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Today, the 654th day I've been writing, today's theme is: The Reasons for Human Progress
Ni Kuang said: The progress of mankind is based on the next generation
This sentence, at first glance, may seem a bit rebellious, but when you think about it, this is the case.
In the science fiction drama "Black Mirror Ark Angel", such a scene is set up: with the development and progress of science and technology, such a technology was invented: implanting a chip on their children, you can see all the words and deeds of your children on the tablet, and you can also interact in real time. The most wonderful thing is that if the child is afraid of dogs, it can be set up so that all the dogs in the child's field of vision can become mosaics. One mother used the technology. When her daughter's male classmate showed off the violent video on her mobile phone, all she saw was a mosaic. The use of power is addictive. After the daughter learned the truth, the mother promised not to use it again, but later she could not bear it, which eventually led to a tragic ending.
Expecting your children to be obedient should be the idea of most parents. The word we heard the most when we were kids was "obedient." Whenever they disagree with their parents, and their parents are too lazy to reason, they will sacrifice this magic weapon. Behind this magic weapon is the natural right of parents to control their children. Children, it seems, must act according to the orders of their parents. Any words or deeds that violate the orders of the parents seem to be a great rebellion.
In my family, I am the eldest, and in a family, the boss is actually a more difficult role, especially if the boss is much older than the second eldest. Since having the second eldest, in the eyes of his parents, he is no longer a child, as long as there is a conflict with the small, no matter who is right and who is wrong, the first sentence is always, you are a brother, do not know to let her. The idea of "the eldest brother is like a father" has spread to every corner of the family since having the second eldest. In a way, my childhood, basically from the second eldest, officially ended.
When I was a child, intentionally or unintentionally, I would say something for the praise of my parents, do something, and always feel very happy whenever I was praised by my parents. But this happiness is also decreasing with age, slowly even becoming a pressure, remember the last time I did not know what kind of thing I did, but it was against the wishes of my mother, the mother said: "I think you are now more and more disobedient to your mother." ”
As a child, it is stressful to hear such words. Although no matter how old they are, they are all children in the eyes of their parents, but they are only in the eyes of their parents. This society does not see itself as a child, and this society does not turn a blind eye to itself because it listens to its mother.
As a life, having a sense of self, not relying entirely on the opinions of others to behave in the world, should be a very proud thing. I remember seeing a man who had done a very successful business, and he said that if he listened to his mother, his best situation would be to have two cows, two acres of land, and even a mountain village.
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The dripping water lasts for a long time, and only then can it penetrate the stone; do not forget the original intention, and always have to be there
Tomorrow's Theme: Fight for Yourself