreams, but as they walked, they lost their way.
When change, it becomes an almost inevitable thing.
In the minds of many people, it is rare to be able to retain a piece of innocence of the past. This is the case in life, and in the world of emotions, there will be such phenomena as well.
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Men, why pursue girls?
Why do two people become lovers?
Where fate begins, everything is beautiful.
From the perspective of girls, before encountering love, they have dreams and goals, and they have their own way of doing things, so women can often strive for a personal wonderful.
At the same time, women will also have a unique charm under the influence of nature.
It is undeniable that women often have an innocent sense of beauty in their own world.
When encountering such a girl, men are easily touched by the soul and think that this is the object of love that they are looking forward to.
In everyone's heart, there is a soft place.
Once you meet the person who touches your soft heart, everyone can't help but have a desire to protect him. Especially men, when they meet simple and kind girls, it is easy for everyone to have the idea of admiration.
I even hope that for the rest of my life, I can always guard such a woman. When the seeds of love get the opportunity to germinate, in the next time, men will often spare no effort to complete each other's fate.
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The simpler a woman is, the more attractive she is.
When I love you.
Men will do everything they can to keep a woman's heart.
Under their unremitting pursuit, girls will let down their defenses and choose to accept a certain man.
When the girl thinks that she has met a destination.
They think that they can spend the rest of their lives with people who love them, and they are bound to grasp the happiness they want. As everyone knows, even if two people become lovers, they still have to face too many tests.
For example, men in love are often fickle.
When the feelings of two people enter a period of flatness, some men will become indifferent, and their focus will be diverted from the lover's body, so that girls will feel snubbed.
In this case, it is easy for girls to attribute the problem to the "fickleness" of men.
As everyone knows, in the passage of time, everyone will change, and if women become complicated, it is easy to become a burden in men's hearts. For example, when a woman loses her kindness or becomes a lover of comparison, the man's love may weaken.
As a girl, how to firmly tie a man's heart? In fact, everyone should understand the fact that in men's minds, "simple" women are actually very attractive.
First: Reserved by nature.
In this world, what does not change is change.
Whether in love or marriage, women are constantly changing.
Where love begins, men tend to be proactive. And when two people determine the relationship, the girl will often become a positive party, hoping to play the dominant role in the relationship.
At the same time, the woman's reservedness disappeared.
Instead, it's often the big grinning side. For example, in front of men, girls will no longer blush, but will become sloppy and appear informal.
Obviously, the result of this will make the woman lose her original charm.
In the eyes of men, it is the nature of women to be reserved and refined. Such a girl is not only attractive, but also simple and easy to get along with. Who knows, after getting married, the woman next to her becomes a person who does not trim the edges.
She would speak boldly and gossip about others, and there would be no more shyness. Sometimes, she will turn her face without saying a word, giving people a feeling of bad match.
When the girl's reticence completely disappears, what will disappear at the same time is the mystery in the man's heart. When women become no longer elegant, how can they capture men's hearts!
Second: easy to satisfy.
The pursuit of beauty is human nature.
However, in the journey of life, what is even more rare is to be able to achieve "contentment and happiness".
What kind of girl will you fall in love with for a long time without getting tired?
If a person, keen on comparison, pesters men every day to ask for things. How long can this mode of getting along last? In the face of a person who is difficult to fill, men will only feel more and more tired.
Simple girls, on the other hand, often have the quality of contentment.
In life, they can find out their personal positioning and needs, and they can also make smart choices.
Meeting such a woman is a blessing for men. Because girls will not complain, but will run a good life with the man they love, so that the days are warm and comfortable.
Those who like to compare will become more complicated day by day.
In contrast, the more grateful a woman's material needs are, the simpler it is, but it will become the object that men are willing to protect.
Third: Be kind to others.
Kindness is a woman's nature.
Somewhere around the corner, I met a woman who was kind to someone.
Even if she does not have an outstanding appearance, she can easily touch the hearts of men.
Because of the kind side of women, it is easy to make people have good hopes, touch the soft side of men's hearts, so as to cast admiring eyes on you, hoping to fall in love with such a girl.
But after holding hands, the two people will face a long process of running-in, and sometimes, women will lose some noble qualities. As a result, it makes men feel that getting along with each other becomes complicated.
Kind girls can put themselves in the shoes of men and think about it. Therefore, they can understand the pain of men, and they will also use understanding and tolerance to treat the man who loves them deeply.
When a girl, I lose the quality of kindness.
She will not be satisfied with the life in front of her, and she will continue to complain about the people around her. As a result, the feelings of two people will also become complicated, and differences and contradictions will come unexpectedly, eventually affecting each other's love.
Time is passing and everyone changes.
When two people hold hands and become a couple, how can they pass the test of time?
For girls, after they accept a person, they are often ready to look good. In the next time, how can women keep a man's heart?
In the eyes of men, the more "simple" a woman is, the more attractive she appears.
Even if the years are merciless, if the girl can simply wait, it is not difficult to grasp the direction of love. Instead of becoming complicated, it is better to maintain a reserved side, be a contented person, and treat the people and things around you with a kind attitude.
Women should believe that the simpler and luckier they are for the rest of their lives.
Author: Zhou Woodman, an emotional cultivator with an attitude. Write the warmth of the world, read the heart-warming story, and thank you for your company along the way. I only hope that the years are quiet, the clouds are light and the wind is light, and you and I can pour out our heartfelt feelings when we meet in a piece of text.