Everyone should have heard of the phrase "generational relatives".
Now many parents are busy with their careers, the child is almost out of the nursing period, parents will send the child to the grandparents, let the second elder help to take care of their children.
Therefore, children will feel very close to their grandparents and feel a little strange to their parents.
Some time ago, I saw a video on Weibo: in the video, a little girl who looks to be about 4 or 5 years old is walking slowly on the street.
Suddenly, she saw her grandfather coming from not far away from the opposite side, so she sped up her pace in an instant, and her strength was so happy that she took off and jumped to her grandfather's side.
On the other hand, Grandpa was also ecstatic at the moment he saw his granddaughter, and he kept waving to the little girl, as if to tell his granddaughter: Grandpa also saw you!
Seeing this scene, they all left messages at the bottom to express their views:
@Little Obedient: "Definitely a grandfather, otherwise there would be no such move!" ”
@ You are the sun: "This is what we often say about the generation of relatives, it seems to make a lot of sense!" ”
@ Lemon is very sour: "I also want to have such a grandfather, I feel that it is true love, it is really enviable!" ”
What are the benefits of "intergenerational parents"? If it is not handled well, what kind of adverse effects will it bring?
1. The advantages brought to us by "generational relatives".
First, it plays a major role in the healthy growth of grandchildren.
Because experienced grandparents will tell children what is right and what is wrong as a person who has come over, and avoid children taking fewer detours when they are young, so that they can be promoted to grow up healthily.
Second, it brings great benefits to the lives of the sons.
Now young people are busy with their own careers, if their children have the care of the elderly, they will be much easier, so that they can concentrate on their careers and solve the worries of young people taking care of their children.
Third, there are many benefits to the ancestors.
The elderly often play with children, will become happy, the mentality will become younger than before, which will help the health of the elderly.
2. What drawbacks will "generation-skipping relatives" bring to us if they are not handled well?
First, it is easy to spoil children.
The love of ancestors is precious to children, but if their love is too full, this love will deteriorate and become a kind of coddling.
Coddling is not conducive to the healthy growth of children, and if serious, it will also have a bad impact on children's values.
Second, it affects children's education.
Grandparents are good to their grandchildren, and they also use their previous educational concepts to educate their children.
Today's rapid development of society, if the use of the older generation's educational concepts for a long time, it will make the children's education out of touch, so it is the right choice to let their educational concepts be updated.
Now parents and friends should have a certain understanding of "generation-skipping parents", "generation-skipping parents" have advantages and disadvantages, it depends on how to treat, we must actively play the advantages of this love, so that children can get healthy growth.