Uncle Lover's Introduction:
It is said that the child is the weakness of the mother and the armor of the mother, and it is true. The hardships and feelings of being pregnant in October are real, every mother looks forward to the healthy and happy growth of her child, and it is worth it to bear and raise a child in the mother's heart.
Once a woman has children, her life is completely different, in the past your identity may only be a wife and yourself, but with children you should learn how to be a good mother. Women should do these three things once they have children.
Read books and learn
As the saying goes: "The dragon gives birth to the dragon and the phoenix, and the son born of the mouse will punch holes." This also shows that the influence of parents on children is very large, if you are not very successful and do not work hard, then you put your hopes on your children, this hope is very slim.
You have to know that we people living in this world always have to pay to get paid, if you want your children to become productive people, then you yourself must also learn to set an example for your children.
Once a woman has a child, she can not live casually, because the appearance of your life directly affects the life of the child, so women must work hard to live to know how to be motivated, we can study more to set a better example for the child, when the child sees his mother studying hard, he will naturally have an upward force. This influence is subtle, and I hope that all mothers can learn it.
Try to make money
Once a woman has a child, she has more of a mother's identity, and the mother directly affects the daily life and growth of the child. In addition to setting a good example for children, women are more about being themselves.
Although you are a mother, you are also yourself, and you cannot give up on becoming a better version of yourself because of your children. You have to be independent and confident so that your children can grow up better and your family can be happier. Once a woman has children, you should understand the importance of working hard to make money, although it is important to accompany children, but financial independence is also indispensable. When you have the ability to make money, your children and husband will look up to you and respect you and value you.
Women's happiness is actually on their own, if you spend the whole day in a fog, do not think about how to live a better life, do not think about how to earn better economic conditions, then your life will be worse and worse.
Manage the family
Many women feel that when they have a child, they should leave their time on the child, and it is best to give the child companionship. Of course, a child's childhood needs companionship, but a child's childhood also needs other things, which as a mother need to continue to learn.
Women have children do not give up to learn, you have to grow with your children, you must learn to manage your family. At this time, you must not only deal with your husband and wife relationship, but also deal with the relationship between yourself and the whole family of the child, when you handle these relationships well, your family will become quite happy and harmonious, then the days will naturally get better and better.
Uncle Epilogue:
Many women like to use children as an excuse for laziness, as a reason not to be motivated, which is actually very stupid. Children should not be a drag on you, but should be a force for your motivation. When a woman understands that after giving birth, it is not only the identity of the mother, but to participate in the family as a better self, then you can achieve true happiness.