With the continuous development of the country, people's living conditions are getting better and better, and the mainland eliminated absolute poverty last year, which is rare in the world, which shows how much effort our country has made to this end. After the living conditions are better, people pay more attention to the quality of life, pay attention to the nutritional collocation of food, pay attention to health life, so people's bodies are getting better and better, and people's average life expectancy has increased from 40 years old in 1950 to 77 years old today, which is simply a qualitative leap.
Therefore, in the current family, three generations in the same house has been a common phenomenon, basically all families can reach such a level, so it is not a big news to say that the three generations are in the same house, until now, the four generations in the same house also account for a large part of the family, even the fifth generation, the sixth family has appeared, with the economic and social development, medical care, science and technology continuous progress, these should be slowly popularized.
We all say that the family has an old, if there is a treasure, in a family, the elderly with a high life is a very blessed thing, we all know that the next generation of relatives, in our family, grandparents are very fond of their grandchildren, granddaughters, they give all their love to their grandchildren, granddaughters, what will satisfy them, although so, but it is still easy to coddling, it is not a good thing for children, so as grandparents pet children or pay attention to ways and methods, every other generation are such pampering, Not to mention two generations apart.
In some place, there is such a happy family with four generations. Mother with her daughter to the child's grandfather's house to play, because the village happened to repair the pipeline, so the door was dug up potholes, the daughter in front of the door to play, accidentally fell down, although did not fall injured, but also let the grandfather heartache broken, then, the grandfather found the construction of the personnel, paid them to quickly put the potholes in front of their own homes to level, the grandfather also led his granddaughter to stand at the door to do the "overseer", This grandfather really highlights the generation-skipping relatives to the fullest, which makes people feel very "overbearing".
As soon as this video was posted on the Internet, it attracted heated discussion among many netizens. Netizen A commented that this child's standing posture has the style of a supervisor, and he must be a supervisor when he grows up in the future, which must be a block of material; netizen B commented that this grandfather is really a "cruel person", for the sake of his granddaughter, it is really a "blood cost"! Netizen C commented that this old man can come out, and sometimes he will happily pay (manual funny); netizen D commented that this child is really too happy, and has the love from the grandfather's "domineering".
Xiaobian believes that this family of four generations is really too happy, for children is even happier, there are so many people pampered, I hope that their family can always be so happy, happy! Through such a video, we can find out how powerful the power of the next generation of relatives is, but this will also lead to a problem, that is, the problem of educating children, as a parent, children are disobedient, when they should be scolded, they should still be scolded, but because of the reasons of the generational relatives, the elderly will definitely choose to protect the children, so that the children will have the psychology of doing wrong things and being protected, and pampering has become doting, which is not conducive to the healthy growth of the child's body and mind.
As a parent, it is very difficult, after all, it is their own parents or grandparents, and they dare not blame too much. Therefore, as a parent, you should often instill thoughts with the elderly in peacetime, can not spoil the child, when you scold the child, you must stand on your side, and as a father or grandfather, pampering the child should also have a degree, excessive has become doting, but it is harmful to the child, but also let the parents of the parents and children be embarrassed.
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