The contradictions in this world, in addition to the contradictions of feelings, are the contradictions of interests.
The contradictions caused by interests are easy to resolve, either to fight with the other party for a scalp and bloodshed, or to take a step back from the sea and the sky.
But the contradictions caused by feelings are often responsible and multi-layered, and once they fall into turning over old accounts, they will never end, and it is impossible to say who is right and who is wrong.
Unless one side is willing to bow its head, it will keep making trouble, and until one side wins, such as the fifty-year-old Sister Wang, it will encounter a very bad thing.
Sister Wang once had a very excited family, the next day after marriage, Sister Wang gave birth to a daughter to her husband, in order to give a better life to the family, the mother-in-law let her husband go out to work.
It may be that the fate should have this robbery, the husband went out to work for a few days, there was a serious accident, after some rescue did not rescue.
Although the other party lost more than 400,000 yuan later, but what is the use of these 400,000, Wang Dajie would rather use this 400,000 to exchange for her husband and let the child have a complete home.
At that time, the mother-in-law also said that she would not force Sister Wang to stay, and Sister Wang could remarry but the child they wanted to stay, but Sister Wang could not bear that the child had no father and no mother, and chose to stay and take care of her daughter.
Relying on the money left by her husband and the monthly minimum guarantee, the life was still OK, until later the daughter also became a family, and The life of Sister Wang was relaxed.
In the past, I felt tired from working every day, and now I feel tired when I am idle, and I am particularly lonely, and later after my daughter and son-in-law have children, although I have helped to take care of my children in the past, I still have no sense of belonging in my daughter's home.
It is estimated that the daughter is also aware of the change in her mother's mood, so that her mother does not stay at home every day, go out more, and chat with the old man and old lady downstairs.
At first, Sister Wang did not dare to go, and then slowly became familiar with it, and was not afraid, someone saw that Sister Wang was a good person, and also introduced her to a man who had been single for many years, when the wife ran away with someone, the other party has not been useful to remarry.
At first, Sister Wang was embarrassed, but she couldn't stand everyone's persuasion, so Wang went to meet with each other, and the results were that they felt good about each other.
Later, I tried to get along a bit, and Sister Wang found that the man's character and personality were good, although the conditions were average, but people were really ok, and the elder sister Wang had long looked down on those.
Knowing that Sister Wang found a reliance, the daughter and son-in-law were also very blessed, and when Sister Wang was married, the daughter and son-in-law also made a special effort, saying that she was grateful for her dedication to her daughter for so many years.
Before that, it was all beautiful, but the occurrence of one thing made the care of Sister Wang and her son-in-law drop to the freezing point, and the daughter was also silent.
It turned out that Sister Wang got pregnant after half a year of marriage, and it is reasonable to say that Sister Wang is only 50 years old, although it is more dangerous to have children, but it is not impossible to give birth, and there are examples of older births.
And considering that the man has no heirs, Sister Wang also hopes to give birth to this child, so that the marriage between the two will be more perfect.
However, Sister Wang's idea was fiercely opposed by her daughter and son-in-law, and she would not be allowed to have this child, which made Sister Wang feel very embarrassed.
In the eyes of the daughter and son-in-law, Sister Wang is the age of being a grandmother, and at this time there will be another child, and when the mother and her daughter sit in confinement?
And Sister Wang is so old, giving birth to a child is likely to be dangerous, the daughter and son-in-law do not want Sister Wang to take this risk, in case of divorce at that time, what to do.
And there is a more realistic problem, now that Sister Wang is 50 years old, the man is also 48 years old, although the two can still do some work, but how long can they work.
At that time, the two people will not be able to raise this child, and will it fall on the head of the daughter and son-in-law, after all, such a thing has not happened.
In this regard, many netizens also expressed their own views, some netizens said that they must be born, so that the marriage can be more perfect, leaving each other behind, so that you two have no regrets.
But some netizens expressed concern that the two people are not young, and now that they have children, they will not be able to raise them when the time comes, and the children will be completely guilty, and they will also drag down their daughters and sons-in-law.
Netizen Xiao Lu said that you must be born, whether you are born or not is your own business, your daughter and son-in-law have no right to interfere, but you must also consider the actual problems, and whether your body is allowed.