I always thought it was good for children to be bold, but recently I changed my mind and was afraid.
Last week, I took Bean Bean and niece Guo Guo back to my grandfather's house, and at noon the 2 children refused to sleep, so I went to sleep and let them play by themselves.
When I woke up, I went to the living room to see, there was no trace of children, shouted for half a day and no one responded, 1-4 floors of each room to find all over, did not see the child, ran to the first floor, found the door open, is the family into the thief to take the child away?
I quickly called and asked the other adults in the family, all said that they did not take the child out, I immediately panicked: what should I do if the child is lost? Do you want to call the police? Can I report it now?
While thinking about it, he ran out to find someone, just walked to the alley, Doudou and his sister Guoguo held hands and hummed songs, Doudou still held a grass skating board in his hand, kicked the small slippers back.
I suddenly lost control and asked them very fiercely, "Where did you go?" Don't tell the adults, do you know that we are very worried! ”
The 5-year-old Guo Guo noticed that my tone was not right, and ran away as soon as he slipped a cigarette, and the 3-year-old Doudou did not realize the seriousness, smiled and said to me: "We went to the square to play." Giggling and running home behind her sister.
When I got home, I interrogated me, and the 2 children answered with a tongue-in-cheek answer, and it was not easy to straighten out the causes and consequences.
It turned out that the 2 children were originally playing with their brother, the brother was going to go to the writing class, and the rest of them felt bored at home, and Doudou suddenly proposed: "Let's go to the square to play." The two hit it off and went.
Shoes also did not change, Doudou took the grass skating board, the two went to the square to play, respectively, after sliding 2 times of slide, Guo Guo was afraid of being found by adults, said to go home, Doudou although reluctant, also followed his sister back.
The square is about 1 km from our house, and we have to pass through an intersection with traffic lights, and every time I go back to my grandfather's house, I take them to this square to play, but I have never let them go out alone.
After checking the surveillance video, the two men went out for half an hour before returning home. Seeing the 2 small figures in the surveillance disappear in the alley and appear again at the entrance of the alley, a few of us adults were angry and funny.
I have always felt that it is a good thing that Doudou is bold, but this time I ran out to make me think about it, fortunately it is a small county, the car is not too much, the people are not complicated, fortunately there is no accident.
Traffickers have a routine in "choosing a baby"
A moment of luck does not mean that it will always be lucky, every year the abducted children abound, every time you watch the relevant news is very heart-wrenching, behind every abducted child, is a broken family and painful, self-blame parents.
Looking at many cases of children who have gone missing, it was found that human traffickers "choose babies" have a routine, they will also divide children when they abduct children, and they will cheat away when they encounter good coaxing, and they will not waste time when they encounter clever ones.
The following 3 types of children are easy to target:
1. Children who like to eat snacks
Most children have no resistance to snacks, and many kindergartens have done similar "anti-abduction exercises", a lollipop, a toy, and 90% of the children are deceived.
Guo Guo did the same exercise in the kindergarten, and of the 30 children in the class, only 2 children were not tricked out. Fortunately, this time the two of them went out without encountering strangers giving candy, otherwise Doudou would definitely have been abducted, and once they saw the lollipop, others would let them do whatever they wanted.
2, the children of the elderly
Children are energetic, climbing high and climbing low, the old man is exhausted with the baby, sometimes the child runs far, and the old man can't keep up with the hard work in the back. If you are not careful, you may become a target for human traffickers.
3. Parents and children with weak safety awareness
Many parents like to play with their mobile phones on the side when taking their children, and occasionally look up at their children and advise their children not to run too far. But people are easily attracted by the content in the mobile phone, unconsciously immersed in it, sometimes the child runs away or is taken away, parents can not find out in time.
In addition, children who lack self-protection awareness are also easy to be targeted, they rarely receive anti-abduction and anti-deception education, in their consciousness, there is no concept of bad people, and they do not know what to do when they encounter bad people, so it is easy to be targeted by bad people.
Safety awareness education is indispensable
Since this incident, we have also realized the importance of child safety education, as parents must pay attention to it, from an early age to popularize children.
We can't accompany our children 24 hours a day, only by teaching children the ability to protect themselves can we let children grow up healthy and safe.
On the same day, we seriously educated the beans and fruits, and gave a safety education class to the children at home. Back in Shenzhen, I quickly bought several sets of safety education picture books and gave Doudou a good job of safety education.
One of the sets of "Little Princess Self-Protection Picture Book" Doudou especially likes, the same book I have been telling for 10 days in a row, every day told me to listen to the story of three babies (there are 3 children in the story).
In the past, I also said to Doudou that "you can't walk with strangers" and "you can't eat what strangers give", but what you say is far less intuitive and image than in the picture book story, and since Doudou has read this set of picture books, he has a deep understanding of the dangerous scene.
The truth is told 100 times, and it is not as effective as a good story. After telling the story, we also simulated the dangerous scenes that may occur in daily life, so that Doudou learned to deal with danger.
Safety education and quality education are indispensable, we only give children a safe knowledge in advance, let them learn how to deal with danger, so that they can get out safely in the face of danger.