Today is International No Children's Day
Also known as "No Slap Day"
Treat children
Please know how to guide and respect
Origin of The International Day of The Non-HitTers
International Day of No Children
Is an "Effective Corrections Center" by the U.S. anti-corporal punishment organization
A festival initiated in 1998
That is, April 30 of each year
The festival passes through various activities
Promote the concept of the human rights of children who oppose corporal punishment
This event was first promoted in the United States
Later, it gradually received an international response
Expanded to International No Hits Day
Is child abuse far away from us?
Data display
Children in urban areas of China
Incidence of physical abuse
Reach 41.2% to 67.3%
Other than that
Violence is more than just physical violence
It also includes emotional or mental violence
Sexual violence and neglect
UNICEF (United Nations Children's Fund)
He has analyzed 68 research papers
The results showed that children aged 0 to 17 years in China
The incidence of physical abuse was 26.6%
The incidence of emotional abuse was 19.6%
The incidence of sexual abuse was 8.7%
The incidence of neglect was 26.0%
Wounded, maimed or even killed
This is just some of the harms of child abuse
For the victim
They may also face the harm that will accompany them for the rest of their lives
Children who are often subjected to domestic violence
More likely to have psychological problems
It is more likely that violence will be used to solve the problem
Why can't you hit a child?
Hitting a child hurts both the body
It hurts feelings again
Most parents hit their children when they hit
I don't want to really hurt my child
But they often underestimate the pain they inflict on their children
again
Hitting a child is destroying the parent-child relationship at the same time
It can also hurt the child's inner emotional development
More likely to increase your child's aggression
Negative emotions such as world-weariness and extreme inferiority
Children have the right to be free from violence
It is the duty of the State to prohibit corporal punishment of children
Government, educators and parents
Should all be recognized
Children in all the situations in which they live
All have to be respected
The right not to be violated by violence
No matter at home
Childcare facilities
school
Or in any other public place
Children enjoy legal protection against corporal punishment
How should parents educate children who "make mistakes"?
Articulate your position clearly
When a child makes inappropriate moves
Parents need to express their positions and attitudes concisely and forcefully
At the same time in a positive way
Guide your child to adjust or change in the right direction
Give your child different options
When we try to intervene in the child's inappropriate behavior
In addition to emphasizing "you can't do this"
We can also provide children with other reasonable options
Let the child feel it
I am an individual who is respected
Thus, they are more willing to respect the guidance of their parents
Let your child experience the consequences of their actions
It is different from intentionally hurting or humiliating a child
Parents can be appropriate
Let the child feel his own behavior
The natural consequences
such
Children will adjust their behavior according to their own experience
Of course
This approach does not apply
Situations that endanger the physical and mental safety of children
Guide your child to make up for his or her mistakes
When a child makes a mistake
Or offend us
Parents can also come from a problem-solving perspective
Guide your child to focus
How to remedy your mistakes
How to learn and grow in mistakes
Whether for educational purposes or abuse
Violence is violence
Each child is an individual
And not anyone's outlet
How to be a parent who treats emotions well?
Growing up is never a rush
In the process of parent-child relationship
Understand your child more
Communicate more with your child
Avoid contradictions
Avoid brute force to solve the problem in the following ways
Hope to help every parent
Every child deserves to be pampered
Treat children
Please know how to guide and respect
Listen to them
Accompany children to grow up with tolerance and patience
(According to Xinhua Net, People's Net, Public Net, etc.)