introduction
Getting married is a very festive event.
An etiquette expert said that there is a very important taboo at the wedding scene, and that is crying.
So, why is it taboo to cry at the wedding scene?
The etiquette expert went on to say that there are two main reasons why crying is taboo at the wedding scene:
The first reason: customs
As we all know, a wedding is a festive, peaceful, and happy occasion, and it is an important moment for a couple to start a new life. At this moment, a couple is happy and should show a feeling of happiness with a smile, while crying creates an unpleasant or sad feeling that can seriously spoil the festive atmosphere and is incompatible with the festive atmosphere. Once a couple has a sign of crying, it will be against custom and will imply uncertainty and worry about their future life.
The second reason: culture
The ancients believed that laughter was a symbol of good luck, and crying was a symbol of bad luck. Since ancient times, marriage and love culture has thought so. Based on this, crying is avoided at the wedding. Because the crying of a couple will not only bring pressure to the couple, affect their mood and mentality, but also affect the emotions and mentality of many relatives and friends!
The etiquette expert went on to say that, in short, it is taboo to cry at the wedding scene, which is mainly based on cultural and customary considerations, and aims to maintain the festive, peaceful and happy atmosphere of the wedding, so as not to affect the emotions and mentality of many relatives and friends.
However, in some wedding scenes, there will always be some couples who can't help crying, which affects the atmosphere of the whole wedding scene!
No, at the wedding scene between the bride Zhang and the groom Zhou, the bride Zhang not only cried aggrievedly, but also cried while saying "I won't marry"!
So, what's going on here?
Next, let's talk about it.
affair
May 19 is the wedding day of the bride Zhang and the groom Zhou. A video circulated on the Internet shows that the bride Zhang is sobbing and choking up and saying, "I'm not married, I'm not married." ”
So, why is the bride Zhang crying?
This needs to start from the beginning.
Let's talk about the bride Zhang first.
Zhang is 59 years old this year and belongs to remarriage. After her ex-husband died of illness, Zhang, who had no heirs, lived alone, and later, after being matched, met her current husband Zhou, so she married Zhou and went to the palace of marriage together.
Let's talk about the groom Zhou.
Zhou is 22 years old this year and belongs to the first marriage. Because Zhou has intellectual problems, it is difficult to find a partner, so his parents decided to marry Zhang, who is 59 years old this year! So that Zhou can also have a home.
Finally, let's talk about why the bride Zhang is crying.
It turned out that when the bride Zhang and the groom Zhou held a wedding ceremony, some onlookers quietly discussed that the bride Zhang was 59 years old this year, while Zhou's mother was only 42 years old, and the daughter-in-law was 17 years older than her mother-in-law, which was too different. Why is the bride Zhang embarrassed to call her mother-in-law "mother"? Doesn't the bride Zhang feel embarrassed?
An insider said that the onlookers' whispering was still heard by the bride Zhang, perhaps because the bride Zhang felt very wronged, so she cried and said "I won't marry"!
Fortunately, there were people at the scene who played a round, so that the wedding continued. And after the wedding continued, the bride Zhang seemed to have forgotten her grievances, and even guessed with the guests at the wine table!
The above is a general process of this event.
When many netizens learned about this incident, netizens started a heated discussion.
Netizen voices
Netizen gentleman loves money: Zhang doesn't need to feel wronged, his marriage is his own decision, and everything others say is in vain. After all, life is lived by oneself, and it is enough to live a good life by oneself.
Netizen: It seems abnormal for a daughter-in-law to be older than her mother-in-law, but it seems normal today. After all, in today's world where there are more men than women, this phenomenon has become commonplace!
In short, netizens have a lot to talk about.
Lao Hu's point of view
Regarding the marriage between Zhang and Zhou, Lao Hu was a little confused. According to the relevant regulations, people of unsound intelligence are not allowed to marry. But Zhou's parents married Zhang into the family. Is Zhou's parents' practice illegal? Lao Hu hasn't figured it out yet.
Lao Hu thinks: The marriage between Zhang and Zhou is just according to "improvisation", such a marriage has no meaning, and the relevant departments should intervene!