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Each child is an individual
They have their own likes and dislikes
For preschoolers
Parents don't force them to do these 8 things
1
Nao Matsui, the father of picture books, once said
Forcing preschoolers to recognize words in advance
It is easy for children to form dyslexia
It also destroys the imagination
Observe the child's development rules in daily life
If the child becomes interested in Kanji
You may wish to paint and read picture books
And provide a rich language environment
Let children slowly experience the artistic conception and fun of Chinese characters
Thus cultivating their ability to learn independently
2
Rather than an invalid confession
Children should know what is wrong
Understand the impact your actions have on others
Understand what responsibilities you should be
On the basis of respect for children
With a gentle and firm approach and attitude
Help your child recognize and correct mistakes
3
Some people say "good" and "sensible"
Both mean the repression of the ego
Too "obedient" for kids
There will be a lack of independence
Will hide their likes and dislikes
Will suppress the real feelings in the heart
Growing up is easy to form a flattering personality, and dare not easily reject others
When a child trades obedience and understanding for love
This is not the sadness of the child
It's the sadness of parents
4
Every child's innate temperament is different
Some children easily mingle with those around them
Some children are slow to heat up or prefer to be alone
The latter requires parents to spend more time
Understand and gently demonstrate more
Children will eventually know how to say hello politely to others
5
Compulsion can make the child more psychologically resistant
Respect your child's willingness to eat
Take the trouble to customize a recipe he likes
Let your child slowly increase their interest in eating
Compared to putting food in his mouth
Let him discover the joy of eating
Instill healthy eating habits into your head
It can affect his life
6
Once heard a sentence
Parenthood
Measure whether the love you give your child is enough
It depends on whether your child cries when he wants to cry and laughs when he wants to
Not deliberately pleasing or flattering
Treat people with sincerity and optimism
Be confident and dare to express yourself correctly
The uncle thought so
Children and adults alike will have negative emotions
When he was frustrated and crying
Parents should understand acceptance and give comforting encouragement
Then stand with him and solve the problem
Instead of holding back tears
7
I said it before
Children after the age of three should be guided to share
But guided sharing should first be based on the child's personal will
Sharing should be a joy
When voluntary becomes coercive
It's the "moral kidnapping" of adults against children.
Parents may wish to emphasize "rotation" and "exchange" with their children
Infiltrate the concept of property rights into everyday life
This will both guide the child to share happily
It can also protect the child's "sense of self"
8
Each person's personality and growth patterns are different
Interpersonal communication is never linked to emotional intelligence
Introverted, people who love to be alone
Often possess superb insight and understanding
Luo Yonghao once said
Extroverts may influence the world
But introverts create the world
Don't label "timid" and "unsociable" as labels on your child
That will increase the child's psychological burden
We must learn to accept and appreciate the innate temperament of children
Look at each child's individual differences with the right eyes
In a family
Teaching by example is more effective than any education
Good parents are a good school
Growing up with your child
It also allows children to become their best selves
A child who is fully respected from an early age
They will be very assertive on many things
Also more independent and brave
Mom and Dad, please take your time
When the child is ready
Everything happens naturally like blossoming and bearing fruit
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