Every parent wants to develop their child into a talented person, but it often backfires. Because of love, many parents have harmed their children. Reluctant to let the child suffer, reluctant to let the child be wronged, always hope to meet all the needs of the child, which is actually harming the child. I am Teacher Wang in the parent class, and it is not easy to create, and I ask for attention.
1, can not be used to
Children don't know what to do and what not to do. When the child makes a mistake, the parent should tell him why he is wrong, and it does not matter if some things are done wrong, as long as it is corrected in time, such as accidentally breaking the bowl and saying the wrong thing. But some things must not be done, and if you do it, there will be very serious consequences, such as stealing something to be beaten, and you will be punished for breaking the law; dangerous things cannot be done, and doing it will cause irreparable harm to the body, and so on.
2, do your own thing
When children want to eat by themselves, parents prefer to feed, resulting in children who are several years old and have to be fed by parents before eating; some parents prefer to work their own, rather than let their children wash their own clothes or help with housework, so that children feel that it is natural to be a little emperor at home. If parents do everything, it will hinder the pace of children's growth, and it will still be difficult to be independent after growing up.
3. Let children learn to take responsibility
A child psychologist once said, "I can't understand why parents should teach their children to shirk their responsibilities." A person who does not know how to take responsibility will not have any success! "From the moment the child is born, he is an independent person, and on the road to growth in the future, what parents have to do is to provide conditions for the child to grow in all aspects, so that the child becomes a complete person in the true sense."
4. Cultivate the habit of learning
Some parents see their children studying hard, so they write homework instead of their children, which is absolutely unacceptable. Some parents see that their children are studying hard, so they let their children take leave, three days of fishing and two days of drying nets, so that they do not love their children. In the child's learning, parents should be fierce, not because they are worried about the child's hard work, they can not allow the child to give up halfway, but to find a way to cultivate the child's interest in learning and learning habits.
I will often update my original articles on my public account [Parent Classroom 008], mainly talking about some thoughts and methods for improving parents' education for their children. The highest level of companionship is to "live out the admiration of children". Friendly discussions are welcome.