Pay attention to the diary of the fish parenting do not get lost on the way to parenting
There are three golden periods of enlightenment in the growth process of children, and parents must not miss it. We all want our children to learn the trick, but not all the time can be opened, only three times are the golden stage of the trick.
The first stage is the golden period of language development before the age of three, especially at the age of two or three, just able to understand the adults, but their own expression is not very clear stage, this stage is the golden period of language development. Found that no, the child's vocabulary in this life is at this stage, from simple vocabulary, parents to expression requirements, I like this, a word a sentence to a paragraph, language is developing rapidly. This is also why many children bring it to the elderly at the age of two or three, and when they grow up, they find that they are more introverted and speak less, in fact, they miss the first golden period of language development.
The second golden period is in the golden stage of memory explosion at the age of 3-6, there is a language foundation in front, this stage is the golden stage of the child's memory explosion, and it is found that there are not many children in this stage who can remember what you teach him. Once a few of our friends brought our children to dinner on the weekend, and after the tea and dinner, we naturally talked about the children, and I remember that a four-year-old child recited the poems of the disciple at the age of six, and a five-year-old passed the complete collection of seventy ancient poems that must be memorized in elementary school. Well ~ feelings these smart children are all together, of course not, in fact, basically all children at the age of three to six have this ability, this is an instinct he does not necessarily understand what you teach, but his brain will be like a sponge to quickly absorb what you teach, so this golden period is what you give him he absorbs he remembers. But this talent is slowly lost after the age of five or six, and if you have already given your child the golden age of the second memory, then the third you should not miss it again.
The third is the golden period of 6-12-year-old independent learning ability, but at this stage, many parents often take the wrong first step, such as staring at their children's homework, comparing their own children with others, smashing the exam, splitting their heads and covering their faces, all of which are letting children lose the internal motivation to learn and lose interest in learning. What is self-directed learning? It is to be able to complete homework independently, to listen carefully to lectures in class, not to lose concentration, to check exams, to do questions carefully and not sloppily, and to concentrate enough.
If you can stimulate your child's independent learning ability at the primary school level, then basically his learning in this life, you don't have to worry about it. The more you get to junior high school, the more you will be at ease, and learning is like a good thing for him. Of course, the third stage of how to help children improve their concentration and cultivate the ability to learn independently has been mentioned in the previous articles, and those that need to be turned over can be read.