No one asks about the poor and downtown, and the rich have distant relatives in the mountains.
1
Borrow rice without borrowing firewood, borrow clothes without borrowing shoes
Borrowing rice is a relief person and a blessing for oneself, so ordinary people will not refuse.
But firewood is everywhere, as long as you are willing to work hard, you can go to collect firewood.
The ancients saved the poor, but did not save the lazy.
I don't borrow shoes because everyone's size is different, and it is difficult to find a fit.
In addition, the shoes have to walk, and it is not good to get dirty and broken.
2
Don't be a middle man, don't do insurance, and have no worries in your life
Don't be an intermediary, don't give a guarantee to others, and there will be no troubles in your life.
To be an intermediary, you must know each other on both sides and be friends.
It's okay not to have an accident, but if something goes wrong, it will be blamed on you.
In the end things fell apart and my friends were gone.
3
Worms in the dish, dead in the dish
Tomb robbers generally die in tombs, and water thieves generally die in water.
Wherever you do bad things, you will generally die wherever you go.
4
Chai rice husband and wife, wine and meat friends, box relatives
Between husband and wife is chai rice oil and salt, friends are eating and drinking, relatives can not be separated from gifts and snacks.
The most intimate relationships tend to be more simple and authentic.
5
Adults are uncomfortable, comfortable is not adults
Those who want to make a difference are generally uncomfortable and cannot come by their own nature.
Every day is at ease, and it generally doesn't matter.
If you want to achieve great things, you have to endure what ordinary people can't stand.
6
Eat onions eat garlic without eating ginger
Ginger and "will" are harmonized.
It means not to eat other people's radical methods.
Once you get on the head, it is easy to get into trouble.
7
Eat people's food, look at people's faces
Serve the bowl of the people, and be managed by the people
If you rely on others in your life, you have to obey the constraints of others.
Economic power determines the right to speak.
If you want to be left unchecked, you have to be self-reliant.
Young people don't listen to their parents, but are financially dependent on them.
This is not rude.
8
Mercy does not control the soldiers, and righteousness does not control wealth
The benevolent and soft-hearted cannot lead the army, and the righteous cannot take charge of the treasury.
The battlefield is a matter of life and death, and the key moment cannot be the benevolence of women, otherwise they can only lose everything and lose more lives.
Therefore, the general must be fierce.
There are many loyal and righteous people in the world, and they value friends and light wealth, so the so-called righteous and loose wealth, so the righteous cannot keep the wealth, nor can they keep it. Because they don't care about money at all.
9
Hitting people does not punch them in the face, and scolding people does not expose their shortcomings
If you have a conflict with others, don't poke others in the sore spots.
Momentary pain, endless harm, control emotions, talent and anger to make money.
10
The rich are destined for their lives, and the little rich are by their diligence
Whether a person can be rich or not is predestined by heaven.
Whether a person can be well-off depends on personal efforts.
Fate sometimes has to have it, and fate must not demand it at any time.
It is enough to be down-to-earth, innocent, and do your own thing.
11
It is better to demolish ten temples than to destroy one pro
Breaking up someone else's marriage is a terrible thing.
Ruining a family's marriage ruins the happiness of three generations.
Parents are injured, husband and wife are separated, and children are implicated, and the faults in this cannot be repaired.
12
No one asks about the poor and downtown, and the rich have distant relatives in the mountains
If people are poor, no one will come to the door in the downtown area.
If people are rich, there are also people who live in the mountains and flatter.
The world is hot and cold, since ancient times.
13
Brother, settle the account
Between relatives, the last thing they owe is economic debt.
As close as brothers, we must also put the account on the surface.
Only by making the accounts clear can we help alleviate family economic disputes, ease member relations, and promote long-term cooperation.
14
Children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, and they should not be horses and cattle with their children and grandchildren
There are many parents who work hard to save up for their children.
Worry that the child can't cook, don't have a good job, don't have a good partner.
In fact, future generations have their own blessings, and they need to be responsible for their own lives.
Those who are elders do not have to be used as cattle and horses for them, and they are overworked. Please forward and share, carry forward the traditional Chinese culture!