Primary education | the best age stage for children to develop their personality, and these things parents must not ignore!

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Habits can determine a person's fate. Whether you can take on heavy responsibilities, whether you will do things, and how capable you are, I am afraid it is all related to your habits.

Take a look at this story:

A highly demanding foreign-funded enterprise recruits workers, and some young people with very good objective conditions such as academic level, height and appearance have passed five levels and six generals, entered the final level--- interview. However, I did not expect, did not ask questions, did not ask questions, in just 10 minutes, they all failed. Why?

It turned out that the general manager had left for 5 minutes, and these young people were very proud, surrounding the general manager's desk, looking at the material, flipping through the information. After 10 minutes, the general manager came back and said: The interview is over. The group of young people wondered.

The general manager said: Unfortunately, none of you have been admitted, because the company has never admitted people who mess around with things. When the young man listened, he immediately beat his chest and stomped his feet: We grew so big, we never felt how wrong it was to mess with other people's things, how serious it was!

There is only one chance, because of a bad habit, they miss the opportunity. The best age stage for children to develop their personality, these things parents absolutely can not ignore!

Etiquette habits

There are many good habits that children need to develop, including study habits and living habits, as well as some necessary etiquette habits. First of all, these etiquette habits, parents learn from it, and then teach them to their children, so that they can be used for a lifetime.

1. When bending down to pick up things and tie shoelaces, be sure to squat down, and can't pinch your ass to the sky, which looks indecent.

2. Do not make a sound when eating, do not swallow, which is not conducive to digestion and damages the image. Eat the noodles in a broken bite, don't suck them into your stomach; drink soup with a small spoon.

3. Sit on the bench with your knees together, put your hands on your knees, and sit only one-third of the chair; don't open your legs or raise your legs, ugly.

4. When visiting someone else's house, do not turn things over without the permission of the owner.

5. No matter what kind of food, no matter what you like to eat, you must control it, especially do not overeat, whether at home or outside.

6. When visiting other people's homes, regardless of whether the host cooks a meal that meets his own taste, he must issue a sincere compliment to show good taste and show respect.

7. After the meal, it is best to help the host clean up the table together; even if the other party does not let the help, it is necessary to have this move and express gratitude.

8. Answer the phone, the first sentence to say "hello", after the words are finished, let the other party hang up the phone first; if the other party lets you hang up first, after saying "goodbye", pause for 3 seconds and then hang up.

9. When someone else adds tea, pours water, or provides services for you, be sure to sit up or hold the cup with your hand to show respect.

10. Look at other people's mobile phone photos or other items such as computers, and do not flip down without permission.

11. In public, eat less large bone foods such as pig hands, bones, and chicken feet. Especially girls, grinning at things, is really not good-looking.

12. Be kind to people and always smile. It is a world pass, without borders, without translation, and never out of date.

These etiquette knowledge are the concrete embodiment of a person's good cultivation, and parents must not only teach their children, but also do a good job themselves. Because parents are the child's first teachers, every word and deed has a great impact on the child. Only when parents do a good job themselves, children will "learn from each other" and consciously abide by good etiquette norms.

In addition to these etiquette cultivation habits, parents also need to stimulate the habit of independent learning of their children, and the management of the back will be much easier, which shows how important it is to have a good learning habit!

Study habits

The student stage is the key period of good habits, the initial stage of human growth, and the initial stage of the formation of people's basic qualities. In the primary school stage, what is important is not the academic performance, but the cultivation of habits, and the children whose grades are good and bad, or like the child above, although they are very smart, they do not love to learn, and often lack good habits.

Especially for newly enrolled children, they should pay more attention to the cultivation of habits, so as to help lay a good foundation for subsequent learning and lay a good foundation for the development of children.

The following list of children's habit formation is very practical and worthy of parents' permanent collection.

7, 8 years old habits:

1. Be able to complete the homework independently and on time;

2. Develop correct writing, pen holding posture, and sitting posture;

3. Consciously read extracurricular picture books (with pinyin).

9, 10-year-old habits:

1. Daily preview;

2. Independent learning and thinking skills;

3. The operation is clean and tidy;

4. Read extracurricular reading materials.

Habits of 11 and 12 years old:

1. Listen carefully to the lecture;

2. Daily preview review;

3. Think positively;

4. The operation is quick and tidy and the accuracy rate should be high.

13, 14-year-old habits:

1. Independent learning, advance preparation and review;

2. Think positively and have your own opinions on the problem;

3.Read popular science books and literary works.

15-year-old habits:

1. Answer questions and pay attention to norms;

2. Have the habit of collecting records, especially the wrong places;

3. Learn to learn to learn from each other;

4. Extensively involved, pay attention to current affairs news.

Education is the cultivation of habits, especially at the primary school level.

There are many good habits that children need to develop, and the above habits are the most basic and important habits, which are formed before the child is 15 years old, which will lay a good foundation for the child's future learning and life. The cultivation of habits is not overnight, parents should be patient, insist on doing it, so that children will be very worry-free after high school.

Lifestyle habits

In addition to the above good habits, children must have the following skills, do your children have them?

Attitudes

If life is a piece of music, then the attitude of life is the tone, which determines the direction of destiny.

1

Positive:

It is quite important to have a positive attitude towards life. Sure, things can get really bad, but Saion is out of luck, so you should stop complaining, seek solutions, and most importantly, believe in yourself and get rid of negative thinking.

2

Motivation:

Know that the key to achieving a goal is not discipline, but motivation. How to motivate yourself in different ways and experience the joy of accomplishing your goals. Start by setting smaller, easy-to-reach goals to gradually hone this technique.

3

Drag:

This is a common problem in adults (even small children). I agree that at some point, people should spend their days wandering and enjoying lazy times. But when we have to do something, how do we make sure we can finish it on time? Teach your child to learn the lessons of procrastination, find out their procrastination habits, and study how to overcome it.

4

Passion:

An important way to succeed is to find what makes you passionate and to be fully committed. Your child won't be able to find this answer at a young age, but you should guide them to discover their passions and pursue them relentlessly, so that they understand the importance of doing so.

Social

When we live in society, we can never do without socializing, and the same is true for children.

1

Cooperation:

From an early age, we are indoctrinated with competitiveism, which is also a reflection of the adult world. As a result, despicable entrapment, mutual demolition, resentment and complaints fill our lives. Instead, teach your child that people can achieve a win-win situation, and helping others succeed will make you more successful yourself. Tell your child that making friends is better than making enemies, and learn to work as a team before competing.

2

Sympathy:

This is a subject that is completely ignored by the school. In fact, what children learn in school is often not to empathize with and help others, but to increase the difficulties of others. Children should be taught to put themselves in the shoes of others and to help them get rid of pain.

3

Love

Love and compassion are twins, compassion focuses on alleviating the pain of others, while love is the desire for the happiness of others. Both are crucial.

4

Listen:

Have our children learned how to listen in school? Or how to talk to people? Perhaps that's why many adults don't have the ability to listen, which is important. Ask your child to learn how to truly listen to others so that they can understand and feel others.

5

Talk:

Conversation and listening are closely linked, and schools do not teach children the art of conversation. In fact, schools tell children that it's not right to talk in most cases, but what we often need is to talk to each other, not to teach. This is a very important social skill that should be practiced at home from an early age. Please learn to talk to your child, not just be obedient.

Physical article

How to live comfortably and methodically is the most precious legacy that parents give to their children.

1

Housework:

How to maintain and repair various objects of the house, including plumbing, electrical appliances, heating and cooling equipment, paint, roof covering, mowing and so on. Master the work and methods of basic maintenance, and know when to call an expert to help.

2

Cleaning:

Too many adults don't learn how to deliver laundry, how to clean their rooms, how to keep their houses organized, and how to do weekly, monthly cleaning. Don't just let the kids do this and do that, but let them really learn these things.

3

Organization:

Teach children how to lay out documents, how to put things in place, how to set up to-dos, how to set up workflows, and how to focus on important work.

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