Text | Jimmy Mom
Ever since I got old and had children, I've become a bearer in my circle of friends.
When my friends mentioned me, they all looked at me with a look of sighing and admiration, thinking that I was not easy.
I'm often asked:
Especially tired, two smashed, oops!
Don't hide from you, a few days ago at work I took an online car, the driver's big brother knew that I had two sons, silenced for a while, and actually said:
I'll give you the end of the intersection. But pressing the end can't navigate, you recognize the way, right?
I thanked him awkwardly but politely.
Scientific studies have shown that the happiness of both parents, from the birth of the first child, until the youngest child is independent, will return to the level before the birth of the child.
This scientist is so funny, to tell the truth!
However, this did not stop humans from having children.
Either deliberately, or unexpected surprises, children, one by one came.
It is often asked:
Hey, do you say that one man and one woman are good, or is it the same good?
You say, how many years is the best difference between two children?
The first question is, you see how the word "good" is written.
The second question is, there is no best, only the most deadly.
To be honest, I didn't deliberately want a second child.
When Xiao Zhang was three or four years old, someone asked:
What would you think if your mom gave birth to a younger sibling?
He looked at me with trepidation:
Mom, I don't like younger siblings, if you have to give birth, you can give birth to me a sister.
This, well, I really can't do it.
Ask your father to see if he had any bad luck in his early years.
After that, every time he mentioned his younger siblings, he was very resistant.
The reason is: I want to be your only child and you only love me.
Jimmy's arrival was an "accident".
In line with the principle that all who come are guests, I gladly accepted.
If the first child had been a girl, I would have been happier, you know.
When I was about five months old, I knew that I was pregnant with another little boy, and I couldn't stop crying.
Until now, When Lao Zhang looked at his fat Jimmy, he would look at him with a spark of love and say, Oh, if Jimmy were a fat girl!
If Jimmy is such a fat, how rich do you have to marry her off.
Lao Zhang has told me countless times about his dream in this life.
It was "My little daughter danced to me in a ballet dress."
This was impossible, and it was common for his fat son to wield a big stick.
I've written before that two-child families have chains of contempt:
One girl and one boy> one boy and one girl> two girls > two boys
Some people also say, no, no, no, the ranking is not right, it should be two girls at the top.
But for the bottom end, there has never been a dispute.
Yes, I'm at the bottom of the second-child chain of contempt.
Both boys are very destructive, very powerful, and have a long time to live.
I always felt that the two of them had been street lights in their previous lives.
I was exhausted and they could still fight at any time.
Two little girls can live quietly.
You can play with a doll for half a day and read a book for an hour.
The sister can be the sister's little teacher, grasping the number of words with one hand.
Our home, huh.
They can tear down the house together.
Of course, you can also play together. But within 5 minutes, one will say another fool, and one will try to catch the other with a full face.
The older brother didn't want to teach his younger brother, he just wanted to beat him.
For the old mother, two sons, it may be a little too challenging.
To make the construction bank crazy, in addition to the preparation of two apartments, and their boundless destruction.
Of course, what disturbed me the most was that I would have two daughters-in-law in the future.
And the combination of good words at the top of the chain of contempt: sister + brother, how fragrant, I went out to play this time, it is deeply appreciated.
This suburban tour was mainly with my sister and her daughter, Jimmy's little cousin.
Because it was out of the middle of the week, he could only take Jimmy with him, and Xiao Zhang had to go to school.
This trip simply made me deeply envious of those families who have sisters in their families.
The little sister was playing with Jimmy all the way, and the two of them had a business idea.
When Jimmy is bored, he draws a picture for Jimmy and asks Jimmy to guess who it is.
When we were talking adults, the little sister accompanied Jimmy to watch popular science animation.
Also while watching, while inspiring Jimmy.
Jimmy: Do you know why the environmental problem is so serious now?
Because, because, the village chief stole all the grain.
Don't ask me why he answered that way, I don't know.
Hahaha, no, here is a large number of animals hunted, destroying the ecological balance.
Jimmy, do you know where Africa is?
Africa, is Africa in Sanya?
No, Jimmy, isn't Sanya in China, you've been there.
The two of them talked and laughed, watched for a while, and then accompanied Jimmy outside the house to play with water guns.
During this time, Jimmy was also reminded to drink the water twice.
If this were to be replaced by Xiao Zhang, it is estimated that after Jimmy's nonsensical answers, he would be said to be a scum, inattentive, and unable to teach. Then drop the pen and leave!
They all say that the sister is the little mother.
Adults do not ask for anything, but women are born with motherhood, coupled with the attraction of the opposite sex, they are extra patient.
My greatest wish now is to borrow my sister's daughter to our house for two months.
With my sister's brother, my parents are basically a decoration!
No matter what kind of combination the second child is in the family, in fact, I think that having two children is not giving birth to a companion for the eldest, because in the future, the children must be their own old partner.
Raising more children is not to prevent old age, but to have one more child to appreciate and accompany.
There are two children in the family, and tiredness is certain.
When they were all sick, when they were tired and dizzy, they really regretted it.
But that's definitely intermittent.
When you hear the sweet words of the boss and the second brother burst into a barbell-like laughter, you can't imagine that you have to prepare two suites and get along with two daughters-in-law.
Happiness For second-born mothers, most of the time it is just that the two of them don't get sick, at least don't get sick at the same time.
Children are the fathers of adults.
Every child has given us adults a chance to grow up, a chance to find the original heart.
If we have two children, especially two sons, our search process will be more ups and downs.
Having a baby is definitely a practice.
Giving birth to two sons was probably a more arduous practice.